Can't "get" her...

[Simple]

Hi.

I've been with my girlfriend for a little over 6 months now. She's a great girl, and I love spending time with her. We don't have sex, but have been enjoying mutual masturbation for some time. Unfortunately, I cannot get my girl to orgasm, at least, significantly. She has achieved orgasm, but says that they are small, and oftentimes frustrating since there isn't a very big release at the end. We have been dealing with this by her masturbating while I hold her. She masturbates by laying flat on her stomach, putting her hand, the firm part by the thumb, on her clit, the part just inside, not the outer part and pushing her hips down on her hand till she orgasm. Needless to say, I feel a little left out of the whole process. I can't exactly follow her method and she has been somewhat dissatisfied with oral, clitoral, vaginal and g-spot stimulation. Any suggestions/ideas?

[Guest]

Start by having her let you use your hand.

Little by little, you can incorporate a little more of "you" and a little less of her. Eventually, you'll be able to flip her over face-up to get her off good. Then,

[chick]

Tell her to try to masturbate
My orgasms are never as strong as when I do it myself. Don't get too worked up about it. And don't feel left out when she does it! You'll get the hang of it eventually!