sibling rivalry

[joanne]

Hi all......i have a big problem with my 2 sons.....my older boy is 14 and very jealous of his younger brother who is 12. my younger son took up gymnastics about 18 months ago and has developed some serious muscles with six pack abs that would rival adam rickitt . now the problem is with the summer comming again my youngest goe's around shirtless all the time and his older brother gets so jealous of him....what can i do?

[Fatlisa]

Not alot really. That is something your older boy has to learn, that he has to just live with the fact that he will be jealous of other people. That just the way it is. We can all look at other people and say i wish i looked like that or had what they've got. But we just have to accept it isn't always possible.

[999Tina]

Hi all......i have a big problem with my 2 sons.....my older boy is 14 and very jealous of his younger brother who is 12. my younger son took up gymnastics about 18 months ago and has developed some serious muscles with six pack abs that would rival adam rickitt . now the problem is with the summer comming again my youngest goe's around shirtless all the time and his older brother gets so jealous of him....what can i do?

yes nothing really I believe its part of growing up, just be there for the two of the them incase they need to talk, and you will be ok.