cant cum, to intense

[nichole85]

ok whenever my guy fingers me and hits my g spot i feel like it is to intense and i make him stop. i dont know why but i just cant handle it...ive never had the big O and plus ive tried to get myself to cum by caressing my g spot and i felt like i was about to but never did after a few hours i just gave up..plus my finger was about to fall off.. i dont know what else to do...any tips??

[Guest]

I understand what you mean, when i was younger (i am a male), when i first tried to masterbait (it was in the shower i think), i just couldnt get off, no matter what, when i got to that level of intensity, it was just too intense and i couldnt continue.... thats not a problem for me now, im completly in controll of it.

You just have to relax and have to be REALLY in the mood...

[ish]

my girlfriend had the same problem, what u need to do is get in the missionary position, tell your boyfriend to insert himself deep in side u and then thrust back and forth but never removing his penis from your vagina like u are stuck together,u will come in side a couple of minutes, the intensity is where all the pleasure us more intense it becomes the more lucku u r

[hi_there]

Certain spots can be very sensitive - clitoris etc. and you may find it much more pleasant to just avoid them. Go into your play time with the understanding that you aren't going to try to force an orgasm. Then just do what feels good. Relax. If you can spend hours with your lover touching you everywhere except the really intense spots, why not???? It does feel beautifully nice doesn't it? Evenings of being naked and touching, talking, laughing, playing and shivering just a bit together is always more rewarding to me than a five minute quickie with orgasm.

Michael

[mostirreverent]

can you masturbate

[nichole85]

no i cant make myself come when i ride him i cant when he fingers me i cant and i dont know why

[mostirreverent]

no i cant make myself come when i ride him i cant when he fingers me i cant and i dont know why

can you masturbate
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