It hurt!

[babe 1]

Hello!

A few days ago i had sex for the first time, and it hurt like hell. I was fully relaxed and ready, so why did it hurt so much? He was quite big and i bled quite a lot!

[ancient9]

To be honest with you I don't know a lot about this problem but I heard if its through passion you don't even notice that it hurts... maybe he wasnt the right guy because it wasn't passionate love making. just my opinion but i could be wrong.

[QTKate]

I had this problem when i had sex for the first time. your hymen may have still been intact which could be why you bled and it hurt.

[complexityofluv]

getting hurt while doing it for the first time is very common and more girls experience pain rather than nt .....even if it was very passionate and true luv....but ofocurse there is a need to make sure its true luv cuz then he ll take care of u and make sure u r doing ok

i also heard that the pain sometimes continues the second time

[BoyWonder]

Like the others said, this is common. However, you seem to describe serious pain. Or you either have a low tolerance for pain, or it just hurt more then "normal". Many girls lose there hymen during strenuous activities. Like for example, horseback riding, gymnastics, karate etc.. My sister tore hers during a karate tournament and she wasnt wearing a pad. Imagine her embarrasement when her white karate bottoms turned red lol.

Anyhow, try this sex again. I HIGHLY suggest a long and enjoyable amount of foreplay before hand for you (fingering, oral etc..). Since im guessing you may be too shy to buy lube, your own lubrication should work. After getting "wet" try it again. If it still hurts, go see a gyno.

[babes]

Thanks everyone for your advice!