Revealing, Topless or Nude in front of friends, acqu

[Asian]

My wife and I enjoy going to a ude beach . We have recently met some younger friends and she has no problems sitting around chatting at the beach naked ith them .It felt a little strange at first but now we enjoy it

When you say you "enjoy" it, what do you mean? You enjoy that your new friends are ogling your wife's tits and pussy?

No ...we enjoy being able to sit around and chat without clothes ....no one is oogling each other , that is for pervs which we are not

Come on, any normal guy will get turned on by an attractive woman who is naked! It's not just for pervs! Unless of course, your wife is totally unattractive...

[Asian]

For the last 3 years or so my girlfriend and I have been away on holiday to a Friends Villa in Greece with 2 other couples (2 male and 2 female). For the first 2 years of the holiday the 3 woman have always worn Bikinis around the villa pool or at the beach. My girlfriend said last year that she's quite like to go topless on holiday and asked if i'd mind if she did even if the other in our group were around - to be honest i was a bit dubious as first, but would have been ok if on of the other woman went topless as well. Anyway we were sitting by the pool on the first day of our holiday and my girlfriend asked if anybody would mind if she just wore a Thong bikini bottom and no top. Nobody objected (the men clearly wouldn't have!!!) and i ended up topless for the 2 weeks when we at the beach or pool. My boyfriend said that he liked the idea of his friends seeing me topless and it was bit of a turn on. Neither of the other woman went topless.

Wow, you can't make up your mind whether you want to be male or female.

[Asian]

About 'baring all' to friends on holidays/beaches etc, in my experience, if you're friends then it's really not a big issue. My bf and I went on holiday with last year with a large mixed group of other couples and some single friends - all known each other since university. Most of the girls, me included, went topless on the beach regarless of who was around. Guys really aren't that bothered you know. Then on one day we went to a deserted beach and most of us swam and sunbathed naked. My boyfriend didn't mind at all that his male friends could see me naked, he told me he was proud! Among us girls there was a bit of discrete comparing of the boys (and some interesting sights!) but there was also a nice feeling that we all trusted each other and felt comfortable with exposing our bodies in each other's presence.

I find it hard to believe that a normal guy will not be "bothered" about seing a beautiful co-worker or college mate in the buff. Is that your justification to yourself so that you have an excuse to display your sexy body to your other male friends?

[Guest]

About 'baring all' to friends on holidays/beaches etc, in my experience, if you're friends then it's really not a big issue. My bf and I went on holiday with last year with a large mixed group of other couples and some single friends - all known each other since university. Most of the girls, me included, went topless on the beach regarless of who was around. Guys really aren't that bothered you know. Then on one day we went to a deserted beach and most of us swam and sunbathed naked. My boyfriend didn't mind at all that his male friends could see me naked, he told me he was proud! Among us girls there was a bit of discrete comparing of the boys (and some interesting sights!) but there was also a nice feeling that we all trusted each other and felt comfortable with exposing our bodies in each other's presence.

I find it hard to believe that a normal guy will not be "bothered" about seing a beautiful co-worker or college mate in the buff. Is that your justification to yourself so that you have an excuse to display your sexy body to your other male friends?

Mate, if it bothers you, then it bothers you. There's nothing you're gonna hear that'll change your mind it seems. I like to think my male friends are pretty "normal" and from talking with them I know they really don't pay that much mind to girls sunbathing topless. Maybe you've not been to many beaches in places like Spain and Greece, but do you think so many girls would do it if they worried about guys staring at them constantly. You've reminded me of my little brother, when our family went on holiday to Spain, when he was about 14/15. For the first days he'd sneak off on his own and gawp at all the bare flesh (it was hilarious), but by the end of the holiday even he had got bored of the sight of bare breasts! Why don't you go to nudist beach with your girl, both get as naked as the day you were born, and get the hell over this insecurity you seem all too happy to project onto others. Love you xx

[Yet Another Guest]

My Wife and I went away to Spain with another couple recently. My wife has always preferred to go topless on holiday to avoid strap marks. She was concerned about my feelings on this Holiday and asked me first but I was happy either way. In the end it was just another day at the beach.

Nudity is all about context. Being Naked on a beach, where people have so much flesh on show anyway, is really no big deal after you get over your own initial inhibitions. Its true that after the first few minutes you forget about being nude. Being dressed in revealing clothes is always going to be more sexy.

...Does the questions about being concerned about other people having fantasys about what they've seen show more about how your fantasies work?

[Asian]

Nudity is all about context. Being Naked on a beach, where people have so much flesh on show anyway, is really no big deal after you get over your own initial inhibitions. Its true that after the first few minutes you forget about being nude. Being dressed in revealing clothes is always going to be more sexy.

You have made a good counter-point. Still, the abundance of nude bodies (strangers) on say, a nude beach, cannot match the thrill of seeing your female co-worker or friend topless (i.e. someone you know) or nude for the first time. I'm sure you'll agree.

[dr_foster]

I tend to agree with most guys here - I have no problem with people seeing my wife's boobs on the beach or anywhere for that measure. I like her to dress sexily and enjoy the admiring glances she gets from other men.

She looks great and should show it off !!!

[ezb]

I tend to agree with most guys here - I have no problem with people seeing my wife's boobs on the beach or anywhere for that measure. I like her to dress sexily and enjoy the admiring glances she gets from other men.

She looks great and should show it off !!!

You are a disgusting little man who sees his wife as nothing more than a trophy!

[dr_foster]

ezb.....grow up you immature individual....

[Rem Bran]

i thik i agree with the doc on this one

[ebz]

ezb.....grow up you immature individual....

You really are a nasty bit of scum and a threat to all females!

[mensagirl]

You need to deal with your own issues before accusing people of having problems.

[VanessaEvans]

My bf has no problem with me 'showing-off' or being naked on the beach. Friends being with us makes no difference. None of us are ashamed of our bodies and going back to the way we were born is (amongst other things) a good way to remind us that we are all basically the same under our clothes. Flaunting our bodies a little is only providing what the opposite sex wantd to see and it makes us feel good. In the last sentence I didn't mention specific sexes as it happens both ways.

Vanessa

[ebz]

You need to deal with your own issues before accusing people of having problems.

Its the likes of your sort that is the problem with the world today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[mensagirl]

It's so easy for you to see faults in others.

Look at yourself. You do have issues. You see sex as 'disgusting'

What happened in your life to make you that way?