Feeling lonely/heartbroken, lookin for friends =]

[AJxx]

Hey, im relatively new here been lurking for a while thought id sign up since this place is usually so interesting.
Not sure if this is the right place to say, but friendships fall under relationships right?

After breaking up with my ex, iv sort of been down on the depressed side of life, trying to find another person to fill that gap, but as we all know that usually never happens. I'm not sure if you want to no much more about it, but feel free to ask and ill post. Any girls looking for a friendship or anything else is welcome to feel to add me guys are welcome too add me as friends also, sorry im not bi or anything =\, my msn is cooliovatoaj@hot etc and i do have cam (im male incase that was missed) and im from Australia

Back on topic in a way, yeh i was cheated on, not as in just typical sex, but the whole, hidden relationship with her 'best friend' type thing, i put all my trust into her, she was older tho, im 18 n she was 23, so has this ever happened to any of you, or you new it was happening? i didn't see any signs, but now i look back on it, i can see they were there.

[Badbunny]

It's horrible when you have your heart broken, everyone has it in their lives at some point. Things do get better over time, try not to be home alone and dwell on it to much, keep yourself busy and go out with your friends when you can. The worst thing you can do is dwell on it because it eats you up.

[Verve]

You're 18 and your sad and depressed. What the f*ck is going on in this world!

Just find another bunny to satisfy your needs. Make it quick.

[AJxx]

Thanks for the replies, yeh im still going out n geting another girl really isn't the problem, i've had trust issues based on past experiences in family/friends etc, and things like this is what brings them back =\

[Verve]

At 18 let me give you a life lesson. It does not get easier it only gets harder. You have to know that in life people will disappoint you. You just have to say f*ck it and keep on moving forward. Your only 18... Life has more heart wrenching things headed your way. You'll be ok! Just be open..... the forum is fun.....find friends in the Members section and in your life. Just take it one day at a time.

[Cambridge]

Now, back to those bunnies....

[pucca90]

hi

i kind of understand what you are going through, i have just broken up from my boyfriend of 3 years, it has been just over a month and i think it might be starting to affect me. i dont want to get back with him, it is just hard to deal with the bordom and loneliness.

it is horrible what she did to you, it is better that you are apart becasue, you need to be with someone who will respect you for you, when you feel you are ready to be with someone again.

when i was at school i always had guy mates, and for the last two years all i have had i girlfriends, i really need guy company and guy conversation. i have tried to get more guy friends, but people always think i have a crush on them or something, guys think i am only talking to them because i have a crush, but i just love guy conversation lol

i would be happy to chat to you, i need guy conversation, you could use some girl conversation ...perfect lol
do you have face book, or myspace?
i hope things get better for you
take care
lyndsey

[AJxx]

Thanks for the reply lyndsey thats also sad to hear, especially because it was a long relationship as well.
Sorry for the late reply, id be happy 2 chat to you as well =]. I don't have facebook but i do have myspace, sure you don't have msn? my addy was posted, feel free to add it if you do since i don't really use myspace much but my link is www.myspace.com / aj9890 take out the two spaces between the dash

[jahnai]

This has definetly happen to me before with my ex, and all the signs were there and I paid attention to them an caught my ex cheating with his ex girl friend and i went right to her house and caught him red handed. He came back to me but by then I had lost what ever respect I had for him . And I know after that time that i caught him they continued on with there sexual relationship..... He liked to say they only slept together that one time but i no that they slept together alot after that because he was always at her house and they had a child together so that was his excuse for going there everyday and i couldn't say anything because that was were his daughter lived we enededup having a son together about three years after i initially found out that he had cheated on me and i only had my son because i desperatley wanted to love him again and thought a baby would help. it never did and we split up when my son turned five and i have never looked back feel real good that i found the strength to leave him.

[Daisy89]

I know right now u feel like its the end of the world and you just dont want to go on anymore, Ive been there. I was 16 when I met my first love and 2 yrs later he had broken my heart, cheated and left me for 'her'. I was devastated for about 3yrs and couldnt seem to move on. Until I met someone better, who treated me better and made me happier. I remember back then thinking Iam never going to move on or love someone else, but time is a great healer. You do move on and you do meet someone better, and after all the crap is done you sit and wonder why you cried and got depressed. I am now 24 and I believe that going through S*** like that has only made me a better and stronger person. It definately toughens you up, look at it as a blessing in disguise! And good luck. You deserve someone better