Rayne08 wrote:yes we have had a very sexual relationship and we are young. I know he's not using me, because it's not like he only calls me if he wants to f*** or something. Today he even called me to tell me something he thought was funny, then told me he was working late and wasn't going to see anyone (he told me last night that he might see his friends). Doesn't that sound very boyfriendy to you? I can't determine if he just really needs space to do his own thing or what.
So I think i'll try it for a month or so and see what happens. I really don't expect him to meet someone right away but I guess I will also have to keep in mind that I could get hurt again and potentially not be the one for him. But I really feel like he could be the one and I want to do anything to make us work, even if I have to wait for him to mature and see what he has in front of him...
God, sweetie, you're still thinking organically. In that mode you can't distinguish wishes from reality. Can't you understad the idea of drawing line? Call them marks, goals or whatever, but they reduce the equation to a 'yes/no' factor. It gives you direction, instead of the guiddiness you have now.
Nah! .... 
We're doing really good, and he seems really happy to have my back...yay for me