F******* Men!

[SamBrown]

Can anyone give me their opinion?

Last Thursday i phoned my boyfriend and the phone answered but he didn't know i was on the phone listening to everything him and he's friends talk about.

His friend said to him "would you fu** Sarah" and he replied with "yes!!, Sarah is really nice and i would definitely fu** her"

Then he said to his friend "when you get sarah make sure you send her to me so that i can quickly FU** her and if she wants a relationship i will say no"

Please someone tell me what to do, i couldn't believe my ears when i heard this, i heard a completely different person on the phone. I really didn't think that he talks like that about other girls.

Is this normal behaviour for a guy when with friends to show off or does it sound like he's a cheater?

[Pete]

No, men don't say disrespectful, disgraceful things like that. Adolescent boys or dorks do, but not adult men.

And you? What do you say? Do you think you would be censored by this board if you typed in jews or blacks or muslims, instead of 'men', when you typed that topic tilte.? Why be so bigotted as to type that horrible phrase. Are you so much better than the dorks you write about?

[Sam]

I agree with Pete about labelling all men, but back to your main question.

Your b/f may well have been under the influence when you called, that and being with his mates will certainly have made him more likely to indulge in bravado. I often hear friends of mine in all male company talk about how they fancy various women, wouldn't throw them out of bed and so on. I also happen to know that similar conversations go on in all female groups. None of this is very serious and most times nothing happens.

I don't know how accurately you are quoting, but if you are, then my gut says lots of alcohol and lots of bravado, those don't sound like the sort of words someone would use if they seriously intended to do anything, blokes don't send women round for other people to f**k. Having said that he still sounds like he was behaving like a complete prat. I would just tell him what happened and watch his eyes - they will tell you everything you want to know.

[Tony]

F*********ing women. Find a board like this and what do we see? Women treating men as sex objects, slagging then off, talking sh*te about their dicks, sh*gging two at a time, dressin them up as women to pretend they are lesbians, etc etc. And then saying F*****king MEN !

[sharyn]

and if the tables were turned and this was "men first" we wld see exactly the same - men moaning about women! some of our topics might cause offense but we dnt mean it, most of the time its women, and some men btw, asking for advice!
this is a good forum and is only made bad, at times, by bad users

be nice ppl

[Daily-lady]

Tony you poor sad person you must feel very insecure. When a bloke treats a girl badly and we complain you go off on one, this tells a story in itself