I've got a problem!!

[gillian]

I've starting seeing this guy and we had sex for the first time recently but it was a bit of a disappointment, hes seems to be really into foreplay and when were out he can hardly keep his hands off me but in the bedroom he didnt really seem into it. Now im ultra paranoid that the sight of me naked may have put him off sex for life!! Also whats everyones thoughts on pubic hair? I've tried shaving but i get a rash which isnt exactly appealing

[minniekelzz87]

Maybe you should try it on with him in the bedroom.

I got a rash when i first started shaving but now there is no problem, maybe try waxing although it is a lot more painful, may help you in the rash department.

[gillian]

yeah but then theres the horror of ingrown hairs - nasty!!

And regarding the bedroom thing, i did try it on in the bedroom and it was there that he kinda lost interest, is it possible that he may just not be that into sex??

[minniekelzz87]

i dont think it wil be because he isnt into sex otherwise he wouldnt try it on with you when your out and about. maybe he wants spontanious sex, try it on when he is least expecting it. Otherwise try n find out what really turns him on through a general conversation if possible.

[Sulivan]

I VERY MUCH DOUBT THAT THE SIGHT OF YOU WOULD TURN A GUY OFF SEX FOREVER! I know that I don't know you but that's just a voice of doubt. Don't go there!

Best thing I can think of...

In short you can't ask us - ASK HIM! Ask him what he hates.. the bed? the noise the bed makes? colour of wallpaper? The fact it doesn't feel spontaneous to him? Somewhere he will know - even if you have to drag it out of him! Us men aren't very bright when it comes to our feelings sometimes! I'm sure that lots of guys will disagree here but really sometimes we need to bit hit (metaphorically of course) over the head with a shovel before we realise things. (Something so simple as the vibe in the room).

Shaving... I will leave to the girls... *no comment* other than I hear that cream works well... Immac!?

[easy]

I think shaved pussies are way over rated. Sure they are all the rage in porn movies. But in real life...pubic hair is a reality. All the women I have been with have had pubic hair and I loved it