I need some help!!!

[RSB]

My boyfriend and i have been togeather for almost a year. In the begining we had sex quite freqently. After about 3 months it just stopped. Now he barely even touches me. I want to talk to him about it but i know he does not want that subject to be brought up. He gets frustrated and changes the subject when i try to bring it up or calls me childish for some reason. I am at my wits end. I don't know what to do. i love him very much and we want to make a life togeather but i don't know if i can do that if he won't even get near me. Some advice please!!!

[Cheeky_chimp]

He calls you childish!!

If you both want this relationship to continue you have to talk about why he is being so evasive. He is the immature one if he is not prepared to talk about what seems quite a serious problem. Insist that you talk, reassuring him that you will not judge or laugh but want to help or at least understand the problem. If he still refuses to talk then to me it is obvious the relationship won't work.

[BoyWonder]

This is the story heard a billion times over. It may be because of different reasons, but it stil results the same. Here's a few possibilities.

1. The sex has become stale...boring. This happens to the best of us. I was in one relationship where the girl would only do 1 position. It turned out to be more of a routine in my day then an enjoyable experience. Try something different. Like spontaneous. Give him a BJ in the car while hes driving lol. Or have sex in a public place (like your backyard, or a public restroom).

2. Hes sleeping around (no offense but if #1 isnt true, then this one is the obvious choice).

3. Hes just not interested anymore.

4. Something is wrong with him and hes too proud to tell you (impoteny?, Maybe a rash?)

Thats just a start. The only real way I see it is to give him an alternative. Either tell you about why he wont touch you anymore, or leave him. Whether anyone says so or not, sex and physical intimacy is a large part of a healthy relationship.