by clarirose » Fri Nov 05, 2010 12:19 pm
I can relate to that first post My mother in-law of almost 17 yrs has been so unbearable its unreal, because of her lie`s and mental abuse. she started the moment i met her that was before i was with her son, i was engaged to him for 4.5 yrs and then I was married to her son for 2.5yrs and had two children in the first 7yrs i almost miscarraged with both children and i had a miscarriage a year after my daughter was born due to the verbal abuse and mental abuse from her. Unfortunatly for me my Husband never stood by me and just let her get away with it until she turned on him. She`s dropped my daughter in the bath, phoned social services on me saying i was a bad mother, gone through my things, called me every name under the sun and the list goes on. when my husband died while carring my second child, i thought maybe she would back off, how wrong was i, it just got worse i was told i didnt understand how the family felt because i wasnt blood, and i was still pregnant. took over all funeral arrangements i had no say in any thing. I was even accused of sleeping with my husbands brother by her and she told the whole family that was 3mths after he passed away, i was bullied on a daily bases until my dad stepped in, she denied every thing as always saying it was my grief that made me say it? Now she`s turned on my kids I so want to knock ten bells out of her, but i know she`d have me arrested in seconds. She had mentally destroyed me for 13yrs and then i met my my new partner who protects me now and tells her straight back off. But she still telling her poisonous lie`s to family, i`ve had them in my work being nasty and rude infront of customers and colleges, my daughter ran away because she went to see them and they started slagging me off and because she came and told me they denied it all and she couldnt handle her grandparents turning on her like that, my daughters 14yrs. My kids have been tortured by her going on about their dad my son now 9yrs never met him and yet she is so nasty to them about it. Dont forget your dad you better have photo`s up of him you look just like him, you DONT look anything like your mother etc. Its a total living hell every minute of the day. I`m looking at Legal action now because i`ve had enough, I`ve got medicall records, social services records the works. She is the most eviliest person i have ever met!