by mandy on Wed Jan 26, 2005 12:57 pm
Dear Ryan,
First of all "relax". Relax your whole body and your lips will be soft and welcoming. Closed hard lips are a turn off, soft partly open are a turn on as the inside of the lips are moist and warm. By the way a lot of saliva is a definite NO NO Gently hold the lady and bring your lips together. When you are kissing let your lips slowly move. Open and close a little, explore her lips with yours. In time you will open your lips a little wider and if the lady responds by opening hers this is probably a sign that she wants to feel your tongue. DO NOT push your tongue into her throat, since she will probably choke and that is a good way to end your relationship. As your technique develops she and you will want to explore with your tongues.
The lips are only one part of the body that can be kissed. The neck and ears are also areas that give pleasure. Indeed when hugging your lady, why not gently kiss the side of her neck, not a sloppy kiss, just a gentle lingering peck. If she responds draw you face around to hers and again very gently kiss her lightly on the lips.
Then it is up to you.
Love Mandy