Mums when did the passion returned to your relationship? My hubby wanted to wait for the 6 week check (although I had no stitches, rips or tears) and now that has been and gone still makes no move towards me. I feel very unattractive to him and have even said as much. He told me that he still fancied me and was worried about me getting pregnant again. So, I went out and bought some condoms. This still has not helped. I have an appointment at the Dr's for the implonon stick to be inserted in my arm so that contraception is taken care of. Funny thing is, before I got pregnant we didn't use any form of contraception for 4 years! I just don't seem to "do it" any more for my DH. I have tried to seduce him and always seem to make the first move towards sex but I have been brushed off (very very hurtful) and told that he is too tired. What does he think I am with a small baby to look after but I still want him. I do know that he feels horny at times because he masterbates (don't ask me how I know that I just do!!!)
Sorry if this is a subject not normally raised here but I really need some advice. I don't want to talk to my friends about it as they are too close and I don't want to talk to the Dr either. Just some friendly advise and to know what happens in other relationships would help.
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