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Postby curiouscaroline on Sun Mar 25, 2007 10:05 pm

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curiouscaroline wrote:That said, just before xmas, I got changed in the office for a night out and let some of my work colleagues see me walk out of the office in a leather mini and boots... that was fun - they'd never seen me in anything other than conservative work dress before that!


What did your colleagues have to say about that? Did they tell you anything to your face? Or said some lewd stuff behind your back? Did you feel good becoming a cocktease to them?


I don't think anything's been said behind my back.. it's been quite a while and no-one who didn't see me has said anything. A couple of the girls in the office were a bit shocked.. and a couple of the guys have since asked when they're going to get to see me in that outfit again! :oops:

Yes... I did enjoy the teasing element

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Postby zak on Mon Mar 26, 2007 11:35 pm

My wife has a habit of wandering around the house in her knickers and a t-shirt / vest top and doesn't always put anything else on if a mate calls round.

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Postby Asian on Tue Mar 27, 2007 4:18 pm

zak wrote:My wife has a habit of wandering around the house in her knickers and a t-shirt / vest top and doesn't always put anything else on if a mate calls round.


What do you do about it? Do you restrict her from doing that, especially exposure to your male friend! Would she be angry if you restricted her?

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Postby guest1110 on Tue Mar 27, 2007 5:22 pm

one day myself and my gf went round to her sisters house for a barbeque but it was a really hot day and got hotter. she wore jeans and a long sleve top. eventually she said f**k it and stripped to her just her knickers basically sunbathed in the garden - the men enjoyed it. i enjoyed it too - they were really tiny knickers!!!!!!!!

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Postby Guest on Tue Mar 27, 2007 6:08 pm

Asian, do you live in the real world.
Where do you get the idea that men can "restrict" women?

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Postby zak on Tue Mar 27, 2007 10:24 pm

I guess if I felt uncomfortable I could tell her how I feel and I'm sure she'd get properly dressed if a male mate came round but most of our mates are from uni days and we shared a house for a few years so it's really no big deal.

I actualy feel proud of her body and wouldn't want to cover her up anyway. One of my mates has seen her naked and it really wouldn't bother me if all of them did....though I think that would be a bit too out of the norm to be acceptable (unless on a beach or whatever).

Do you have a girlfriend prone to showing off in front of your mates then?

Z.

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Postby THAT_GUEST on Tue Mar 27, 2007 11:22 pm

Sex may be the key to human survival, but humans are at the top of the evolutionary ladder and are the only species that CHOOSE when to reproduce. That being said, we also have rules of society, that have been in place for centuries. Common decency has told us that just because we can go sauntering about in our birthday suits, we generally don't. I also believe that sex is a very special treasure afforded us by our Maker, and should be treated as special. I will not, have not, would not allow the cheap thrills for others at the expense of my girlfriends body. If a gathering became to sweltering hot to endure the outdoors, then either the party moves indoors or if we are at someone's home, we leave.

Folks, come on...this is common sense 101 here!
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Postby orak100 on Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:37 am

THAT_GUEST wrote:Sex may be the key to human survival, but humans are at the top of the evolutionary ladder and are the only species that CHOOSE when to reproduce. That being said, we also have rules of society, that have been in place for centuries. Common decency has told us that just because we can go sauntering about in our birthday suits, we generally don't. I also believe that sex is a very special treasure afforded us by our Maker, and should be treated as special. I will not, have not, would not allow the cheap thrills for others at the expense of my girlfriends body. If a gathering became to sweltering hot to endure the outdoors, then either the party moves indoors or if we are at someone's home, we leave.


Make up your mind. God or Dawkins?

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Postby Guest on Wed Mar 28, 2007 12:35 pm

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. wrote:My wife and I enjoy going to a ude beach . We have recently met some younger friends and she has no problems sitting around chatting at the beach naked ith them .It felt a little strange at first but now we enjoy it


When you say you "enjoy" it, what do you mean? You enjoy that your new friends are ogling your wife's tits and pussy?


No ...we enjoy being able to sit around and chat without clothes ....no one is oogling each other , that is for pervs which we are not

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Postby Guest on Wed Mar 28, 2007 4:42 pm

For the last 3 years or so my girlfriend and I have been away on holiday to a Friends Villa in Greece with 2 other couples (2 male and 2 female). For the first 2 years of the holiday the 3 woman have always worn Bikinis around the villa pool or at the beach. My girlfriend said last year that she's quite like to go topless on holiday and asked if i'd mind if she did even if the other in our group were around - to be honest i was a bit dubious as first, but would have been ok if on of the other woman went topless as well. Anyway we were sitting by the pool on the first day of our holiday and my girlfriend asked if anybody would mind if she just wore a Thong bikini bottom and no top. Nobody objected (the men clearly wouldn't have!!!) and i ended up topless for the 2 weeks when we at the beach or pool. My boyfriend said that he liked the idea of his friends seeing me topless and it was bit of a turn on. Neither of the other woman went topless.

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Postby Guest on Wed Mar 28, 2007 4:44 pm

I'n case you're wondering about the last post - my girlfriend jumped in and finish the post off.

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Postby ebz on Wed Mar 28, 2007 4:46 pm

Sick freaks the lot of you!

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Postby Guest on Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:14 pm

About 'baring all' to friends on holidays/beaches etc, in my experience, if you're friends then it's really not a big issue. My bf and I went on holiday with last year with a large mixed group of other couples and some single friends - all known each other since university. Most of the girls, me included, went topless on the beach regarless of who was around. Guys really aren't that bothered you know. Then on one day we went to a deserted beach and most of us swam and sunbathed naked. My boyfriend didn't mind at all that his male friends could see me naked, he told me he was proud! Among us girls there was a bit of discrete comparing of the boys (and some interesting sights!) but there was also a nice feeling that we all trusted each other and felt comfortable with exposing our bodies in each other's presence.

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Postby Asian on Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:27 pm

zak wrote:I guess if I felt uncomfortable I could tell her how I feel and I'm sure she'd get properly dressed if a male mate came round but most of our mates are from uni days and we shared a house for a few years so it's really no big deal.

I actualy feel proud of her body and wouldn't want to cover her up anyway. One of my mates has seen her naked and it really wouldn't bother me if all of them did....though I think that would be a bit too out of the norm to be acceptable (unless on a beach or whatever).

Do you have a girlfriend prone to showing off in front of your mates then?

Z.


Wow, zak, are you for real? You seem pretty liberal with your wife's body. Isn't that precious to you instead of "public property"?

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Postby Asian on Wed Mar 28, 2007 5:28 pm

THAT_GUEST wrote:Sex may be the key to human survival, but humans are at the top of the evolutionary ladder and are the only species that CHOOSE when to reproduce. That being said, we also have rules of society, that have been in place for centuries. Common decency has told us that just because we can go sauntering about in our birthday suits, we generally don't. I also believe that sex is a very special treasure afforded us by our Maker, and should be treated as special. I will not, have not, would not allow the cheap thrills for others at the expense of my girlfriends body. If a gathering became to sweltering hot to endure the outdoors, then either the party moves indoors or if we are at someone's home, we leave.

Folks, come on...this is common sense 101 here!


First time I see another reply that makes sense. Bravo to you.

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