how to hit on other women?

[x-xcutiex-x]

hi

i consider myself crazy about men, but curious none the less. i can't really tell my friends. but i reallllyyyy want to experience another woman. just to see if it's as nice as my fantasies and if i really am bi or just sexually adventorus in my mind

but i have no idea how to approach this. when i was younger me and my friends kissed for dares ect.. but now im 20 every1 is grown up and we just dont do that ne more. my only option is to go to some bar alone, but ill feel strange, + i want to click with the person first. so how do you approach women and hit on them when you are a woman? hehe do you have ne tips. my tecnique is 'girlie' with men. but id like to be equal with a woman, if that makes ne sence? xxxx

[boltonlass79]

i know its hard isnt it its not like you can go on a night out and go for it as you dont know peoples tastes. I dont know what its like where you live but im near manchester so i would go there if i wanted to pull a woman. As we have the gay village there. If your having a night out there you know you will get chatted up by someone of the same sex so if you did make a move on anyone you wouldnt feel like you were about to make a fool of yourself. So maybe thats the best step to find out where like minded women go. Failing that you might meet a sexy girl on line and could then meet up.

[*ClaireB*]

I feel exactly the same! As Bolton lass was saying, in manchester the gay village is excellent, ive been loadsa times for nights out cos i live in manchester. But ive never been able to meet anyone cos im with my friends! I dont want to go on my own - i just dont think i would have the confidence. I would love to meet a like minded girl who is curious like me - but I think it is destined to be over the net!

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[Paula_47]

Hi All

I guess i was lucky, i was 'seduced' at 17 by an older woman, since then i have had quite a few bi affairs, the funny thing is that i never went out looking, they sort of ''found' me!!

I am married with two kids and have not had a bi relationship for over 3 yrs now, i do miss it and will jump at the chance should it come my way again.

My suggestion to you is 'don't look too hard' if you really want it, it will come to you.

Anyway, welcome and enjoy yourself on here..

Please feel free to contact me....

Love and best wishes

Paula xxxx

[x-xcutiex-x]

hehe i never get hit on, only once by a really scary butch woman who looked like a man neway. maybe it's because i look like a girlie girl? id just love to go out with my friends, id be so much more relaxed if they were fine with me going home with the other sex lol

[boltonlass79]

hehe i never get hit on, only once by a really scary butch woman who looked like a man neway. maybe it's because i look like a girlie girl? id just love to go out with my friends, id be so much more relaxed if they were fine with me going home with the other sex lol

Oh scary! not nice when that happens is it. lol

[emmabi]

ive never been hit on but i guess i dont give off the write vibes with a lil boy in a pushchair

[Robern]

Aw Emma, just because you have a child doesn't mean that you couldn't be bi-curious. I have 3 lol You are who you are, and one of the things that you are is a mother. People, lads or lasses, are just going to have to accept that. Otherwise, they're not worth knowing! Being a mum doesn't automatically mean you lose your sexuality right?

[emmabi]

i guess but because im a mum most ppl expext that im just into guys, it'd be nice to be hit on by a girl i want that chance to meet someone and make friends and have my first experience but aber is a small place im joined to 3 different bi websites and im the only girl in aberystwyth

[Robern]

Hmm, I've been to Aberystwyth, not a big place, is it? lol Any chance of you arranging for anyone in your family to babysit then, so that you can go out/ go away for a night then? Surely they can understand you needing a break? Just don't tell them what KIND of break lol

[emmabi]

lol my family live in leciester so no luck ther either i guess im just destined to stay curious and never know! lol

[Robern]

Don't say that! I'm sure you'll get an opportunity at some stage! It'll happen if you want it to happen. I guess until then, you can stay here and have some fun

[emmabi]

yeah i will do, i really really want it to happen its just knowing how to find a bi girl in aber as its tiny! but it is fine on here tho the best release for my bottled up wanting

[Robern]

Hehe yeah. So, you're in a relationship yeah, have a boyfriend?

[emmabi]

yeah been with him for about 6 yrs got a kid n all