Secrets to Will Smith and Jada Pinkett happy marriag

[kelly]

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What happened to Thou shalt not commit adultry? It is a sin to sleep with other people and married. Apparently they forgot about that one, and why get married if you're going to have interest in other people? I would never marry a man under these terms, no matter who he is. This is insecurity on both their parts.

[Jill]

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by kelly

What happened to Thou shalt not commit adultry? It is a sin to sleep with other people and married. Apparently they forgot about that one, and why get married if you're going to have interest in other people? I would never marry a man under these terms, no matter who he is. This is insecurity on both their parts.

Answer: Or it could be being realistic and honest. You don't know how you are going to feel the next day. How many people make wedding vows they don't keep but swear they believed with all their hearts they would keep them when they vowed them. With divorce being at 50% last time I checked (don't know what it is these days)... that means 50% of the people who get married don't keep their wedding vows... especially the one that promised UNTIL DEATH DO US PART... divorce is not death doing a couple part. People who get divorce are still alive.

[Jill]

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by Phyllis

My question is if a couple chooses to do that, why get married?

Answer:(Why get married: because it's a free country... they have as much right to get married as the next person and to make the rules (vows) for that marriage... it's their marriage... not yours) How many people do you know get in front of the alter and say "UNTIL DEATH DO THEM PART" and then you see them walking around divorce (THEY'RE APART AND THEY AIN'T DEAD... SO THEY LIED).


It doesn't seem logical to me. Inevitably, that arrangement is not going to succeed with human emotion involved. If the other is to approve the outside partner, I am not convinced that only those females or males not viewed as a threat to the marriage relationship would be considered.

To each his own, but it's my very basic belief that it comes down to respect for self and most of all respect for the sanctity of marriage.

Free love is not a marriage, that's a mess. (The couple said nothing about free love they said free sex).

[Jill]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

Please note in this article neither Will or Jada actually said they've done it. They just said if they wanted to they would ask the other, and would not do it if the other said 'No'. That kind of agreement might actually prevent the couple from ever cheating on each other especially if they are as in love as they claim to be. There are no easy answers to marriage... so people do the best they can. And some individuals are more sexually passionate or have stronger sex drives than others (not everybody is the same). So what may come easy for some individuals do not come as easy for others. Therefore, we shouldn't be so judgmental but simply say 'to each their own' because we all can't always relate to every single person on the planet. It may be easy for you to say I won't cheat but someone with a stronger sex drive or just a different set of values it may not be so easy or they may not be so disturbed by the act.

[J]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

I'm so disappointed and lost much respect for the both of them. I always looked at them with pride as not only a Hollywood couple, but a black couple that is defying all statistics. That is a direct prohibition from God to commit adultery! They're teaching their children to cheat and that it's okay to. I only pray they don't lay down with the wrong person and attain AIDS or some other STD that they spread to the other. Truly a sad day for marriage.

[Jill]

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by kelly

What happened to Thou shalt not commit adultry? It is a sin to sleep with other people and married. Apparently they forgot about that one, and why get married if you're going to have interest in other people? I would never marry a man under these terms, no matter who he is. This is insecurity on both their parts.

Answer: Or it could be being realistic and honest. You don't know how you are going to feel the next day. How many people make wedding vows they don't keep but swear they believed with all their hearts they would keep them when they vowed them. With divorce being at 50% last time I checked (don't know what it is these days)... that means 50% of the people who get married don't keep their wedding vows... especially the one that promised UNTIL DEATH DO US PART... divorce is not death doing a couple part. People who get divorce are still alive.

[Jill]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

by Phyllis

My question is if a couple chooses to do that, why get married?

Answer:(Why get married: because it's a free country... they have as much right to get married as the next person and to make the rules (vows) for that marriage... it's their marriage... not yours) How many people do you know get in front of the alter and say "UNTIL DEATH DO THEM PART" and then you see them walking around divorce (THEY'RE APART AND THEY AIN'T DEAD... SO THEY LIED).


It doesn't seem logical to me. Inevitably, that arrangement is not going to succeed with human emotion involved. If the other is to approve the outside partner, I am not convinced that only those females or males not viewed as a threat to the marriage relationship would be considered.

To each his own, but it's my very basic belief that it comes down to respect for self and most of all respect for the sanctity of marriage.

Free love is not a marriage, that's a mess. (The couple said nothing about free love they said free sex).

