Definitely, too far.
All due to shift in women's rights and thinking, the western world has become less caring and compasionate. Such altruistic behavior was the norm when women stayed home to care for family (and once family has grown, they would care for others and the aged).
In today's society, we are hard pressed to find anyone who would volunter their time toward others, let alone their own family. It's the norm that you get some lowly nanny to take care of your offspring so that you can enjoy your day, and then later complain how the adolescents don't comply with your wishes.
Unfortuately there is no easy cure to such ills in society.

