husband wants to watch me have sex with another man

[claudine]

my husband is very sexual...more so then I...and wants to watch me have sex with another man....he knows that I had sex with my boss and it is okay with him...but this is a little different and I'm unsure about it

[philippe1973]

It 's up to you. I have watched my girlfriend having sex with other guys and it was nice. It makes both of us feel very sexy and we have better sex, afterwards.
Maybe you should try it, just once. If you don't feel comfortable doing it, you can tell your husband that you don't like the idea.

[Guest]

Maybe he just wants tips on how another man would deal with your headaches.

[SAHMOM69]

That personally has never been anything I've wanted to try even if my husband approved and he most for sure would NOT. However, he'd love to see me have sex with another woman!

[myutopia]

Uncertainty is one thing, I'd say go with your instincts on this, I mean he seems keen now because he found out you slepted with someone else. He may feel differently when it's right in his face. What if sex is better with this other bloke, what if you and this other bloke wanted to do it again with or without him watching. I'm not saying don't do it, it's your life. You may want to think about laying down a few rules before hand to make sure things don't get out of hand, for example the other bloke and/or your husband want to do it again and you don't.

Variety is the spice of life perhaps, you will both enjoy it, is he also planning on sleeping with another woman while you watch.

Like I say stick with YOUR instincts

[ardman]

i would like to volunteer ,to fulfil your husbands wildest dream

[Guest]

For our 10th anniversary my husband arranged, secretly, a male escort for me. He met us at a hotel that we stayed at and introduced himself in the bar. I was quite shocked when my husband told me that he was my anniversary present and I could do what ever I wanted with him for one night. He was gorgeous. I danced several times with him and he came to our room with us. I was so turned on. I got over the strangeness when he started undressing me, with my husband watching, and they both kissed me all over. I was reassured by my husband being there and let this gorgeous man take me. It was fabulous, unrestrained sex for several hours with both taking me one after another and I had the pleasure of hard erections on tap instead of having to wait an hour to do it again. I must have cum six or seven times that night. They both took me twice. Boy was I sore in the morning but not too sore to have a last passionate go lying next to my husband as he was sleeping. He woke to my noisy movements under this stranger in the night and watched as a huge orgasm ripped through me. What a memory.

[Avocat]

I love watching my gal with another man. I enjoy her groans and watch the grip of your pussy on his C***. Sex is beautiful to watch.

I also love participating with the other man.

I often chuckle at men wanting more than one woman. Women have so much more sexual capacity than men.

[Guest]

This is the ultimate in male abasement. Men are so marginalised that its the only step left in complete de-masculinisation. He supports and provides as a slave while she gets her sexual pleasures with others. What was their marriage for? Sexual destruction of the man?

There is a terrible thing happening to the male psyche across the western world. Men are seeming to be going willingly to their own debasement to please their women. There seems to be no way he can satisfy her within the normal couple relationship any more.

So much self-initiated cuckolding going on with so many women seeming to go along with it. Just look at this board. The subject crops up all the time, along with men wearing women's underwear. What is happening to men? Have we dominated them into oblivion in the name of women's rights? If she gets pregnant he is not even allowed to know the identity of the father, even if its himself.

[Guest]

This is the ultimate in male abasement. Men are so marginalised that its the only step left in complete de-masculinisation. He supports and provides as a slave while she gets her sexual pleasures with others. What was their marriage for? Sexual destruction of the man?

There is a terrible thing happening to the male psyche across the western world. Men are seeming to be going willingly to their own debasement to please their women. There seems to be no way he can satisfy her within the normal couple relationship any more.

So much self-initiated cuckolding going on with so many women seeming to go along with it. Just look at this board. The subject crops up all the time, along with men wearing women's underwear. What is happening to men? Have we dominated them into oblivion in the name of women's rights? If she gets pregnant he is not even allowed to know the identity of the father, even if its himself.

Not everyone lives in a black and white world,nor do all people have the same tastes and wants.Hard to believe,i know.
What does it matter to you what a couple does,if it makes them,read carefully,HAPPY ?

[Guest]

This is the ultimate in male abasement. Men are so marginalised that its the only step left in complete de-masculinisation. He supports and provides as a slave while she gets her sexual pleasures with others. What was their marriage for? Sexual destruction of the man?

There is a terrible thing happening to the male psyche across the western world. Men are seeming to be going willingly to their own debasement to please their women. There seems to be no way he can satisfy her within the normal couple relationship any more.

So much self-initiated cuckolding going on with so many women seeming to go along with it. Just look at this board. The subject crops up all the time, along with men wearing women's underwear. What is happening to men? Have we dominated them into oblivion in the name of women's rights? If she gets pregnant he is not even allowed to know the identity of the father, even if its himself.

Btw,not all men ARE masculine,just as not all women are feminine.
A couple enjoying themselves this way does not equal the ''sexual destruction of the man''.They are both having fun and are consenting adults.

[Bob&Sue]

Hubby wanted to watch me with another woman and join in (don’t they all?) but I said ‘no’, if we are going to have a threesome let it be another man. I was quite turned on by the idea of having the attention of two guys. We planned what we wanted to do and after a couple of failed attempts, we picked up a younger guy in a pub. He was keen and it didn’t take long before we were all in bed together. Hubby was turned on watching me get f*cked by this guy and I found it really erotic having two mouths and four hands all over me. Hubby really enjoyed W**nking while this guy pumped into me and it was incredibly erotic for me knowing I had such power over both guys at once.

[SAHMOM69]

My husband would NEVER want to see me or agree to me having sex with another man; and I have never had any desire to have sex with any other man than him. However, like SO MANY other men, he says he'd love to see me with another woman...just watch & he wouldn't participate (except pleasuring himself while watching.) It's a big fantasy for us but I doubt it'd become a reality.

[Guest]

I'm very much in love with a women and we've spoken about swinging and multiple partners. She has bi girlfriends that would take us up on an offer of sex or voyourism immediately and I know there are plenty of men who'd have sex with either of us. I'm afraid both of us feel something would be lost if we did anything of the sort however. I've been a swinger, but she never has and is curious. After thinking about it and without any prompting by me, she decided to not pursue it for the same reason I stopped swinging years ago. It may satisfy your urge to experiment, but it also makes what you share together somewhat less intense and less something of "yours together only"

It's a personal decision. For both of you.

[Avocat]

This is the ultimate in male abasement. Men are so marginalised that its the only step left in complete de-masculinisation. He supports and provides as a slave while she gets her sexual pleasures with others. What was their marriage for? Sexual destruction of the man?

You have got to be kidding. Sharing your woman is a celebration of her sexual power and beauty. I don't buy the whole "cuckhold" thing. When I share a woman with another man, it is visually stimulating and very erotic. I truly love a woman's sexual power and realize that a woman can please more than one man. And I love the three dimensional aspect of watching live sex. I fully participate and watch when I have ejaculated.

To each his or her own I say! There are many women who love being made love to by more than one man. And there are many men who enjoy sharing their women, fully experiencing their sexuality.

There is absolutely no male debasement in conjunction with sharing a woman! There is a celebration of sexuality and female capacity to have sex with more than one partner.

It is intimate and enjoyable!