female advice

[sens]

Yeah i'm out partying tonight!

You have a good night too!

See what i mean though "if she marries a guy i'd be a touch jealous" swallow your pride al, you still want her and she wants you!

In the future it may be too late, people grow and people change!

You seem like a nice guy though, and i hope that you find the happiness and girl that you most truly deserve!

x

[al-20]

thanks sens

well, we'll see. i would have contacted her but i am with someone and so that would be v v unfair. actually i'm content with my girlfriend although the animal chemistry isn't nearly so strong!

if anything happens i'll make a posting for you to "inspect"!

take care, al x

[sens]

I know al, but see you have me intrigued now!

Why is it that you won't contact her again? Any other reason apart from you having a girlf? Does your girlf like this other woman?

Sorry bout all the questions lol! I should be a journalist with my questioning technique shouldn't i, now theres a idea lol

[al-21]

Why are you intrigued!!!

At a guess, you think I should get in touch...

My g/f doesn't know her but probably would recognise her given that we've bumped in to each other on two occasions.

I had to tell her all about my ex ( as a matter of courtesy ) and she thinks my ex is a touch psycho!

will post again sometime soon no doubt. have a great week

al x

[sens]

I'm intrigued cause i was going through a similar thing!

[al-22]

ok - what happened? i'm off out now so i'll view your reply tomorrow

bye, al

[babes]

Hi al!

Have just read your posts and i have to say that i'm intrigued too!

Why on earth did she send you fifty text messages in a short space of time, she was obviously still hung up on you!

I do agree with sens though and as there been any progress?

[al-23]

hi babes

i was surprised she contacted me. we'd been apart for 8 months when this all started. it was weird because she has/had a boyfriend but chose never to mention him. she's far too vain and stubborn to directly ask me back but it was in the air.

the full story is in the "just for men" forum. the author name is "very-confused" ( which i was at the time ) the message title was "i need some good advice" It may be on page 2 or 3 by now as i haven't checked recently.

at a guess, you agree that she was interested in getting back together ( not sure if she was hung up on me however! )

thanks for your message and welcome to the FF forum!

al

[babes]

Hello al

Thanks for the welcome!

It does all seem very confusing !

But the question is do you still feel for her or want to get back together, if not now but maybe in the future?

[al24]

hi babes been aw2ay all week hence no reply!

heart says yes i'd like to be with her but head says no. and sure, i think about her everyday and about what could have been.

but too much time has passed and i don't have the mental energy to persue the issue. i know we avoid each other like the plague. i'd take a guess that she shares the same thoughts as me but she, too, hurt when we split.

i've developed a "nasty" habit of bumping in to her friends for some reason. no conversation just sheepish smiles!

i could go on but it would bore you!. hope birmingham is sunny cos it's lovely here in scotland. think i'll get out on my bike!!
al x

[babes]

Hello Al

Nice to hear from you again!

My advice is just let it be, if it happens it'll happen!

x