divorce

[leasam]

ive been with my partner for about 15 months, he's married, im not, recently he's been saying he would like us to get married, obvioulsy this is impossible atm.
the thing is since we got together he's been saying he's gonna get divorced, a few months ago his wife sent him the papers, but he hasnt done anything not gone to the solicitor or anything, now im wondering does he actually want to get divorced, he says he does and should i wait around forever in the hope that one day he'll get divorced???? i love him very much and i would marry him, but part of me thinks that he's just gonna keep saying that he's gonna get divorced but never actually do it, and maybe he doesnt really want to marry me he just says it to keep me here because he knows thats what i want, cos he knows he cant marry me yet until he's divorced!!!!!!!!!!!!

is he just keeping me hanging on????
i love him sooo much but i dont like going out with someones husband, and i dont want to be going out with someones husband forever......

[barbymui]

I am with my boyfriend for two years. He is separated for five years. He is now going through a divorce. It is a stressful time and I had to push him to see that unless he got divorced I was not staying with him. I know he loves me very much as is doing everything he can to sort out his affairs.

Tell you boyfrined unless he gets a divorce their is no future for you. Try and get him to talk about this anxieties. My boyfriend was anxious about the loss of his home and other financial matters. If you can find out his concerns you can decide how to move forward.