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Postby Rem Bran on Mon Mar 19, 2007 9:20 pm

newkatie wrote:Do I have to get insulted every time I open my mouth


i think this forum blames you for they way that slutiestes thing ever dione turned out
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Postby hattyrare on Mon Mar 19, 2007 10:07 pm

rehan wrote:
newkatie wrote:Do I have to get insulted every time I open my mouth


i think this forum blames you for they way that slutiestes thing ever dione turned out


Sorry?
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Postby elliott20 on Tue Mar 20, 2007 2:23 pm

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elliott20 wrote:Of course, nude beaches have one thing I gotta complain about... quality control. I've never seen so many nude 50+ year old people in my life. It's a little excessive, to say the least.


Nude beaches are for the benefit of people who enjoy being nude in the sun, not for the benefit of weirdos to stare at.

You got me there, Vim. My group of friends and I were probably the most awkward feeling on the beach that day because we just felt so out of our element.
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Postby Asian on Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:19 pm

. wrote:My husband and i have been i holiday a number of times with friends and i dont have a problem going topless.
The first time i did it a friend said that i was brave and i answered her by saying well we all have a pair. The next holiday we went on with them she also went topless with me.


Hi, I have a few questions for you:

1. When you say you went topless with friends on holiday, I'm sure that includes the male species :) My question is - How was their reaction? Did they look or sneak looks? Did they make direct comments to you or your husband?

2. What did your husband had to say about it? Was he jealous or approving of it, that his mates could now view your bare breasts?

3. When your friend finally went topless as well, what was your husband's private comments to you? Did he enjoy it, or it was just another pair of boobs??


* I assume, of course, that you are an attractive female in the first place, otherwise the above questions do not apply...

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Postby Asian on Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:25 pm

elliott20 wrote:I think it's less accepted in the US than say, many parts of Europe. When I was backpacking through Italy, I've been to a number of beaches with my friends and we always couldn't stop but marvel at all the hot women just walking around topless like it's no big deal.


Elliott, my point is: in front of complete strangers, I think many of you, more so in Continental Europe, have no qualms about taking it all off at nude beaches etc. However, when you are together with people you know, either friends or workmates, isn't that an awkward situation?

Take my situation for example. My friend's wife was topless and she happened to be a chick that I fancied many years back. You can imagine my "reaction" :)

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Postby elliott20 on Tue Mar 20, 2007 5:44 pm

well, I personally wouldn't feel comfortable doing either so I guess it's hard for me to say.

some of my female friends have done it before just on a dare. Other than that, not really known anybody else who would feel that way.

But I can totally understand your reaction.
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Postby Asian on Tue Mar 20, 2007 6:53 pm

elliott20 wrote:

some of my female friends have done it before just on a dare.


Wow, was it through a strip . game, or some kind of Truth Or Dare?

How was your reaction then? I assume you mean you had never gone steady with these female friends before, they were just platonic, right? So, after they revealed their goods, did you start having fantasies about them? I know I would, unless they were completely unattractive.

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Postby elliott20 on Tue Mar 20, 2007 7:03 pm

this was back in college. we all got drunk one night and decided to play .. But then one of the girls joked about playing strip . and then it just devolved into that and a hybrid of truth and dare.

Well, let's just say that I had a really good luck on the draw that night so I managed to keep most of my clothes. (plus, I was counting cards in my head.)

So, by the end of the night, most of the girls were sitting there stark nude. and every other hand that they lost, they had to do a truth or dare thing. (unless the person felt uncomfortable enough that they'd want to opt out. but really by the time they were nude, we really didn't care if they were going to do anythingelse)

I definitely found some of them to be extremely attractive so yeah, definitely had some fantasies born that night. Of course, there were also a couple that I just didn't really find them all that attractive because we've known each other for so long.
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Postby Often Nude on Wed Mar 21, 2007 12:20 am

Being nude is simply natural, not sexual in the slightest. Here in Arizona nudity is commen attire nuch of the year,
-just not around hormonally insane teens, :lol: or in enforced `decency areas` like by Mormon Cult Temples.

It gets a bit 'trying' when bf does:
"Feel Testing" & "nipple response survey" of enhanced teets women, but also quite comical!
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Postby uk topless rules on Wed Mar 21, 2007 12:43 am

going topless on the beach in the Uk isd fairly usual (and most welcome!), when the weather is warm enough.

there are some nude beaches, though sill seems to be a stigma attached- much more freedom (and bare flesh!) in suthern europe (eg- spain, balearic islands, greece).- one place i went to in crete, it was VERY hot, so no bother from anyone (gawkers, peepers etc- hiding behind newspapers etc)!

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Postby Guest on Wed Mar 21, 2007 6:59 pm

Asian wrote:
. wrote:My husband and i have been i holiday a number of times with friends and i dont have a problem going topless.
The first time i did it a friend said that i was brave and i answered her by saying well we all have a pair. The next holiday we went on with them she also went topless with me.


Hi, I have a few questions for you:

1. When you say you went topless with friends on holiday, I'm sure that includes the male species :) My question is - How was their reaction? Did they look or sneak looks? Did they make direct comments to you or your husband?

2. What did your husband had to say about it? Was he jealous or approving of it, that his mates could now view your bare breasts?

3. When your friend finally went topless as well, what was your husband's private comments to you? Did he enjoy it, or it was just another pair of boobs??


* I assume, of course, that you are an attractive female in the first place, otherwise the above questions do not apply...


1/2.I had been topless on holiday before when it was just my husband and me and he was fine with it then.
But when we went with friends i did ask him if he was ok with it and he said fine but only on the beach.
One male friend didsay to my husband that he would not let his wife do that and my husband said well its her body and so it was up to me.

3. When my friend went topless my husband just said i have started something now and said mine where better.

*yes i am a female in my late 30's

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Postby Asian on Thu Mar 22, 2007 3:48 pm

. wrote:

1/2.I had been topless on holiday before when it was just my husband and me and he was fine with it then.
But when we went with friends i did ask him if he was ok with it and he said fine but only on the beach.
One male friend didsay to my husband that he would not let his wife do that and my husband said well its her body and so it was up to me.

3. When my friend went topless my husband just said i have started something now and said mine where better.

*yes i am a female in my late 30's


1/2. So you did ask him first before going topless in front of friends. I guess this means that it is also an awkward topic for you all, even though you are less inhibitive in the presence of strangers. Just wondering, did you really give him a choice whether he could stop you from being topless in front of male friends?

3. Do you also feel that yours are better than your friend's tits? :)

4. Also, do you think that your husband's male friends had fantasised about you after seeing your tits?

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Postby Guest on Thu Mar 22, 2007 8:21 pm

1/2 Yes if he had said that he did not want me to i would not have done so.

3. I dont think i have a bad pair but i dont know what you class has better.

4. I dont know and am not worried anyway thats up to them.

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Postby KatieH on Fri Mar 23, 2007 3:34 pm

My husband loves for me to go out dressed, basically, like a slut, and theres even when i go out with my friends. The fact he wants me to and it turns him on turns me on too.

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Postby BELL on Fri Mar 23, 2007 3:46 pm

When you say like a slut what do you wear then.

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