???PREGNANCY????HELP

[beba]

HI IM NEW HERE. BUT I WAS JUST WOUNDERING IF ANY1 CAN HELP. WELL IVE BEEN TRYING T GET PREGNANT FOR ABOUT 6-7 MONTHS KNOW AND I FEEL LIKE IT HASNT BEEN WORKING. I WAS SOPPOSE TO GET MY PERIOD THE 3 OF JANUARY BUT I DIDNT, I DIDNT GET A HOME PREGNANCY TEST TODAY AND IT CAME OUT NEGATIVE. DO YOU THINK ITS TOO EARLY FOR ONE. PLEASE HELP. I REALLY WANT TO HAVE A BABY BUT IT SEEMS THAT EVERYTHING I DO DOESNT WORK ANY ONE HAS ANY ADVISE PLEASE FEEL FREE TO TELL ME .

THANKS

[great]

Yes i think it's to early.. I did my first pregnancy test around 2 weeks after the happy moment and it came back negative. 3 or 4 days latter i went to the doctor to have a test done there and it was all positive..
Good luck

[beba]

THANKS FOR WRITING BACK. WELL IT TURNS OUT IAM NOT PREGNANT BUT HEY WHAT CAN I DO. WELL THE THING IS THAT IVE BEEN TRYNG FOR 6-7 MONTH AND NOTHING. MY BOYFRIEND JUST TOLD ME TODAY THAT I WAS STRESSING IT AND PUSHING IT FOR A LONG TIME KNOW, HE HAD THE NURVE TO SAY IF IT HAPPENS IT HAPPENS DONT YOU THINK IT WAS PREETY HARSH FOR HIM TO TELL ME THAT . KNOW I DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE ILL PROBABLY GIVE UP TRYNG. IT JUST SUKS WHEN THERE IS JUST ONE PERSON IN THE RELATIONSHIP THATS TRYNG AND THE OTHER THAT JUST DOESNT CARE. WHAT DO I DO HELP ME PLEASE I FEEL STRESSED OUT DONT KNOW WHAT TODO OR THINK.
THANKS

[shas]

i hate to agree with your boyfriend but it has been less then a year that you have been trying I would not get so stressed about it yet give it some time befor you start to worry I would give it at least another 6 mounths then you may want to talk to your Dr. on a side note I started dating my husband when we where 16 foolishly we used no protection for 3 years and we never got pregnant after we split I dated another man for 6 years with out protection no pregnancy by this time I was sure I could not have kids I then got back with the man who I dated as a teen and is my husband now we where back togeathe for about 3 year and we got pregnant had my son we where sure it was a fluke but desided to use birth controll but it did not matter I got pregnant with my daughter 8 mounths later. please forgive my spelling

[beba]

THANKS WELL I WILL JUST LET IT GO IF IT HAPPENS HAPPENS. BUT THANK FOR WRITING BACK TO ME I APRECIATE IT I WAS JUST TRYING TO HARD ILL JUST RELAX AND LET IT HAPPENS WHEN IT HAPPENS . DONT YOU THINK THATS A GOOD IDEA.

[Vampyrella]

Getting pregnant isnt as easy as everyone seems to think it is. It took me 8 months to fall pregnant with my first baby, my 2nd one seemed to happen over night.

Pregnancy can only occur once you have ovulated which is generally mid cycle or 14 days before your next period is due. It has to happen when the ovum is released and is still in the ampula of the fallopian tube. Conception must happen at this stage so that when the ova reaches the womb it is in precicely the right stage of development to implant. This leaves you about 12 hours in your cycle in which you can concieve. Sperm can live up to 3 days so if you try the day before your due to ovulate you have a good chance of falling pregnant.

The problems occur when you have to try and pinpoint ovulation. Try around days 14-18 of your cycle (day 1 being the first day you bleed) You can also tell by your body if you are ovulating, your temperature will go up slightly and your cervical mucous will become thinner and slippier. also you can get those tests to find out