Scared Sh!tless

[jackquelyne]

I am pretty sure imgonna have sex in a few months and even though that doesnt seem very soon, it seems like its just arond the corner and i have no idea what to do. I heard the following

*It hurts
*You bleed
*You ache afterwards

And i know you are going to say relax or something but i need the advive to go further then that. I am relaly scared, but i know iwant it. How can i calm myself down enough to enjoy it? And how can i become not so scared?


Thanks all advice or even just information about a girls firts time will be greatly appreciated.

[LeeLee1818]

are you postive that you want to do this? that is one question you have to feel 100% sure about ( no doubts )

*If you havent already torn your hymen then it will break and thats why you would bleed.

*Most people say it hurts and that just depends on his size.

*My first time i wanted to do a couple of things and so i was sore for about a week but usually it will only be a couple of days if that.

*Always use a condom and i know everyone says that but you should because i was freakin out because i know a girl that got pregnant the first time.

*You should relax because the more you relax the easier it will be and it's probably going to hurt regardless but after a while you will like it at least i did

I don't know if i helped much but that covers the basics and good luck

[jackquelyne]

Well, thanks but, im not sure what to do.

how do i get relaxed?

I heard someone say that there b/f woke em up with soft kisses in the morning and it worked geat and she was relaxed and she loved it beuz well idk i guess it was becuase yo uare realxed when you first wake up.


Is there anythign icould do to better it?
i really dont want to dissapoint him

[LeeLee1818]

that could work but i didnt stay the night with him so if that works then do that. i got relaxed when he was talking to me dirty and i felt safe around him. so maybe something like that sorry if i couldnt help