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Re: Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acquaint

Postby Guest » Sat Oct 04, 2008 4:09 pm

Asian wrote:To the guys: Would you allow your girlfriend or wife to wear revealing, very sexy clothes in front of mates (guy friends) or your male colleagues? Wouldn't this create a problem later when they will be "fantasising" about her, and may be making jokes or jibes at you?

Similarly, if at a topless or nude beach, would you allow her to be topless or nude where your friends are around also? In this case, your friends would have "finally" seen her bare breasts or pussy. Wouldn't you feel a "loss"?

Talking from experience, I was on holiday in Australia recently, and met back with my old college mate. He brought me round Sydney, together with his wife, who incidentally was also my coursemate previously. She's a stunner actually, and those uni days, I had a thing for her, but of course never stood the chance. Anyway, they brought me to the beach and it was fun. She wore a nice bikini, which was a treat, but the interesting bit is she started to take her top off. Wow! I nearly choked, just imagine your fantasy girl is now topless.

She had nice breasts, by the way.
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Postby elsa73 » Sat Oct 04, 2008 4:46 pm

I have worn revealing clothing and walked around in my bra at a festival with my fellas mates...so what??
If you don't see what your doing as being sexual then it doesn't matter.
My fella actually flashed my boobs to his mates and about a thousand other man at a motley crue gig...i really didnt care.
On holiday i go topless...my fella loves it.
I think he is proud that i have such a good body and wants other men to see how lucky he is :P
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Re: Topless or Nude

Postby Isodora » Sat Oct 04, 2008 7:30 pm

Toby wrote:My wife and I went on holiday to the Dominican Rep. earlier this year. The resort had a nudist beach and we used it for the first time. My wife attacted quite a number of 'friends' -all male- and the second day we went there and, I went off snorkelling, they took her off and four of them had their wicked way with her!

Which beach did you visit?
The one my husband and I used was full of Dutch young men and women. Like you I got well serviced as did my husband by the Dutch girls!
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Postby barefootpaula » Sat Oct 04, 2008 9:34 pm

I saw my bf to the front door last night in jeans & a skimpy bra. One of my male house mates came in with his mate as we were on the doorstep which definetly turned bf on!
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Postby mr mash » Sat Oct 04, 2008 11:22 pm

barefootpaula wrote:One of my male house mates came in with his mate as we were on the doorstep which definetly turned bf on!


is he gay?
today i have mostly been eating yoghurt
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Postby barefootpaula » Sun Oct 05, 2008 1:10 am

Er, no why?
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Postby Moira Mac » Sun Oct 05, 2008 1:46 am

I've been naked / topless in front of hundreds of people including friends and family, I don't see it as a big deal. I do naturism so nudity comes naturally, my two sisters and their partners plus my partner have all been naked together on holiday a few times. I've been naked in front of work colleagues in a swimming pool changing room.

I worked in a nursing home which had a shower in our changing room, and I was seen au naturale at least twice, again no big deal. I've modelled for photographers and been naked, the money was good too :P Most times I at least kept my knickers on.

Anyone who thinks nudity is perverse when all you are doing is walking, sunbathing etc needs to climb down from the hysterical tree. There are people in the world that live in climates so hot they spend at least 1/2 - 3/4 of their lives naked or not far from it.

I've sometimes felt more at ease naked on a nudist beach than when in clothes in a pub!
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Postby sondra » Mon Oct 06, 2008 2:24 pm

I'm perfectly happy being undressed or semi-undressed in situations with people I know where it's normal - changing rooms, beachesand so on, but wouldn't be all that happy about "sporting" myself with people I know out of context.

For some reason, I'm more relaxed about it with people I don't know; I guess because I know I won't see them again. Not that I'm a big exhibitionist; I'm not, but one of the sexiest moments of my life was when my boyf and I were staying in a little private B&B; one of those posh country family places with 6 rooms and no door-locks - we'd gone upstairs after breakfast for a little R&R and I was on top of him, facing him, back to the door, grinding and riding away, when suddenly I notice him look towards the door, I turn round myself and there's the chambermaid - the teen/uni student daughter of the house, armful of towels, obviously come to service the room and found a different sort of servicing going on, and taking in the full uncensored view of a horny couple from the rear in full action!!!

I'm ashamed to say that, having been pretty close, I actually came on the spot, pushing down hard on my man's penis with an audible gasp. She blushed to her very core, gulped a "sorry" , dropped the towels and ran. My boyf flipped me over, thrusted twice and came over my bum. We both agreed it was the most horny thing in the world to think of her watching us: he said that he had heard a noise about ten seconds before he'd looked at the door having heard another noise, possibly her breathing fast.

We were staying for another night so we saw her again and she was very subdued, wouldn't make eye-contact etc. Probably afraid we'd tell her oparents she'd walked in on us. Instead iof which, she formed part of our fantasies for a while!
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Postby leopard » Wed Oct 08, 2008 10:49 am

Asian you are sick... how can talk about women as if they are man's property? :roll: I'm a man but I never view my girlfriend like this; it's her body and if she is comfortable doing that sort of stuff then I have no problem, largely because I trust her. You really don't get it do you?
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Re: Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acqu

Postby barefootpaula » Sun Nov 02, 2008 11:46 pm

Let bf in earlier wearing just a bra and pants despite housemates being about. He definetly liked me doing that!
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Re: Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acqu

Postby barefootpaula » Sun Nov 02, 2008 11:47 pm

Let bf in earlier wearing just a bra and pants despite housemates being about. He definetly liked me doing that!
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Re: Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acqu

Postby stockman » Tue Nov 18, 2008 11:35 pm

yeh why not
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Re: Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acqu

Postby Guest » Fri Jan 02, 2009 12:55 am

I have just returned from a hoilday camping trip in the beautiful lakes region of new zealand.

