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Postby Guest » Wed Jul 06, 2005 4:03 pm

my mother in law is a monster she thinks its her man! she would share our bed if she could constanly in our face!
i she's very clever give me time cos im just as clever! war has been declared!!!!!!!!!
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will someone take her

Postby Guest » Wed Sep 28, 2005 8:41 pm

I think that anyone who hasn't live with an MIL can say boo. There "are" MIL's that want their son back, no matter what. And will do anything to achieve that, even it's to break up their marriage. Mine just threw away the great dinner that I made last night. Her son, just watched. She played the maytr saying she has a headeache. And her son, my husband, say, Oh, you poor thing, go lay down. When in reality, she was just stabbing me. :twisted:

For the people who think daughter in laws are jerks, stand up, give your address and we'll all ship our MILs to your house. :lol: You will quickly change your tone.
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outta here

Postby Guest » Thu Nov 17, 2005 9:55 pm

got the MIL out of the house :lol: Gimme a high-5. Told the hubby that I'm finding her an apt. and he finally agreed. The moment they called and said an apt was ready, she was told it was ready. She cried and didn't want to leave because her monther said she's was gonna die in six months. Thanks mum. They thought I was putting her in an old folks home. They hate me because they said i was kicking her out. Of course my MIL failed to tell them that she had been searching for her own apt. She wanted me to look bad the whole way though. So I just gave her a boost. :D so the mother took her in and she's living with her month, who is 97. Gee, why didn't she do that in the first place. She just wanted to be nosy and see what we do in our house, that's all. She caused misery the entire time because she meddled into everything. Stupid hubby for lettting her. I had to take action and get my house back in order, and now it's done. Victory at last. Women may not have balls, but we have something else better. :lol:
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Postby Guest » Mon Nov 28, 2005 2:02 am

If my son had married a woman who has as capable of hatred as much as some of you lot I would tell him to get on with it.

The truth is, many brides swallow the garbage about mothers in law wanting to hang onto their little boys, and they start off with hatred from the word go.

The truth is we sixty somethings want to cut the apron strings and enjoy life, we have better things to do than try to get them back.

Keeo our sons. You are welcome to them. Just spare us the hatred.
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Postby 45boy » Mon Dec 26, 2005 11:58 pm

. wrote:If my son had married a woman who has as capable of hatred as much as some of you lot I would tell him to get on with it.

The truth is, many brides swallow the garbage about mothers in law wanting to hang onto their little boys, and they start off with hatred from the word go.

The truth is we sixty somethings want to cut the apron strings and enjoy life, we have better things to do than try to get them back.

Keeo our sons. You are welcome to them. Just spare us the hatred.


well said,mils are so cool and there to be enjoyed :P
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Re: Mother in law

Postby GUESTY » Mon Jan 12, 2009 4:39 pm

I don't talk to MY inlaws anymore............. Even when I see them I just ignore them.
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Re: Mother in law

Postby Guest » Thu Jan 15, 2009 5:01 pm

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Re: Mother in law

Postby hithere » Fri Feb 06, 2009 1:37 am

Some MIL's are so focused on me, me, me, themselves at this point in life, it's sick and like a one-man fan club.
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Re: Mother in law

Postby ft237 » Fri Feb 06, 2009 1:39 am

To the MIL poster above: then don't give out the hatred and you shouldn't get it back. Your daughter in law usually wouldn't start disliking you unless there were a REASON.
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Re: Mother in law

Postby Guest » Fri Feb 06, 2009 11:28 am

GUESTY wrote:I don't talk to MY inlaws anymore............. Even when I see them I just ignore them.



And you DILs wonder why your MIL don't like you?

If you were smart and wanted to keep your man, you'd wise up and not make him make a choice between the woman who raised him and the woman he married. If you think you're not making him make a choice, keep being a biotch to his mother and see where that gets you.

I love my MIL. Sure, she does and says things that make me cringe sometimes but you won't find me treating her like crapola and talking like an ingrate to or about her. My husband and her grandchildren appreciate that.
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Re: Mother in law

Postby Zaphod » Sun Feb 08, 2009 10:35 pm

I'm quite fond of all my (now ex) in-laws, it's their daughter who I cant stand & was a complete headbanger
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Re: Mother in law

Postby clarirose » Fri Nov 05, 2010 12:19 pm

I can relate to that first post My mother in-law of almost 17 yrs has been so unbearable its unreal, because of her lie`s and mental abuse. she started the moment i met her that was before i was with her son, i was engaged to him for 4.5 yrs and then I was married to her son for 2.5yrs and had two children in the first 7yrs i almost miscarraged with both children and i had a miscarriage a year after my daughter was born due to the verbal abuse and mental abuse from her. Unfortunatly for me my Husband never stood by me and just let her get away with it until she turned on him. She`s dropped my daughter in the bath, phoned social services on me saying i was a bad mother, gone through my things, called me every name under the sun and the list goes on. when my husband died while carring my second child, i thought maybe she would back off, how wrong was i, it just got worse i was told i didnt understand how the family felt because i wasnt blood, and i was still pregnant. took over all funeral arrangements i had no say in any thing. I was even accused of sleeping with my husbands brother by her and she told the whole family that was 3mths after he passed away, i was bullied on a daily bases until my dad stepped in, she denied every thing as always saying it was my grief that made me say it? Now she`s turned on my kids I so want to knock ten bells out of her, but i know she`d have me arrested in seconds. She had mentally destroyed me for 13yrs and then i met my my new partner who protects me now and tells her straight back off. But she still telling her poisonous lie`s to family, i`ve had them in my work being nasty and rude infront of customers and colleges, my daughter ran away because she went to see them and they started slagging me off and because she came and told me they denied it all and she couldnt handle her grandparents turning on her like that, my daughters 14yrs. My kids have been tortured by her going on about their dad my son now 9yrs never met him and yet she is so nasty to them about it. Dont forget your dad you better have photo`s up of him you look just like him, you DONT look anything like your mother etc. Its a total living hell every minute of the day. I`m looking at Legal action now because i`ve had enough, I`ve got medicall records, social services records the works. She is the most eviliest person i have ever met!
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Re: Mother in law

Postby mensagirl » Sat Nov 27, 2010 9:34 pm

Clarirose that sounds like hell. How unfortunate you have put up with that all these years. I do hope you have found happiness with your new partner. Obviously your first Husbands mother has some major problems.

Enjoy your new life and keep that woman out of your life from now on!
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