I have Been trying hard. I still cant get pregnant!

[Guest]

i live in the us and could knock u up if ya want

[Guest]

My name is Jodi I had an abortion about 7 months ago and when the time comes when I wanna have a kid I dont know if ill become pregnant. I dont wanna disapoint my bf when were ready to have kids. Its just ive heard stories of people having abortions and then not getting pregnant again when they really want a child. What should i do!! Help me.....

Help you????

The help you need cant be found here female! You had an abortion and you brush it off with your next comment... "when the the time comes... when I wanna have a kid"........

Are you insane? The gift of being fertile isnt a "if I wanna" deal... it's a gift... and God is a very fogiving soul... good job too cause if it was me I'd kill your eggs now... you speak of abortion like I speak of pouring away the last bits of a coffee.....

And just to add to what you said.... "I dont wanna disapoint my bf when were ready to have kids" .... If you are worried about dissaponting a man when it comes to children then you have a LOT to learn....

I suggest .... whatever your age is now.... wait another 10 years before trying for another child... and think hard about what you are doing... perhaps you might even be blessed with a child from an orphanage... maybe you can (heal) by adopting a child someone else might have killed via abortion....

I wont appologise for being so harsh....... your little post was vile!

hi
im from the uk and i think its totally disgusiting what you said to that girl about having a abortion! i had one too i was 15 and it was 5 years ago this year and i still suffer to this day about having one, do you know its a hard decision to make? and you go through hell having one? you should think twice about judging people because if you was in that situation what would you do?

[lilliana]

I agree. You dont quite know exactly what the situation was. I had one myself. I was 18 years old and the condom broke. My intentions were not to get pregnant. I was not married, although i wish i could have had the baby, considering the circumstances at the time, to carry full term would have been a selfish decision, ended up in resentment, or not made me a fit parent.

I will have to answer to god for it, and I understand that, however, god and i have our own relationship.

Now that I'm 27 and married to the greatest man (and not the hole from the above incident), we too are trying to concieve. He has had a visectomy reversal. I was on depo for 3 years, then BC pills for 2.

I stopped taking pills last Nov.2005.

I know it will take some time.

[gingerbread]

so what do you think, me and my partner have been trying for six months to get pregnant with no luck, i was late this month i was really hoping this would be it but yet again my period came. im young thought it wouldn't be hard, the other thing thats on my mind is the thought that i had an abortion last year i feel like im letting him down but he is so brilliant and aways keeps my head up. but i cant help feeling down about this im worried, is there something wrong.

[angelb]

Timing is important.
You need to have intercourse around the time of ovulation .
Ovulation occurs approx 14 days before your period starts.
If your cycle is regular-easy.
If not ovulation predictors can help.

Visit www.accessdiagnostics.co.uk for a range of ovulation predictors , home fertility tests, fertility vitamin supplements for him & her & early pregnancy tests at great prices.

Hope this helps.

[Guest]

Some people find it hard to get preggers if they are udnerweight or overweight or whatever. Do you have any health problems?

[tropicalsweetie]

Hi I am 22 years old and my husband and I have been together for 5 years now and we just got married in july. We have been having unprotected sex for as long as I can remember, a few years now and we never use the "withdrawl" method. I have an irregular period so therefore I don't ovulate I'm sure because I haven't gotten pregnant yet. I am soo afraid to go to the gyno and find out whats up with me, or if its him so what should I do? any advice would be greatly appreciated.

[happygirl]

Im afraid that I cant get pregnant. Im 23 years old and have been married for three years. I have NEVER used any form of contrceptive with my husband, and yet after three years, we have still bee unable to get pregnant. Im not too sure whats wrong. We have both been to doctors and all our tests come out fine...im young and healthy...why cant I get pregnant???

hi lalita i understand where your comming from it too me and my hubby 5yrs to concieve we had tests done and they all came out fine.the weirest thing happened we went on holiday one year had a great timetook it all away from our minds.because i was always upset when my period came.on our hols i flew got drunk had a good time and bugger me i came home was 2 wks late and did a test it was pssotive so trust me it can happen.i now have two beutifull sons. it will happen for you babe.

