He Says It Doesn't Get As Hard As It Used To

[RobertJ]

I read somewhere that lack of erections caused future impotents.

How do you explain the porn stars that age and still go...viagra sure, but ron jeremy refuses to use it

Rob

[MarriedMom]

Thanks for the post to all of you. Everyone made some good points. I think it all stacks up to age and his smoking. And if it does have anything to do with overuse, he's a prime example of that. He's one of the biggest porn junkies you can find. LOL

Thanks a lot, and btw, my name isn't Tia.. LOL I was saying Thanks in advance at the bottom of my post.



MM

[cosmicB]

Daily:
Forte Vitamine B complex & minerals...
Amino acid complex...
5000 iu C (not time release)...
2 "Total Energy" tabs...
500 iu Zinc...
No booze...
No meat (for a couple days)...
No antihistamines or deconjestants...
There! Problem is fixed...

The problem is, degrees of "fatal undernourishment"...
Sex troubles and Limp dinkie is sign of body fast dying from lack of nutrients...
Buy a bottle of ginsing liquer, from the best Chinatown pharmacy...
and talk to the pharmacist about reality nutrician, and reality energy...
and forget about goofy animal killer folk medicines...
Determine layers in Oriental Medicine... Dig only in the ones that make total sense...

And exercise a bit...

[Cala_mity]

Sorry

[MarriedMom]

Sorry

It's ok hon!

I should have just typed out the whole sentence instead of using the lazy, shorthand internet lingo.

MM

[Susie from London]

Your husband shouldn't worry,as it's quite normal.If the sex is still good,who cares if it's not as stiff as the erection of an 18 year old.

Come on dear, have a heart - he does! It can't be as much fun and must be pretty demoralising. Encourage him to see his doctor and get some pills to help out - or order _ if need be.

[MarriedMom]

Hi Susie,

I've seriously considered discussing it with him to see if he would go to a doc and get something for it, but my husband is one of those men that would rather perform an enema with rubbing alcohol than go see a doctor. ALSO, he is against taking medications of any kind. When he gets a cold, fever, the flu, he will just sweat it out and take vitamins until it goes away. He won't take ANY kind of medication, so I am betting he would be against taking a "male enhancement" or erectile disfunction pill as well.

I'd like to talk to him about the problem, but he is very sensitive about the subject, as most men would understandably be. How should I approach him on it? To be honest, the more I think about it, he does have a recurring issue with getting soft too soon during sex. It's not every time, but I would have to say it is most of the time now. Should I just keep my mouth shut on the issue and hope he brings it up, or should I approach him about it stressing my concern? Would that only make him feel worse? Not sure how I should go about it.

For the men out there, how would you feel if your wife came to you and tried to discuss this issue? What would be a delicate way of approaching the problem without seeming insulting?

MM

[Sister Cadfael]

Hi Susie,

I've seriously considered discussing it with him to see if he would go to a doc and get something for it, but my husband is one of those men that would rather perform an enema with rubbing alcohol than go see a doctor. ALSO, he is against taking medications of any kind. When he gets a cold, fever, the flu, he will just sweat it out and take vitamins until it goes away. He won't take ANY kind of medication, so I am betting he would be against taking a "male enhancement" or erectile disfunction pill as well.

MM

OK - but you need to talk to him and tell him how unhappy and/or unsatisfied you are.

One option is the Blakoe Energiser ring. This is a C*** ring that men wear night and day for a few weeks. The ring has nickle and copper electrodes which set up an electo magnetic field around the C***. This stimulates the production of the hormones that cause a man to get erect and then, when his prostate has orgasmed, to deflate. From personal experience of my husband it does work - though pills are easier and quicker. My hubby actually likes wearing his C*** ring during the day and at night when we make love he keeps it on as when his C*** erects the ring helps cut off the blood supply and keeps him hard longer. I also like the feeling of the hard plastic (carbon) ring against my clit. Try it. It isn't cheap (about 65 quid) but does work.

[Cala_mity]

MM,

Have you had any luck with your guy since posting your delicate problem on here?

