Adult Baby Fetish

[Sara Y]

Hi

I posted this in the "Relationship" forum but it may be more appropriate here?

I'm 18 years old and have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years.He's 20.We started having sex last year and now I have moved in to a flat that he has just started renting.

The thing is he has been keeping a secret from me all this time.

The other night he told me that he wanted me to play a game where he gets breastfed by me and he also had a baby's bottle.

I thought it was fun so did this for him.

Then last night when we did it again he wanted to take it further and produced a large terry nappy and plastic pants.

I was a bit shocked but i love him so i dressed him and gave him a bottle.

He showed me an adult baby magazine and we looked though it together.He told me that there are thousands of others who play adultbaby games and I have to say that I did feel very nurturing and enjoyed babying him.

I know that this has nothing to do with real children and that it's an adult fetish where he wants to be the baby.

Infact he looked very cute in his nappy and it was fun.

What i'd like to know is if anybody who uses this board is also in a relationship with someone who likes this fetish.

Thanks

Sara

[Sara Young]

Has anyone even heard of it?

From what he tells me there are a lot of people into this fetish?

Any info would be appreciated.

Thanks

Sara

[Juicy Lucy]

my hubby's ex boss just started to do this just before hubby left. he's gay tho.

um, other than that, no i don't know anyone.

[loki_uk]

I don't myself...schools more my thing but I know someone who does go to one in Hampshire

Google on the internet it seems to be quite a common thing

[Tina TV]

I've seen a few crawling around on the floor at clubs. I've even tried a nappy a couple of times but it doesn't float my boat.

What I would say is that both the sites you reference above look to be exploitative "Insert credit card detaile here" types. Commercial people who don't realy have an interest beyond getting your money.

Try Diaper Pail Friends http://www.dpf.com/ for a slightly less commercial approach.

[Sara Young]

Hi Tina

Thank you for your reply.

I had a look at the site and it's very interesting.

From what i can see it's the point of view of males into the fetish (like the sites i mentioned)

Was really hoping to hear from others like myself who are in a relationship with someone who is an adult baby (or diaper lover)

Thanks

Sara

[Jules74]

Hi Sara,

I have not long registered myself and tried to pm you but apparently you cannot pm until you have 25 posts on the forum.

I was to come across this on this site, your partner is absolutely correct when he told you there are many people involved in this scene, I am one myself to a certain extent. I have been in the scene for approx the last two years and can honestly say even I have noticed an upsurge in websites and people becoming involved and I think it is only going to get bigger. Why this is, I have no idea, I guess people with the aid of the www are discovering they are not alone and there are actually many who enjoy this scene. So the Adult Baby scene has grown into a very big community and is continuing to grow at a rapid rate.

Before I became aware I had pre-misconceptions of the scene and the types of people involved. I have had those shattered since I became involved and now know many very nice friendly people who could just as easily be your neighbour and you'd be none the wiser.

I'm 30 and personally not involoved in a relationship at present, however I do have a female friend who knows of my AB self and actually enjoys the scene. Though society would probably think otherewise we are both 100% normal people going about evey day things like yourself and your partner and just like everybody else in the AB community. Society will have opinions and thoughts and will no doubt have a few choice of words but, people involved in the scene will agree if it's all under the SSC banner, that is Safe, Sane, and Consensual.

You mentioned when you took part for the first time you actually enjoyed it, the feeling of nurturing him and looking after him. My friend said exactly the same thing it's the maternal instincts in you.

This scene/subject is so expansive as you may have discovered a lot of XXX sites aimed at this scene, it goes without saying these have no real connection with the scene, just sexually orientated and after your money. But I can assure you there are many very good sites and very friendly people with lots of experience who you can make contact with.

I could go on and on, but I hope this has helped. All I say is if you both enjoy it, your partner obviously is, then enjoy. Take things at your own pace I always say there are far worse things going on in this world.

Just enjoy and have FUN

feel free to mail if you wish

[mande]

I'm sorry, but yes, this is weird.
I find it so sad that there are so many people obviously with unfinished business from their childhood, who bring it into their sexuality.
Could it be any more obvious as to what it is?
Personally, if I had this fetish, I'd be at the psychiatrists office immediatly.
And saying that every other part of your life is normal, does not make this any more normal.
Anyone could use that logic, from wife-beaters to kleptomaniacs, etc.

