The principle men at our wedding are wearing matching outfits but these are fairly laid back (i.e. dark trousers and white, collarless open-neck shirts). As the shirts will be unfastened at the neck, I would really like them all to wear the same type of necklace – a leather cord with a few beads on it. Also, my partner, his dad and one of the ushers wear a single ear-ring whilst the best man and other usher wear two and I would really like them all to wear a silver hoop.
My partner says he is fine doing this but is uncomfortable asking his friends to co-ordinate their jewellery with his. Do you think my quest for everything to be co-ordinated is unreasonable or should I go with the flow on this one?













