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Postby I NEED my ex man back » Mon Dec 20, 2004 5:32 am

love my ex bf with all my heart. I love him as much as a person could love someone. He has been gone for some time (3+) months and i miss him so much. HE is almost 3 yrs younger than me( i am 28 and he is 26) and he said he wants to date other girls. He said that he dont want to get into another relationship, but he wants to test the waters. He wants to be single. We talk just about every day, some times the talkes go really well and other times not so good. When he fist moved he said i dont want to be friends than he does. I love him with all my heart and i need him and want him. How can i get him back? how can you tell if he still loves me? he dont tell me nothing? He dont treat me very well now, when we were together he did. He wont tell me where he lives or his phone number. I found out his address and phone number thrught a friend, but i can't go over there, he wont let me in? Why is he saying i want to be friends and treats me like that? what kinda friend dont tell the other there number or where they stay? It is all most like he wants his cake and eat it to. Please help me?? I am desprate

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Postby Genie » Tue Dec 21, 2004 4:14 pm

Maybe hes just not sure its hard work when a relationship breaks down but you need to decide whether its really over and if it is no matter how hard it is you meed to move on.
If its not try and keep talking and try to sort out your problems with each other
Best of LUCK
Genie
 

don't worry

Postby Sara Smith » Tue Dec 21, 2004 6:48 pm

I have just read your message and feel very sad for you. Your ex is possibly feeling confused and wants to be friends with you but knows it is not the best thing to do now. He also probably wants to move on and is trying to do this without hurting you.

You should try and move on yourself, I know it is hard, having your heartbrokwn isn't very nice at all but you will feel better in time...

I hope my thoughts are of use to you.

Keep smiling x
Sara Smith
 


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