[dancingqueen]

Hi.

My ex husband had this fetish. It did nothing for me. That is one of the reasons he is now my ex. I just couldn't get my head round it, and it began to cause major problems in our marriage.

[Sara Young]

Thanks to each one of you who have replied to this post.

My bf is out watching the world cup match so this gives me a good opportunity to reply.

I can totally understand how this can cause problems to those who have (or have had) a partner in to this.

Jules74 thank you for your nice words.As i said i'm new to this so am just getting my head round it

mande thanks you too.I'm not sure if he (or I) are mad..but what IS normal? I wouldn't really put it in the categories of wife-beating or kleptominia...both of those cause injury,pain and distress to the victims.

To ask to be cuddled,talked in baby talk occasionally is something most couples do.He has asked to be put into a nappy and plastic pants and looked after every now and then.He doesn't "use" them (if you know what i mean) He just like's the feeling of them (i think he particularly likes the feeling of the plastic pants)

As far as I can tell it's not something he wants all the time...maybe just once a week.

Having looked at the websites he certainly doesn't want to go that far (ie. have a cot,high chair,playpen or dress in adult baby clothes)

dancing queen thanks for your reply.I'm sorry to hear about this distroying your marriage.

I'd like to know more about your situation if possible.Was he fully into the fetish or was it just an occasional thing?

Thanks again to all of you.

Sara

[;l]

Hi

My boyfriend has this same fetish, it was really difficult to understand when he first told me. He said that he's had it for as long as he can remember, it's not just something he thought took his fancy one day so tried. He's tried to get me into it as well to try and help me understand what it is he likes but it doesn't greatly appeal to me. I have tried it though because i want to try to understand.

It doesn't make him anything of a different person i still love him to bits. Most of the time he keeps it to himself as well because i don't find it a turn on and its not something i'm into. Mainly he does just like the nappies - says they feel nice, very comfy and its sort of going back to the feeling of being really young and being protected and safe. He has a dummy and a blanket as well and he wants a cot but obviously that isn't something that you can really just pack away and hide again (we live with our parents still) so he hasn't got one.

Hope this helps.

[Sara Young]

Hi

Thanks for your reply.

I think your bf is similar to mine.He also says he's has this "feeling" for a long time too and can't think of anything in particular that triggered it.

It's hard to say whether it's a sexual thing with him,as we have and have had a good/normal sexual relationship.

When i put him into his nappy last time it did lead to sex which was really nice and loving...although the nappy did have to come off but he kept the plastic pants on..as he likes the feel of them.

I have to say that he did feel nice through the plastic pants.

He hasn't ask for a cot or any baby clothes so i'll have to wait and see how it develops.

It's nice to hear from people who are in a similar situation.Maybe it's true what he says in that there are possibly hundreds of couples like us.

Thanks again

Sara

[;l]

when he first put me in a nappy it didnt really turn me on at all but after then hes done it a couple of times and yes it lead to sex and was amazing. when he first told me about it he was really scared about what i would think and he thought i would leave him and think he was really weird. he showed me this website www.teenbabynet.org to try and get me talking to girlfriends of guys with this fetish but i havnt done yet.

[jeally]

i have been with my gf for 5 years, and have the same fetish but not the extreme version you speak of.

over these 5 years i have not had the courage to tell her the the truth.

its sumthing whereby the fetish will allways have a hold on me, but i dont want to risk loosing my gf.

ofc you might think we have been 2gether 4 5 years surely we have the trust and love and commiment....

but this is a strange unique fantasy which we have no idea how people will react.

i emplore you girls for understanding your partners and only wish mine will do the same...

i just thought i would shed some light on my end and to tell you it takes alot of GUTS for them to tell you... and they must really love you and trust to you , to share this weird fantasy..

sumtimes i feel dirty. i cant help feel this way

regards
jeally
19/m/uk

[;l]

Don't feel like that, its not that bad. it is a bit strange and hard to get your head around at first but my boyfriend had the courage to tell me, he wanted me to know because he thought otherwise he was hiding something from me and he didnt want to do that. he wanted to know that we can trust each other and tell each other anything.