Do Not Wait

[Toner]

I've read lots of messages on here from people who are "new to this", "been curious, but done nothing about it".Don't leave it, I've been bi-curious for years, done nothing about it and now it's too late. I'm 42, and a size 16,who's going to want me now? All I have left now is the fantasy, the chance to live it out is gone.

[Sylvia51]

Hi Toner

I am 51 , lesbian and single. At 42 you are a young women. Would love to chat if you are interested.

Silvy

[B_Sall]

If you really want to do it then of course you can. But there is no rule saying that people of size 16 and above can not have sex.

Young or old you can have sex. The idea of bi-sexuality may be appealing to some people, and to others it is best left as a fantasy.

Instead of being a hypocrite and telling people to try something which you've never tried, why dont you go out there, sample some muff-to-muff action and tell us if you liked it or loathed it.

[Toner]

If you really want to do it then of course you can. But there is no rule saying that people of size 16 and above can not have sex.

Young or old you can have sex. The idea of bi-sexuality may be appealing to some people, and to others it is best left as a fantasy.

Instead of being a hypocrite and telling people to try something which you've never tried, why dont you go out there, sample some muff-to-muff action and tell us if you liked it or loathed it.

I am not being a hypocrite it is just that I was scared to show my real feelings and now that I have the courage to do so I feel that I left it to late and just wished I had done it earlier when I was in my twenties and had more of a good time. My advice is for girls if they are like us then do not miss out, THATS ALL iM TRYING TO SAY

[Mia]

Hi Toner

Dont be so depressed and sorry for yourself. If you feel you have the courage why dont you make contact with some of the ladies on another post entitled bi- sexual curious. Here you will see examples of women who are not afraid to explore their bi sexuality with each other.

Mia x

[Guest]

I've read lots of messages on here from people who are "new to this", "been curious, but done nothing about it".Don't leave it, I've been bi-curious for years, done nothing about it and now it's too late. I'm 42, and a size 16,who's going to want me now? All I have left now is the fantasy, the chance to live it out is gone.

I fantasize of having sex with a chubby woman in her 40s.I am sure there are many other women who do so,too.

[Guest]

Same age as me, Toner and I've waited too long too.....wanna chat about htis?

Sarah

[pink_high_heels]

. . . life begins at forty?

I'm forty in a few months and I don't consider myself as old, I'm going to do what I do now, have the time of my life.

Oh, and size 16 is voluptious, girl!

[pink_high_heels]

Ooops, excuse my spelling - "Voluptuous"

[Dantasia]

Can I just suggest that maybe some women aren't ready to test their sexual boundaries until they're more mature? Sexuality can change naturally over time - it's not set in stone when you reach 18 or 21 or whatever. Maybe your subconcious was telling you to wait until you could handle a bi lifestyle.

Also let me echo other posters - size 16 is nothing to be ashamed of (unless you're only 4 feet tall....)

[Guest]

Can I just suggest that maybe some women aren't ready to test their sexual boundaries until they're more mature? Sexuality can change naturally over time - it's not set in stone when you reach 18 or 21 or whatever. Maybe your subconcious was telling you to wait until you could handle a bi lifestyle.

nah! it's a bit on the heavy side