Cala

[MarriedMom]

Hi everyone,

Yes, I have discussed it lightly with him, and he is aware of the fact that there needs to be some lifestyle changes made in regards to his health. I seriously think his smoking is the main reason for his problem, and he agrees with me, but it's not an easy task for him to quit smoking. He has been smoking for quite a while, and for him to quit would be quite a task for him. We are both working on that problem, actually. I've gotten some multi-vitamins for him, and he has cut back significantly on the smokes. We are working on it together, and if things don't improve soon, he has agreed on trying out a prescription. We're just worried about the side effects, especially considering he is a smoker.

I'll let you guys know if it gets to that point! Anyone out there used any of the ED pills, and if so, which ones should he avoid/try out?

MM

[k9trainingbiz]

MM, I can attest personally and with medical background my husband experienced the same thing (age 42). I told him to get a test for testosterone (blood test) and it showed a significantly low value. He was started on testosterone replacement therapy (gel applied to skin daily) and now has tons of drive, very little ED. But we still use . (good for 2 days, no waiting!) and he is just like an 18 year old! ., like Viagra are harmless, unless using nitro (under tongue for chest pains, angina pectoris). However, his smoking and drinking are an issue. Toxins in the system age you prematurely and will cause total impotence in the long run. If he stops and begins a reasonable excercise program, walking briskly for 20 min. per day is great! It will increase the circulation in all areas. Also, change all sex routines, places. Keep it fresh!
I hope this helps, my husband and I are on permanent honeymoon!

[Sulivan]

May I add my bit....?

I have some friends in their 50's. They noticed the same problem & here's what they did...

She asked him to see his Dr. Apparently the guy had to do some minor tests (I think one involved a urine sample) & they then prescribed him Viagra. For them it worked! She said they had sex like 18 year olds again. He stayed hard!

Facts - Viagra works something like 8 out of 10 times - the times it doesn't work I think that means it won't work at all on that person... not a case of sometimes yes/sometimes no ... It's yay or nay.

You can buy them on the net if you don't want the whole Dr thing - but they can be expensive - & do you really know what you are getting if you order it over the net!?!? Some spoon head could mix it wrong & you could end paying (I think it averages about £5 - £10 a tablet) for nonsense... (or worse)!

Simply put as the body ages the veins etc don't function as well. It's called aging! It doesn't mean someone is gay or inadequate. It's a simple case of blow flow to the member. Viagra is a good answer.

If I may quote Peter Stringfellows he said that now-a-days if he had a 3 girl orgy he wouldn't have to worry about keeping it up - he would simply pop a viagra pill & bob's your uncle. I can't say it's something I have suffered from but long gone are the days when it matters... When I am 55 (or whenever) & I notice it's not 100% I will go grab one (er pill not three girl orgy - oh no hang on)....

Plus I think that (just like you women -guys are human) if every time he worries about it - it will add to his dilema.

My advice..?

Suggest to him that he could (for free) get enough Viagra for a month if his Dr thinks it relevant & that after he pops them he will be doing an impression of a porn star & grinning. Get them, a bottle of wine, some candles - put the cat out - nice music... & see what happens.

Best case scenario - you go at it like bunny rabbits.. Worst case scenario - a visit to the Dr & a night in.

Foot note: I'd rather know you did it through a doctor & not of a god-forsaken dodgy web site tho pls!

Have fun & let me know of this helps!

[k ruth]

As a fourty seven year old male who has the sex drive of a 16 year old still, non smoker lite drinker, good shape. I found after 38 things started to change down there. ??? I still can do it fine just not the same. I was at my Doctor for a check up and asked him about those little blue pills? I took one with the wife and did not tell her. I went for hours. I could carry around a wet beach towel ! wow. I think I wore it out? No way she can keep up with me. Six times that night. I now get them for that special times and they are really great Thank God for modern medical > Ken

[Big Ben]

I am not an MD, but how can one really know that viagra and . have no potential bad long-term effects? They are pretty new on the market, and what they do can't be considered natural. I would be wary of such products, unless enough time went by to be able scientifically prove their complete safety. All upside and no downside? Absolutely no risk, no way, no how? When something sounds too good to be true, it is usually because there is a catch.

[Cala_mity]

MM,

I gave up smoking nearly a year ago, just woke up one morning and thought this stuff is killing me.

I bought the patches, read the instructions, then put one on my arm (LATE AFTERNOON).

I had the most bizzare dreams that evening.

If I had paid attention I should have put the patch on first thing in the morning.

But I woke up the following morning with no craving whatsoever.

Never tried the gum, but that is only because I hate gum.

Cala