by Avocat » Mon Feb 07, 2005 12:57 pm
In answer to the question, who initiated MMF, our situation was one of convenience. I urged her to swing with another couple. We found a foursome delightful. But as time passed, it became frustrating trying to find a right combination with all four people who were attracted to each other. We never did our swinging in clubs or at the drop of hat. We always planned the get together after meeting the couple at a lunch or dinner.
So after being frustrated about finding a compatable couple, we decided, at my urging, to invite a male. I discovered I enjoyed watching her immensely, as well as joining in. I enjoy the control she give me to direct the sexual positions. I loved taking photographs of the male penetrating her and her giving him oral. She loved performing and being watched. In particular, she loved having two me "in" her at one time, one in her mouth, the other in her pussy.
After awhile, I discovered I loved MMF a bit more than MMFF. Don't get me wrong, I still love mounting a woman, licking her clit or standing up and having her suck me while her husband watches. In fact, I had one occurence when a husband specifically instructed me on how to lick his wife's clit. I remember that fondly.
Sharing is fun and beautiful. It energizes your lovemaking.