by inatthedeepend on Thu May 21, 2009 11:04 pm
Are you doubting your gaydar? Surely there is something that you have picked up on, some signal that has lead you to believe that she feels the same way as you?
I have had deep feelings for female friends before and my husband knows that I am equally attracted to women as to men but I 'keep all my eggs in one basket', primarily because I want to be loyal to him but also I don't think that I would survive the emotional minefield of living my life between two people. I'm not judging others who have managed this, I'm just saying that it wouldn't be for me.