How many men turn down there partner when they want

[Guest]

Are we talking about men here?

What planet is this? I never heard of a man turning a woman down for sex!

Mind you, I live "downunder", where men eat steel for breakfast, titanium for lunch and engine blocks for dinner!

I have never turned my wifer down for sex ever! Okay I have passed out from being drunk, but willfully turning a horny woman down?

One would have to be f'kin insane!!

Insane maybe, but it does happen when you've decided you don't want her any more. By the time I felt like turning my ex-wife down the relationship was unfixable. A list of what brought me to that point would take a book to explain. The good thing about life is that you are the author, so you can always change the blank pages even if the prior chapters suck.

[joffa from down under]

The good thing about life is that you are the author, so you can always change the blank pages even if the prior chapters suck.

Good advice ... I like that !

[joffa from down under]

The good thing about life is that you are the author, so you can always change the blank pages even if the prior chapters suck.

Good advice ... I like that !

[mostirreverent]

I remember the first time I said no (for reasons other than I nor the woman had protection). I had proposed sex and was shot down. A few hrs. later as I was half involved in something she said how about it. When I said no, she said but you wanted it before. I said that was before. I guess I wanted it on my terms once in a while, and resented her being my keeper and the keeper of pleasure in the relationship. This sound awful, but I felt empowered by it.

At the risk of cutting off my nose to spite my face, I must admit, it gave me a sense of ownership of my own desires and penis. Sex is better when neither party takes the other for granted.

I also had some resentment that there were plenty of times that I was not in the mood, but did it anyway for her and felt she did not do the same for me.

[joffa from down under]

I also had some resentment that there were plenty of times that I was not in the mood, but did it anyway for her and felt she did not do the same for me.

Awwww, you poor boy.

[Guest]

Amazin ennit. One man gets beat up for saying no, another gets a threat of divorce and a third says one has to be fuckin insane to say no. Women must be insane then. They say no all the time and act insane when men turn them down.

If it wasn't for the patience of men there would be no relationships at all.

[mostirreverent]

and men think that each new relationship will be different... now that is crazy. Had she grabbed me and asked, my answer would have been different. that's why we are so patient

[Guest]

I knew a woman who once choked a man because he wouldn't have sex with her. Yes she was insane.

[mostirreverent]

aren't they all a bit crazy

[candygurl9]

yes i get turned down bout 3 times a day ,i am an extremly horny women and my boyfriend is quite a bit older than me and says he just always tired or thers always sum excuse and as for me trying to turn him down when he comes to me for sex (which doesnt happen 2 much) it doesnt work cause i cant turn it down cause we all need sum sex

[Guest]

hey candygurl, learn some F****** punctuation and spelling for christsakes. are they all as retarded as you in england? F****** limeys.

[mostirreverent]

candygirl, why would you turn him down, for the same reasons i used above?

[helenah]

I think that your wife have low libido. I had same problem. Few months, I have had no sexual drive at all. I love my boyfriend, he provides me with love and stability. I am very attracted to him, but lately my drive is totally out of wack. But then I started to take herbal supplement Sentia for women. And now I can say that my libido has come back to normal level. I think that in could help your wife too.

[Guest]

I've said no. I've been married for 20 years and my wife is in the mood about once every two weeks. Sometimes this has gotten me so angry that I simply refuse as well. Of course this is a vicious cycle. Nevertheless I found her reaction to the first time that I turned her down (about 5 years ago) very enlightening. She stormed out of the bedroom and in the morning asked me if I wanted to separate. I said no, and pointed out that she has denied me sexual pleasure hundreds (if not thousands) of times without me acting like it is the end of the world. Do all women feel so self-entitled?

testament like yours makes me wonder why women are so arrogant and selfish

[Guest]

Well, I have turned the tables on my wife of 28 years. She gave me every excuse in the book so many times I got sick of it. Especially after finding out recently that she was cheating on me. Now I'm the one who says no all the time. I've given up on a decent sex life with her. She is very dependent on me for just about everything so she isn't going to leave me. She is worried that I am going to leave her. Now she is desperate to regain my trust but she won't get it. Even when we do have sex it isn't very good for her. I make her work for it and if I can I try like hell to lose the erection. I can't resist the bj but when I get in her I think of her cheating on me and it works.

I hate her for what she did.

Man O Man I hope for theirsakes you don't have any children. What a sad bitter hateful existence you live in.

Do yourself a favor and get over it and start to enjoy the reason why you spent 28 years with this woman in the first place.

dump her and get a real woman