My husband and i had a large tent you could stand in with the mesh windows, you know the type.
We never had the window flaps down as it was too warm and after a swim in the cool lake waters i would change in the tent.

Camped next to us was a group of lads, late teens there for the new years celebrations.
There were about 8 of them and they would just be stirring as i returned from my swim.
Without thought the first couple of mornings i would peel off my bikini, dry off and dress.

It was my husband who made me aware that i was bieng watched, and indeed he thought it was a laugh. These boys were not known to us and we were unlikely to ever see them again and it gave the two of us a cheap thrill.

Later we were joined at the camp by family friends and consequently i was much more cautious when changing etc as this family group had three young lads from 10-14 yrs.
Though proud of my slim figure i did not wish to flash it at impressionable youngsters.

But, once back in town we were a bit shocked to be told by these same said friends that not only had these boys bieng spying on me, there was photographic evidence of my nudity and indeed some sexual exploits with my husband :oops: :!:
Some of these images were emailed or posted or whatever around the oldest boys circle of friends, people i see on the street on a daily basis in our neighbourhood.
Some of the looks i get can make me a little uncomfortable but at the same time a little excited.
Is that wrong :?:
I have no idea who has seen what but don't believe the lad should be punished too much
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Re: Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acqu

Postby Daniela » Fri Feb 27, 2009 7:16 pm

That's the problem with so many phone camera etc around
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Postby Fenny » Wed Mar 04, 2009 5:14 pm

sondra wrote:I'm perfectly happy being undressed or semi-undressed in situations with people I know where it's normal - changing rooms, beachesand so on, but wouldn't be all that happy about "sporting" myself with people I know out of context.

For some reason, I'm more relaxed about it with people I don't know; I guess because I know I won't see them again. Not that I'm a big exhibitionist; I'm not, but one of the sexiest moments of my life was when my boyf and I were staying in a little private B&B; one of those posh country family places with 6 rooms and no door-locks - we'd gone upstairs after breakfast for a little R&R and I was on top of him, facing him, back to the door, grinding and riding away, when suddenly I notice him look towards the door, I turn round myself and there's the chambermaid - the teen/uni student daughter of the house, armful of towels, obviously come to service the room and found a different sort of servicing going on, and taking in the full uncensored view of a horny couple from the rear in full action!!!

I'm ashamed to say that, having been pretty close, I actually came on the spot, pushing down hard on my man's penis with an audible gasp. She blushed to her very core, gulped a "sorry" , dropped the towels and ran. My boyf flipped me over, thrusted twice and came over my bum. We both agreed it was the most horny thing in the world to think of her watching us: he said that he had heard a noise about ten seconds before he'd looked at the door having heard another noise, possibly her breathing fast.

We were staying for another night so we saw her again and she was very subdued, wouldn't make eye-contact etc. Probably afraid we'd tell her parents she'd walked in on us. Instead of which, she formed part of our fantasies for a while!


Sondra,

That's a very exciting story and reminds me of a time when we were staying at the house of some friends who live in Corsica. We're younger than them (we were late 20s) and we don't have kids; they have two; at the time the boy would have been about 12 and the girl 15; nice girl, pretty and becoming busty. We'd been down to the beach all day; myself and Annie (our hostess) had gone topless but Caitlin, the daughter, hadn't - usual teen embarrassment I guess - anyway, we'd all had dinner with plenty of wine and my partner and I had gone to bed pretty happy and horny. We were busy getting well into one another - buck naked, 69'ing, me on top, me facing the door (though I was looking somewhere else!!); lights still full on in our room - when I hear a little gasp from the doorway - I think we may not have shut it properly or it may have had a problem that it didn't quite shut and I look up (all slurpy and no doubt with pre-cum on my lips; partner still tonguing my pussy) to see Caitlin, standing there with some clothes and a watch we'd left at the pool in one hand; transfixed, gazing at the scene of the crime, blushing to her roots. I've no idea how long she'd been there, but it can't have been longer than ten seconds but still....She dropped our bits on a chair by the door, stammered something - a "sorry" I think and bolted. Partner wonders why his C***'s not getting attention and hears the commotion and looks up. I explain - and he - b*****! - is hugely turned on by this and proceeds (after wedging the door shut) - to bend me over and do me over mercilessly (I'm pretty sure he was imagining I was her and I'm sure he grew another inch; certainly he's never cum as much!!). We thought we were in for trouble with the parents, but she can't have said anything, but she was very shy around both of us for the remaining days. We, on the other hand, once we knew we were at ease with our hosts, remainded incredibly horny; in particular he needed relief of some sort or another three or four times a day, particularly whenever he saw poor Caitlin in her little bikini; he said he found the thought of her having seen his swollen C*** incredibly exciting.

She's grown up and no doubt knows all about it all for herself by now....
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