Can't make her cum. Even with G-spot

[helpwantedguy]

I can't seem to ever make my gf cum.

I would lick her clit and finger her at the g-spot for 20+ minutes and she could still not cum. I know I have the right area for the g-spot because she has that peeing feeling. She tells me it feels good and ticklish (is it suppose to feel ticklish too?). She would move her hips all over the place (left, right, trust...). The same sort of wild and erratic movement as if someone is tickling her. I can feel that she gets very wet inside and feel her contractions. I have told her it's ok to pee, nothing is going to come out and she believes me.

Am I doing something wrong? Did she cum and didn't know it? How will she know if she came?

[TiffanyTheInnocent]

i seem to have the issue ur girl has
i get myself really wet and sticky somtimes but i just dont think im CUMMING... it just might be that some girls cant, some can...still feels Gr8 though;)

[SirenNymph]

..she'll Know if she comes..

First, make sure she just relaxes and enjoys the sensations and does not focus so much on trying to orgasm! Sometimes Trying is a distraction.. better to Let it happen. Trying so hard can make them evasive. Don't make orgasming such a Goal. Make her pleasure your goal. Dedicate yourself to the pleasure of her body and don't stop serving her until she is writhing all over the place and practically worshipping you.

Second, do not forget the most important eroneous zone of all! The mind!! It's not all physical. Get into her head. That's the best way to turn someone on aside from good technique. Also pay close attention to her body language. I can easily make most any man orgasm four or more times in a row from oral sex and I can do this because I am extremely attentive to their body language, and through reading this, basically own their sensations. Tickles can be distracting, so can oversensitivity and feeling like you have to pee! =) When she's extremely turned on she should feel none of that. Least I don't when I'm on the verge of orgasm, though I can before I am turned on enough to be on the verge!

[guest]

My girl has the same problem where she doesn't come even though we are there more than a half hour. What other opinions you would think I need to do. It has to be something mentally that does not let her do. What can it be?

[Guest]

I can't make my g/f either. She gets so close, contracts, gets wet, etc. Then...nothing. In fact, it starts to hurt after that mostly.

[aaarrrggh!]

i always get dead wet and sticky, and feel embarrased about it, but this is normal right?!!just i dont think my bf expected me 2 b this bad, so i wont let him finger me, he has fingered other people b4, but i am 2 embarrased cuz i get so sticky and think he won't wana do it, eeek!

[turner]

It is all in the mind..I've had men do amazing things to me (chicks too)
but if you are thinking or stressed about something, it's just not going
to happen.

Try to take her mind off of whatever is going on or be really spontaneous..
that may work. Good luck.

[USA guy]

First both of you have a (1) drink to relax you. Don't dive right into it. Start out slow with rubbing all over the body staying away from the most sensitive areas. When you do get down to oral stay away from the clit except for quick licks. Wait until she is good and worked up to pay more attention there. Still don't concentrate on her clit. Go back and forth between things. Rub her body at the same time. Try 69 while doing this but watch out because they sometimes bite down when they do cum. When you think she's about there suck the whole area around the clit along with licking. Ease up a little after she has started and eventually stop direct contact with the clit. Move your tongue back to the vaginal area between orgasms.

With straight sex do some slow steady strokes for a half hour with lots of kissing and rubbing your bodies together. When she starts to show signs of getting worked up start to grind the part of you that is right above your penis against her same area above her vagina. That means less stroking and more grinding, mostly in small circles. She will direct you to the good spots. Listen to her and pay attention to when she's feeling it.

If she's feeling the peeing urge, she's almost there ... don't slow down, speed up.

Lastly, Sex is a messy affair. If you have a problem with that you will always have problems. Lay down some plastic or something. The women that are the wettest usually cum the hardest.

Relax and enjoy

[NewGuy]

Ok, here's my scenario... I am my GFs 2nd boyfriend, and she has never had an orgasm, not by me, and not by him either. In fact, she doesnt masteurbate and so she has no idea what its like. Her ex tried using a vibrator on her and that didnt work either. The funny thing is that she is a nympho, dispite never orgasming. I love eating her out, and she claims that me giving her oral is "20 times better than any sexual experience..." that she has ever had. (Compaired to Everyone i know, I have an EXTREMELY quick and flexible tongue, and alotta guys i know are jealous of my "tongue trick".) The problem is, right whenever it seems as if she is going to have an orgasm, (moaning hard, clit swells up, leg contractions, body spasms, etc...) she get what she says is "ticklish" and then she says afterwards that her clit is too sore. What do you guys think is her problem? I mean, it seems as if she is really close... Is she trying too hard to get off? Not relaxing enough? I mean im happy she LOVES what i can do to her, but i just dont feel like im doing good enough untill i can get her off. Whatta u people think?

[foolsgold]

if shes happy w/ what your doing then i wouldnt be that upset about it.

[NewGuy]

Could it be possible that she might be having orgasm and not know it? (She gets incredibly wet, but she isnt cumming) Is it possible for a girl to get off and not cum? And back to my previous post... are there any other girls out there that couldnt get off cuz they got ticklish? (If so, how did you eventually get past it and finally orgasm?) Tips??? Anything would be helpful people.

[NewGuy]

Could it be possible that she might be having orgasm and not know it? (She gets incredibly wet, but she isnt cumming) Is it possible for a girl to get off and not cum? And back to my previous post... are there any other girls out there that couldnt; cuz they got ticklish, but now can get off? (If so, how did you eventually get past it and finally orgasm?) Tips??? Anything would be helpful people.

And I'm not really that upset about it, im not loosing sleep over it or anything. But Im scouring the internet trying to figure out how to help her get past it. I love her and just want her to know what it feels like to finally experience an orgasm.

[NewGuy]

Sorry about that double post (Though the second one has alittle more added on). My computer messed up, so just ignore the first of the double.

Thanks

[NewGuy2]

My wife is the exact same way too. It becomes too "ticklish" for her too. Haven't found a solution yet. Anybody else can help us?

[NewGuy2]

My wife is the exact same way too. It becomes too "ticklish" for her too. Haven't found a solution yet. Anybody else can help us?