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How often?

Postby Stevew on Tue Dec 21, 2004 1:48 am

How often do you think it's "normal" to have sex?

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Re: How often?

Postby Mac on Tue Dec 21, 2004 3:43 pm

Stevew wrote:How often do you think it's "normal" to have sex?
A lot more often than I get it.

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Postby mchosay on Tue Dec 21, 2004 4:00 pm

The wife and i have it around twice a week
although she is usualy tired during the week
we will normally do it at the weekends depending
on how she feels but im up for it all the time :D
Whats that then ted

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Postby Guest on Tue Dec 21, 2004 4:04 pm

can range from once a day for a couple of weeks :)
or once a month for a few months :(
before you ask.....
male, married, teenage children, mother who lives with in walking distance

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Postby HtY on Tue Dec 21, 2004 6:35 pm

In my current relationship we've been without for two weeks and then twice more in the same month at the other end of the spectrum we've had sex every day for the last 10 days and about five times last Sunday, so it goes up and down. There is no normal for us, but there is also no stress about it. It depends on how we each feel - basic rule is that if one of us is horny the other joins in. That way we get more rather than less! :D :D

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Postby plainblond on Wed Dec 22, 2004 12:35 am

It depends on

The women
The man
The weather
If the kids are asleep
How drunk you are
If hes cleaned his underpants
..
..

So I guess there is no such things as Normal :)
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My last girlfriend was with me for about 4 years

Postby stv375inusa on Wed Dec 22, 2004 10:32 pm

And I think the main reason we stayed together that long was because we had magnificent sex.

In the last few months it dropped off more and more till lately...
(which is PART of what turned me _ to look at, others behaviors)

But, just about every day of those 4 years, we had sex, 2, 3, or 4 times.
Nearly every day she didn't have her period.

I will admit that I, myself, also tended to be "active" even beyond that, (on my own) on various days to various degrees.

There WERE several days we had sex, morning and night too (esp. the weekends of course).

Yes, I've always been "hungry" for it.
And it is a daily part of life for me.
(like it so much, considering doing a website 4 it)
stv

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Postby Guest on Wed Jan 05, 2005 5:22 am

lecturer says sex is enjoyed by most people at diferent times.Some couples many times a day some daily others 5 or 6 times a week.Then we have weekly sesions fortnitly ones. We have couples that do it once a month, we also have couples that do it once a year!!! This little old man who was in the group listening, jumped up & said yeah & tonite is the nite~!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Postby Guest on Wed Jan 05, 2005 4:22 pm

Normal sex usually depends on the guy's appetite since he's often the one instigating it. If both have a high sex drive, then normal could mean twice a day.

Frankly, I don't get it nearly enough and it really brings me down. I'd say if I had my way, we'd have sex 4-5 times a week, maybe more. Sometimes I go weeks or even months without - sometimes I wish the two of us were still dating and just living together (much better sex life then)!


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