[Guest]

Hi all, im 39 and having the same problem not conceiving, we've been trying 3 months now i know its not long but im getting frustrated, i keep thinking is it my age or is it my cycles, i had a period november 15th after 26 days, my next period was december 7th 23 days,and damn me thought i was preggie this month cos im late done a test this morning which was negative and came on an hour later looks like an ovulation test eh but any advice will be reali appreciated, just like to say too, all the best and good luck to all trying fingers crossed to all of us xx

[sashae83]

Hi I am 22 years old and my husband and I have been together for 5 years now and we just got married in july. We have been having unprotected sex for as long as I can remember, a few years now and we never use the "withdrawl" method. I have an irregular period so therefore I don't ovulate I'm sure because I haven't gotten pregnant yet. I am soo afraid to go to the gyno and find out whats up with me, or if its him so what should I do? any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Sounds like you need to go to the gyno, it's sounds like a hormone problem and could be something which is easily solved. But it depends on where you live and your GP as to how quickily you get seen by a consultant.

[Guest]

My name is Jodi I had an abortion about 7 months ago and when the time comes when I wanna have a kid I dont know if ill become pregnant. I dont wanna disapoint my bf when were ready to have kids. Its just ive heard stories of people having abortions and then not getting pregnant again when they really want a child. What should i do!! Help me.....

Help you????

The help you need cant be found here female! You had an abortion and you brush it off with your next comment... "when the the time comes... when I wanna have a kid"........

Are you insane? The gift of being fertile isnt a "if I wanna" deal... it's a gift... and God is a very fogiving soul... good job too cause if it was me I'd kill your eggs now... you speak of abortion like I speak of pouring away the last bits of a coffee.....

And just to add to what you said.... "I dont wanna disapoint my bf when were ready to have kids" .... If you are worried about dissaponting a man when it comes to children then you have a LOT to learn....

I suggest .... whatever your age is now.... wait another 10 years before trying for another child... and think hard about what you are doing... perhaps you might even be blessed with a child from an orphanage... maybe you can (heal) by adopting a child someone else might have killed via abortion....

I wont appologise for being so harsh....... your little post was vile!

hi
im from the uk and i think its totally disgusiting what you said to that girl about having a abortion! i had one too i was 15 and it was 5 years ago this year and i still suffer to this day about having one, do you know its a hard decision to make? and you go through hell having one? you should think twice about judging people because if you was in that situation what would you do?

"I agree. You dont quite know exactly what the situation was. I had one myself. I was 18 years old and the condom broke. My intentions were not to get pregnant. I was not married, although i wish i could have had the baby, considering the circumstances at the time, to carry full term would have been a selfish decision, ended up in resentment, or not made me a fit parent.

I will have to answer to god for it, and I understand that, however, god and i have our own relationship.

Now that I'm 27 and married to the greatest man (and not the hole from the above incident), we too are trying to concieve. He has had a visectomy reversal. I was on depo for 3 years, then BC pills for 2.

I stopped taking pills last Nov.2005.

I know it will take some time."


Errrr....have you lot ever heard of the MORNING AFTER PILL??!!!!
Don't come on here talking about the 'A' word when there are (some) women who are desperate for children.
The only time when abortion is acceptable is if the pregnancy is a result of 'non-consentual sex'...without wanting to spell it out.

Even so, posting about this subject on such a post is incredible insensitive and you should expect this sort of hostile response!

[dawter_of_the_devil]

i live in the us and could knock u up if ya want

you r a sad strange man or by the way you talking boy grow up and find someone else to listen to ur crude comments im sure this woman wants a baby to a man not a kid

[chase-me]

someone on here suggested goddess mums a while back? well I joined and in the last 5 weeks THIRTEEN women have got pregnant. The rumers about it being 'blessed' are true!

[queenieohme]

me and my husband have been together for 2 years now we dated eachother for about 2 years before we got married i am 20 years old and am trying to have a baby we have been trying ever since our honeymoon. but nothing is happening. i have been to the doctor they just said we need to go on some mommy to be pills. i would rather keep trying it on my own with out pills. Anyone know have any advice?

[rena]

do what you have to do, but do the right thing.