::Mitzi:: wrote:Simple rules of parenting:
If it's a girl pierce her ears, if it's a boy circumcise him.
Both are great gifts.
Gifts?
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::Mitzi:: wrote:Simple rules of parenting:
If it's a girl pierce her ears, if it's a boy circumcise him.
Both are great gifts.
THE COLONELS DAUGHTER wrote:HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN SADDAM
Katy wrote:My daughter, Emma, was born on 15th March. One of my friends who has a daughter a couple of weeks older mentioned to me yesterday that she is intending to take her daughter to Claire's Accessories when she is four months old to have her ears pierced. She wondered if I wanted Emma to have it done too when she is a baby.
I hadn't really thought about it to be honest until yesterday when my friend mentioned it. I had my own ears pierced for the first time when I was a teenager and then a second time when I was 22.
I can see the advantages of baby girls having it done when they are babies. It hurts them a lot less at that age, it gives them a start and means you are not worrying about when to do it and does look really cute. More and more baby girls are now, of course having it done very young and I am worried if I don't do it now, I will not know when to do it. I know it is much more difficult when they are toddlers. My friend will definitely take her daughter to have it done and it will be nice for our friendship if we go together and have both our daughters pierced at the same time.
On the other hand, I am a bit worried about making this decision for her when she might prefer to decide for herself when she is older. Also, is there a risk that as she grows up, the holes become crooked and look different in each ear ?
I am really not sure what to do. I have another month to wait since Claire's don't do it until they are four months.
I asked my husband what he thought. I know his older sister has two daughters and she had them both done as babies. They are now six and four years old and have had no problems with them and they look sweet. He says he will leave the decision to me as doesn't mind either way.
Can anyone advise me as to what I should do ? I would particularly like to hear from mums who DID decide to have their babies pierced as babies and whether or not they think they made the right decision. If you have a second daughter in the future, would you make the same decision for them too ?
Thanks for your help,
Karen.
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