Cum problems PLEASE help

[madjohnnyc]

When my girlfriend gives me head I dont ever cum. She does it for 15-20 min and I just beat it myself until I am almost there and then she finishes me. Any suggestions? We are teenagers and have been together for a year, if that helps. Thanks

[MarriedMom]

Well, I hate to break it to ya, but it sounds like your girl needs some tips on giving bj's. I assume since you are both teens, she hasn't had much experience on the topic. You're gonna have to get brave and tell her what you want/like. Giving good bj's comes with experience and practice. She needs to go _ to look for some tips or something, because I'm assuming she's just bobbing and slobbering with no gusto. If she gets offended, then oh well. How else is she gonna learn to do it if she continues to do it wrong and assumes you like it? Or maybe you're just not relaxed enough. If you're tense, it's going to make it more difficult for you to climax. But considering you can reach that point after you get "hands on", I'm guessing it's her techinique.

Then again, you're both just teenagers, and when you get a little older, you'll grow with experience. Consider it a life experience, and GOD... I hope you're old enough to be getting a bj... I'd hate to think I'm giving advice on this to a 13 y/o.

MM

[Guest]

my number one tip for enjoying fellatio is breath. when I was younger I'd always stop breathing because the situation was so cool. when I started breathing during it, I felt the sensations a lot better and enjoyed everything more. breath, and make appreciate noises when she does it well.

[kimmy]

i was totally shocked wen i found out my boyfriend had never cum from a blow job when we first got together having had boyfriends in the past that would just blow their load at the thought of it. so its just a case of personal tastes more than anything, as in some people find some sexual acts easier to cum from than others.

but to start with my boyfriend didnt but i think this was a mental barrier and also us having just got together and getting to know wat each other likes etc but now there is no problem because we wernt shy of asking what each other likes, rather than just going though the motions because we didnt want to offend each other. so i think you need to possibly be more honest with your girlfriend, encourage her to do more of what you like and tell her when you dont like something etc through communication and trying new techniques and brutal honestly im sure your day will cum soon