by Guest 1000 on Sat Nov 03, 2007 12:51 am
If I am hearing both sides correctly..
Women - like to abuse testicles because they feel physically inferior and easily threatened.
They are also conditioned, by media and society, that is is socially acceptable. They are taught at a young age to attack men here when they are being "bothered". They then mercilessly use this tactic as children for enjoyment as they quickly learn NO ONE will ever punish them. If they are at all questioned they claim the man's action was "deserving" of this treatment.
Men - are pissed off that they are conditioned to NEVER hit a woman no matter what. Meanwhile their loving counterparts are physically violating their most sacred part of their bodies out of entertainment, selfishness and inferiority.
It makes men more angry that they are powerless against stopping this. They can't hit back as it is wrong to do so, so what else are they to do?
What frustrated men more is they know women use this tactic in a malicious manner.
Solution - well, as long as men have testicles and women think they are inferior to men, people will be unjustly kicked in the balls.
The only chance we have as a society to "cure" this violence is to educate and reprimand each other. That is to say, if you are in the presence of witnessing this, you take action in correcting the behavior. If you join the crowd to laugh and watch you are not helping the problem.
This also goes with children. Educating daughters to behave this way when they feel boys "deserve" this is teaching them to be very selfish. Allowing your sons to believe they deserve this punishment because they are a boy takes away from his self esteem and worthiness. We are left with a society of selfish ballless children.
This behavior also divides the sexes even further. Causing pain and resentment towards each other. Instead of being angry at women for behaving like this and wanting to hurt them back, men should recognize kick indicators (calling them names, touching them inappropriately in public etc) and avoid giving them any excuse to act this way. If they do, for no apparent reason, press charges. Their typical defenses that he "deserved" it can not be applied.
For women, realize every time you unjustly kick a man you are just hurting other women. This memory stays with a man for his life. If he is pissed off with his girlfriend/wife and has the opportunity to cheat,lie etc, he will out of spite for injustice done to him years ago by a women. It helps those little boys in school that were once rolling on the ground holding their nuts after being abused by 3 girls, decide later in life to hold down a little girl with his two friends and r****/abuse her. Those same boys may never be able to respect or trust women and end up using them as sex objects and humiliating them.
Point is.. more pain and violence causes more pain and violence. I'd rather live in a world full of love and laughter. I think we all would. So everyone needs to do their part in not accepting any type of negative violent actions on humanity.
Peace