Problems with fiance

[glidewest]

5300 posts to round it off
36 months=3 years
147 posts per month
like 5 posts a day on average without fail for 3 years.

I on the web like a mad person but i do plenty of other things. Tell me thats not a bit much.

5 posts a day is nothing, compare how long it takes to post 5 replys and compare that to how long most people spend sat infront of the TV passively watching mindless crap

I for one know which activity has greater value

[Guest]

5300 posts to round it off
36 months=3 years
147 posts per month
like 5 posts a day on average without fail for 3 years.

I on the web like a mad person but i do plenty of other things. Tell me thats not a bit much.

5 posts a day is nothing, compare how long it takes to post 5 replys and compare that to how long most people spend sat infront of the TV passively watching mindless crap

I for one know which activity has greater value

exactly, at least people who post are using their brains to think, instead of sitting passively watching Lets go strictly dancing, X Factor or celebrity Big Brother like complete vegetables.

[MaxtheGaul]

Hey let's get back to the topic. Rosanna, if your fiancee cannot trust you then you really don't have much of a relationship. Sorry to be so harsh, but it's true.

Whether you sleep with, or have ever slept with your business partner is irrelevant, if you have a relationships that's worth having you will have dealt with that and moved beyond it.

My g/f travels a lot, often with work colleagues, most of whom are male. She decides when she travels who she travels with and what she gets up to - or doesn't. I trust her because I know that she won't lie to me and she won't do anything which would damage our relationship. That's enough for me, and more than most people have.

Aim high, find a man who can relate to you as you are not just as he would like you to be when you have bent yourself into his shape.

[Verve]

I believe you are a opportunist verve. That would explain a lot. I can look at your profile and tell what type of person you are. Rosanna6 you can listen to her if you want too but check this out. Verve got over five thousands posts on female first. Does that sound like someone who is having a good relationship with her man or her girl. Think about it. Someone who gives advice day and night like that is most likely alone and if she isnt her man or woman cant be spending time with her because she is busy telling everyone else how to live their lives on the forum. I bet you three things. One she is single and if not heading there soon. Two she has no friends because nobody can stand her and last but not least she probably cant even stand herself for more than five minutes. So do you want to take advice from someone like that. She most likely will tell you to kick him to the curb because she is partly jealous because she might not be as successful as you. Good luck with your life Rosanna6. Be a strong woman, be independent, be happy, but dont listen to her. Women and men who have the type of attitude like verve usually end up alone eating dinner with nobody to talk to and sleeping with a cat instead of a man or woman.

She says she could care less what her man/husband does while he is away but dont let me catch his ass. That right there should tell you
not to take her advice and what do you think verve is going to do when she catches her man. Nothing because she only cares about herself and most likely doesnt know how to show a man love. She probably got daddy or mommy issues.

NoLiving is that you.... is it... come on tell me?????

I wanted to say thank you truly for the five thousand posts comment. I've been here for 3 years and I thought I never really contributed because I don't post as often as others. Thank you honey. That melted my heart.

As far as Rossana your life is your choice. Just make sure when you wake up in the morning you have not regrets.

[ad12]

you people are not being realistic. look at things from the fiance's pov. Guys and girls cannot be just friends.

[scratcher]

Sorry, just realised that I'm on the wrong thread..I'm skint and read this as "problems with finance". I'll get my coat.

[Rosanna156]

As far as Rossana your life is your choice. Just make sure when you wake up in the morning you have not regrets.

I think I will regret it both ways!

[MaxtheGaul]

I think you need to dump your fiancee and focus on the business for a while. Stop trying to get married and just have a bit of fun. You'll know when you're ready to give it another try.

[rosanna_6]

I think you need to dump your fiancee and focus on the business for a while. Stop trying to get married and just have a bit of fun. You'll know when you're ready to give it another try.

I'm focusing on the business too! I can't divert my attention from it, obviously.
I am already 34, and have had fun. I do want to marry him and am ready to settle down.

[MaxtheGaul]

You can't focus on the business if the man in your life doesn't trust you to do that and thinks you're sh**ing your partner.

So either you play by his rules - which you'll end up resenting, or you dump him.

[whatsgoingon]

You can't focus on the business if the man in your life doesn't trust you to do that and thinks you're sh**ing your partner.

So either you play by his rules - which you'll end up resenting, or you dump him.

I'm appalled that the men here are not seeing the man's side. His reaction is nothing out of the ordinary.

[Guest]

Sorry, just realised that I'm on the wrong thread..I'm skint and read this as "problems with finance". I'll get my coat.

[Verve]

My issue is that during his courtship he never even once said to her you know I don't want you to work with him if you and I decide to make a life together. I don't understand why he waited until now to put his foot down. Either he wants her and will learn to live with the situation or he doesn't want her unless he is happy with his set circumstances.

It's like a man who says I don't want you to speak to any male friends while we are together. Or you can't speak to your ex's.

I understand the man's point of view but at the end of the day I would be proud if i had a partner that was head strong and self sufficient. I'm not sure he's happy that she is. That might be the issue. I don't hear any other suggestions as to what will happen when she looses her livelihood.

[Verve]

Sorry, just realised that I'm on the wrong thread..I'm skint and read this as "problems with finance". I'll get my coat.

funny indeed...

[Guest]

My issue is that during his courtship he never even once said to her you know I don't want you to work with him if you and I decide to make a life together. I don't understand why he waited until now to put his foot down. Either he wants her and will learn to live with the situation or he doesn't want her unless he is happy with his set circumstances.



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OR he does love the woman but some things are dealbreakers.