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[Stop Me]

My guy and i have moved to new digs with his job, we are happy and lovin it, how suprised were we when his ex wife knocked on the door and during a conversation anounced that she had moved three flats away from us. They have been apart for three years but she won't stop comming round to see him even though he tells her not too, this is the last straw to move 30 miles just to be near us is this stalking

[tara]

Are you thinking of getting married to this man, because if you are I would think again. They must be having some sort of conversation when they meet even your private talks must be mention otherwise how would she have know where you were moving to , it not as though it just around the corner. And yes its got to be some sort of stalking unless this is what your fella likes to have two women hanging around him I would look to move again even back to the area you came from and if she finds out it could only have come from your man,if thats the case I'd dump him quickly

[Kate]

Stop me I am with Tara, she could only find out from your fella it sounds as though he is into having his own little harem, id dump him and find a fella with no baggage, this one would be to scary for me

[Dooner]

I went out with a bloke for a long time and we were getting a flat together when his ex turned up with nowhere to go and he said it was ok to share with us, I was not very happy but he talked me round. The i caught him having sex with her well that was it I was out of there. Some time later I was talking to someone that knew him and they said it was not the first time he had tried it seemingly he liked to keep his ex on the go as well. I never got a hint of this for nearly two years it just goes to show how devious some people are. Your situation has similarities to mine check it out and if you are not convived dump him

[Marcia]

I agree. Dump him.
But don't only blame him like everyone is saying, just because its easy to blame blokes for everything. She's a cunning bitch too. What game is she playing? What sort of wierd cow goes trying to bust up your relationship. Is she in on it, trying to break you up, damage you because you have her left overs that she cant let go of?
And dooner, what sort of ex-wife comes around asking you for a room for the duration??? Is she a loony?? And you said yes!!!!!??? You were not happy but he talked you round?? So its his fault.?? Are you nuts or did you have no guts ???
These blokes are bad uns alright, but what about the women.

[Dooner]

Marcia, I never thought for one minute that he was still partly with his ex, when she turned up he said her fella had thrown her out and would only be for a couple of weeks, all the usual clap trap but I never suspected, how dumb was I, and I wasn't living in the flat full time as I was still moving things out of my old place, that was why I caught him he did not expect me back that afternoon

[Marcia]

Ok Dooner. I gave it hard there.
So we have all had the best intentions even when devious bitches are out to hurt us. But the point still stands. There are bad men and bad women. If we keep excusing ourselves just because we are women we will always get taken for a ride.
Women are smarter than men when it comes to relationships. Smarter good and smarter bad. Its other women we have to watch.

[Ada]

Get shut of him as the others say he obviously wants to have her hanging around otherwise why would she be there. You never know when he could be out and about he could actually be with her have you thought of that

[Josie]

I have had a similar problem and I let it happen for the sake of my boyfriends kids. Big mistake, we were very happy and I trusted him completely he'd pop around to see his kids not a problem and then when I would meet her she would say little things which started to hack me off to say the least then more things and even say that he wasnt going to see the kids it was her the kids were staying with friends, and to be honest every time I would ask my boyfriend he would say she only tying to get you jealous well in the end it did. It ended up breaking us up because I didnt need the hassel. Nip it in the bud now move

[Guest]

Ever wonder how some of these turned out?