Stage Fright... need advice

[lostandconfused]

Hey guys,

I'm just wondering if anyone out there has any advice on how to get over stage fright because im sick of waiting. When me and my girlfriend are apart just thinking of her can make me so horny and being with her knowing we cant have sex because parents are around i get very horny aswell but when i know its about to happen my heart beats really fast and cant do it. Its driving me insane. Is there something i can take that will make me horny... not get me up... i have no problem getting it up... but like a horny pill lol. I dont care what it is... im seriously sick of this B/S


Thanks a lot

[Scrumpy]

OMG the first time is soooo stressful...and you're trying to do it in her parents house. No wonder you get stage fright!
What you need is time, and less pressure, and PRIVACY.
You need to be somewhere so that you know no one is in the next room, or downstairs...the phone isn't going to ring, and you don't have to hurry.
You need to take it slow and do lots of touching first so there's a natural progression into having sex.. not a rush to perform before her parents get home.I don't know how you can sort out the practical issues, but when you do, and you're alone together with pleanty of time and privacy everything will work out.
Everyone goes though something similar so don't start worrying that there's something wrong with you because there isn't

[lostandconfused]

Thanks so much for the reply.

Im kinda starting to believe theres something wrong with me because we have had time alone where we spent like an hour or two just touching each other and being really close with out any chance of parents or any sort of interuption. Which sucks even more is that I tease her a lot as she does to me but i feel so bad because i do that and she gets nothing. She refuses to let me do anything for her which i guess makes it a bit more stressful knowing if i cant do anything than she wont get anything. I feel really bad.... And as a guy it obviously hurts me... Sometimes i wish i could just be a regular guy and want one night stands (if i wasnt with my gf that is) and stupid things like that. I know i really dont but id be able to please my girlfriend atleast.