Most men like to watch their disgusting load in a woman´s face.

I do not exactly know why. Must be a basic instinct.
Besides it prevents pregnancy, second best after swallowing, it is a very intimate act to me as to many other women.

So I enjoy it and be happy, if the load is rich. It is flattering to me.
I usually rub off during the procedure. So my lover is turned on by my movements and making faces.
As a common practice of lovemaking it is acceptable every now and then at least. You shouldn´t attribute to much to it and take it as an nsignificant variety of having sex.

Float your boat as you like it.