[Jill]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

Please note in this article neither Will or Jada actually said they've done it. They just said if they wanted to they would ask the other, and would not do it if the other said 'No'. That kind of agreement might actually prevent the couple from ever cheating on each other especially if they are as in love as they claim to be. There are no easy answers to marriage... so people do the best they can. And some individuals are more sexually passionate or have stronger sex drives than others (not everybody is the same). So what may come easy for some individuals do not come as easy for others. Therefore, we shouldn't be so judgmental but simply say 'to each their own' because we all can't always relate to every single person on the planet. It may be easy for you to say I won't cheat but someone with a stronger sex drive or just a different set of values it may not be so easy or they may not be so disturbed by the act.

[J]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

I'm so disappointed and lost much respect for the both of them. I always looked at them with pride as not only a Hollywood couple, but a black couple that is defying all statistics. That is a direct prohibition from God to commit adultery! They're teaching their children to cheat and that it's okay to. I only pray they don't lay down with the wrong person and attain AIDS or some other STD that they spread to the other. Truly a sad day for marriage.

[Jill]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

by kelly

What happened to Thou shalt not commit adultry? It is a sin to sleep with other people and married. Apparently they forgot about that one, and why get married if you're going to have interest in other people? I would never marry a man under these terms, no matter who he is. This is insecurity on both their parts.

Answer: Or it could be being realistic and honest. You don't know how you are going to feel the next day. How many people make wedding vows they don't keep but swear they believed with all their hearts they would keep them when they vowed them. With divorce being at 50% last time I checked (don't know what it is these days)... that means 50% of the people who get married don't keep their wedding vows... especially the one that promised UNTIL DEATH DO US PART... divorce is not death doing a couple part. People who get divorce are still alive.

[Jill]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

by Phyllis

My question is if a couple chooses to do that, why get married?

Answer:(Why get married: because it's a free country... they have as much right to get married as the next person and to make the rules (vows) for that marriage... it's their marriage... not yours) How many people do you know get in front of the alter and say "UNTIL DEATH DO THEM PART" and then you see them walking around divorce (THEY'RE APART AND THEY AIN'T DEAD... SO THEY LIED).


It doesn't seem logical to me. Inevitably, that arrangement is not going to succeed with human emotion involved. If the other is to approve the outside partner, I am not convinced that only those females or males not viewed as a threat to the marriage relationship would be considered.

To each his own, but it's my very basic belief that it comes down to respect for self and most of all respect for the sanctity of marriage.

Free love is not a marriage, that's a mess. (The couple said nothing about free love they said free sex).

[Jill]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

Please note in this article neither Will or Jada actually said they've done it. They just said if they wanted to they would ask the other, and would not do it if the other said 'No'. That kind of agreement might actually prevent the couple from ever cheating on each other especially if they are as in love as they claim to be. There are no easy answers to marriage... so people do the best they can. And some individuals are more sexually passionate or have stronger sex drives than others (not everybody is the same). So what may come easy for some individuals do not come as easy for others. Therefore, we shouldn't be so judgmental but simply say 'to each their own' because we all can't always relate to every single person on the planet. It may be easy for you to say I won't cheat but someone with a stronger sex drive or just a different set of values it may not be so easy or they may not be so disturbed by the act.

[J]

You can the read the full article at: http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/celebrity/Will+Smith-2473.html

I'm so disappointed and lost much respect for the both of them. I always looked at them with pride as not only a Hollywood couple, but a black couple that is defying all statistics. That is a direct prohibition from God to commit adultery! They're teaching their children to cheat and that it's okay to. I only pray they don't lay down with the wrong person and attain AIDS or some other STD that they spread to the other. Truly a sad day for marriage.

[Sadielove504]

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I am very hurt. I have idolized this couple for years. I have even said I wont marry until I fine my own Will Smith. I wont judge them, its not for man to judge. I still love them both, I am hurt but I will get over it. Don't get me wrong, I will always admire them both. They are two beautiful people. Jada and Will I respect your honesty.
Much love,
Sadielove504

[scorpio 26]

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over the years that will and jada smith have been married,i have really admired their love ,thier chemistry and their devotion to each other. its rare to see love like this in any color thats why i say that what ever it takes to keep this type of love going do it!!!! will and jada is a great example of love, a family and what a couple can have. they are human and makes the same choices that we do,they just have a bigger price to pay " the spotlight.