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are second cousins ok to have sex with?

Postby Guest on Tue Sep 06, 2005 7:44 am

im curious

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Postby jimhashoboshoes on Tue Sep 06, 2005 8:43 am

I believe that even 1st cousins are legal to marry, but it's definitly frowned upon in most families and societies.
So I guess sleeping with your second cousin would be legal too. I have a feeling though that the rest of the family wouldn't like it very much... But I guess it depends on the family...

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Postby livehouse on Tue Sep 06, 2005 12:06 pm

legal or not its still not right

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Postby Lena on Tue Sep 06, 2005 1:54 pm

Dating couisins is common in parts of the American south . Mainly in small towns and in rural areas but not so much in citys and bigger towns . From what I have seen back in the hils of eastern Kentucky most of the people I knew first bf ( mine was , cousin Ricky Lee at 12 ) or gf and also sexual partner was a relative . I have two relatives who are first cousins who live together ad have a baby . I'd write more but my uncle/husband wants me to make him food . OK , the last sentance was a joke but everything else is true .
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Postby whynot4 on Tue Sep 06, 2005 5:24 pm

i disagree with the comment about the south. The south always gets the bad hype about people dating or sleeping with their relatives. I have been living here for 22 years and have yet to see or hear this. Mainly people just joke around about it, and when they do they refer to Arkansas not the south in general.

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Postby Lena on Tue Sep 06, 2005 5:35 pm

whynot4 wrote:i disagree with the comment about the south. The south always gets the bad hype about people dating or sleeping with their relatives. I have been living here for 22 years and have yet to see or hear this. Mainly people just joke around about it, and when they do they refer to Arkansas not the south in general.
I've lived here all my life and thats what I have seen . Like I said it seems to happen in rural area and little towns mostly . People in the citys and big towns ( unless they are from the country or little towns ) don't do stuff like that .Don't get me wrong , I now think it is goofy .
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Postby Disco on Wed Sep 07, 2005 1:32 am

Inbreeding is not good. It makes for horny progeny with bad teeth.

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Postby Mr B on Wed Sep 07, 2005 6:45 pm

Yes-as long as its someone elses second cousin. :D
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Postby Dangerfield23 on Wed Sep 07, 2005 8:15 pm

whynot4 wrote:i disagree with the comment about the south. The south always gets the bad hype about people dating or sleeping with their relatives. I have been living here for 22 years and have yet to see or hear this. Mainly people just joke around about it, and when they do they refer to Arkansas not the south in general.


I've also lived in the south for 22 years, and I have lived in Arkansas. I've lived in large and small towns, in the city and out in the country, and I can definately say you guys are full of S***. Every state in the union has its pervs, and I'm sure Arkansas is no different, but it is not the incest-ridden perv-festival the yanks make it out to be.
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Postby xXx.Lesley.xXx on Wed Sep 07, 2005 8:17 pm

It's legal to sleep with a cousin but illegal to sleep with a step brother/sister.

Well it's only illegal if you live under the same roof and you are under 18.
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Postby Joe77 on Thu Sep 08, 2005 4:17 am

I have a second cousin I'd love to nail the S*** out of-but I won't! I think it's a little weird even though genetically your second cousin doesn't really share many more genes than a non-relative.

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Postby static on Thu Sep 08, 2005 4:23 am

there are no states where its legal to marry a cousin

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Postby cj64 on Thu Sep 08, 2005 8:04 am

Dangerfield23 wrote:
whynot4 wrote:i disagree with the comment about the south. The south always gets the bad hype about people dating or sleeping with their relatives. I have been living here for 22 years and have yet to see or hear this. Mainly people just joke around about it, and when they do they refer to Arkansas not the south in general.


I've also lived in the south for 22 years, and I have lived in Arkansas. I've lived in large and small towns, in the city and out in the country, and I can definately say you guys are full of S***. Every state in the union has its pervs, and I'm sure Arkansas is no different, but it is not the incest-ridden perv-festival the yanks make it out to be.


I have to agree with Dangerfield23 on this one folks. I live in Georgia and in my entire 41 years I have never known anybody except for 1 person that was inbred. My ex-husbands mother had a child with her biological half brother, and it was not a case of rape or anything like that. It was mutual from what I understand.

Thats not to say that I have never heard of this happening before but in all those instances it happened more like 60 years ago. Heck I would imagine during that time that it didn't just occur in the south. If folks dig a little deeper into the wood pile no telling what they would find.
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Postby vivian on Fri Sep 09, 2005 3:03 pm

If they are good looking, then go for it. I dont recommend shagging your real brother or sister cos the kid could come out a bit spasticated. So always use a condom.

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Postby MaxtheGaul on Fri Sep 09, 2005 4:45 pm

static wrote:there are no states where its legal to marry a cousin


No true (eg Texas, NY and Colorado to name a few), but there are certainly no states where it is illegal to marry a second cousin.

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