Wow...i kinda freaked out today with all these things that i read! Hi everyone, i'm a Scorpio man, crazy about an Aries Woman, and boy oh boy, now i know why me and my sister always fight...lol See i never really payed attention to my arguements with my sister, i just thought they were as they were....but with the aries woman my g/f, well i think! ;(, made me realize a lot of things. I searched the internet and found all these hororscope articles on the compatibility. Reading all of them, all i had to do is to actually remove the word scorpio and add my own, and hers where it said aries. It was just unbelievable how spot on the situation got. So here's my story.
1 month and a week ago, i met this girl in a club. By the way i'm 31, and she's 30. Anyways, i've had a rather crazy lifestyle before without a g/f, like for example clubs, drinking, going out, i have a great job, i have a good wage, i'm indpendent ect. But when i met her i went crazy. I wanted change in my life, and i knew that if i was to be with this girl, i need to be straight up with her, and be honest as possible, and change my lifestyle. See i'm telling you all this for a reason, which will come up later on.
Anyways, so from day one , i knew i was going to go out with her. Don't know what it was, but i really liked what i saw, and after speaking a bit i just was enthusiastic. So basically we eventually go to our first date, it was just great, i never sat down in a restaurant for over 3 hours!! EVER!..i was far from bored. 2nd date, we had the same thing, with a movie, GREAT time! and the 3rd we kissed, and it was just amazing...she even told me the same thing. See all was good, until i brought my caring and opening up a little too soon. See what it was was that ARies was giving me a hard time for me reading her, so i became weak, trying to win this situation this love battle this passion battle. Once she jumped at me for my lifestyle when i explained to her how i wanted change in my life...and she's the only person i would love to make that change for, and i don't mind! she doesn't believe me though, even though i proved to her i'm cool in chilling in, or doing all the things she likes doing. i find them interesting and besides that i enjoy her company. So i coudn't understand why she was getting into arguements with me. So the first one started, didn't go that well, i was about to leave, but then she showed some kind of care...and kinda stopped me. The second time around, i got frustrated cause again, she started to point out stuff at me from my past AGAIN...and that pissed me off, she saw the mad scorpio, you know those piercing fearfull eyes..well i got those..and then again , another 3rd fight, and now it has to do with how i analyze things, how i patronize her, ect ect...when i was doing nothing like that! i was just merely showing, how much i care, how much i want to be with her...that the reason we fight has no reason at all...that its a waste for us being sad and angry, ect ect.. So many fights in such a small period of time. The last fight we had, i told her look, we need to chill a bit and take a week apart so we can cool the air. But i got worried, that she might forget me, in those days, so i wrote her an apologetic letter explaining the reason i wanted us to be apart for a week, cause i wanted her to actually miss me...cause she stopped showing me affection 2 weeks ago...i was doing it she was doing it a little, but then she took one step backwards and then got me to worry again! how annoying!! feeling like you don't know where you belong in the relationship! and that's how i exactly felt.
So the next day, i called her telling her its not a good idea to actually not see each other for a week, but soon! she took it the wrong way again, saying no that's what you said, i put it in my head to do so, and i think its best this way. I asked her, since she mentioned how she makes her decisions easy, how come she's still with me!? why doesn't she let me go? its still early in the relationship,...anyways, she keeps on avoiding that question! WHY???
Anyways, i really don't know what to do, other than wait for a couple of days, i mean i called it, but she bought my bluff...so there...i'm in pain, my stomache is in knots...don't know how to win her back. I know i'm good when i sweet talk to her, its down to earth, and i mean everything i say. But i've done it over and over again, and not too sure where this is goin.. Any idea Aries women out there? i mean i didn't do anything wrong, expect maybe show her a little too much care and love. But that comes with the action that i'm not recieving anything from her sometimes which in turn freaks me out.
What to do??
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