Should I wear adult diapers?

[Lydia_X]

I am 35 and have suffered urinary incontinence for the last ten years necessitating having to wear diapers and plastic pants all the time both for day wear and at night. I am totally use to them and find them extremely comfortable.

Recently I have been buying them on line from www.fetware.com who specialise in adult diapers and plastic pants and have a wide range of some very pretty styles. I wet myself without even realising it but I always keep my dresses and skirts dry. I felt very self conscious having to wear diapers at first but now its no problem and they make me feel secure.

Jenny L

I have had to wear diapers or nappies 24/7 for the last ten years since I was 23 when I started having embarrassing leaks in my knickers. At first I used absorbent pads but they were not effective so I had to wear towelling nappies under plastic pants. I have tried various suppliers and there is some good quality stuff out there including plastic panties in the style of sexy knickers. I live at home and my mum changes me but I keep a clean nappy if needed at work where I change myself in the loo (of course!). In the last three years I have also developed occasional faecal incontinence which often occurs at night in bed if I have been drinking alcohol but my nappy and plastic knickers always prevent me soiling the bed.

I have worn nappies for so long I no longer even notice I have them on and no longer feel ashamed at having to wear them.

[Grahame_Live]

Its good to know others have this problem of incontinence and have to wear nappies. 18 months ago I started wetting the bed at night for no apparent reason. My GP said I was suffering from anxiety and put me on anti-depressants but they have had little effect and I have worn a nappy ever since but only at night as its not a problem in the day.

To be honest I have come to enjoy it. I feel so secure in a nappy with plastic pants on top and knowing that I can wet and everything will be okay. Its not a sexual thing but just a really comfortable feeling.

[swee.]

I do!

[jbz2079]

Just been reading through the posts on here.
There are many different reasons to Wear nappies, some medical,
some for other reasons.
I personally wear for both medical reasons and because I like the feeling
of comfort and security that wearing gives me.
Comfort because they feel nice to wear, security because I wake in the morning with a dry bed.

Some wear for Festish or sexual need, I can live with that, I need them
Have to wear them so why not have some fun with something you have to do anyway?

Anyone just using nappies or plastic pants to spice up their lovelife
why not? what harm does it do, if both adults are consenting go for it I say.

I would love to have a few female friend who either don't mind or partake
in wearing as friends.
The reason for posting this on this site really'
Take care and have fun- John.

[rosi]

I am 35 and have suffered urinary incontinence for the last ten years necessitating having to wear diapers and plastic pants all the time both for day wear and at night. I am totally use to them and find them extremely comfortable.

Recently I have been buying them on line from www.fetware.com who specialise in adult diapers and plastic pants and have a wide range of some very pretty styles. I wet myself without even realising it but I always keep my dresses and skirts dry. I felt very self conscious having to wear diapers at first but now its no problem and they make me feel secure.

Jenny L

I have had to wear diapers or nappies 24/7 for the last ten years since I was 23 when I started having embarrassing leaks in my knickers. At first I used absorbent pads but they were not effective so I had to wear towelling nappies under plastic pants. I have tried various suppliers and there is some good quality stuff out there including plastic panties in the style of sexy knickers. I live at home and my mum changes me but I keep a clean nappy if needed at work where I change myself in the loo (of course!). In the last three years I have also developed occasional faecal incontinence which often occurs at night in bed if I have been drinking alcohol but my nappy and plastic knickers always prevent me soiling the bed.

I have worn nappies for so long I no longer even notice I have them on and no longer feel ashamed at having to wear them.

[b] Hi, iam rosi and iam 13 yrs old. Ive never talkd about this be4. Iam hapy ive found this site,as i thought i was the only 1.I suffer frm a medical problem wiv my bladder which means i carnt control it. Whts slightly upsetting me, is tht iam still wearing nappies.Ive never bn out of thm. Ive always worn disposable nappies and plastic pants for day time, and then terry nappies with plastic pants for bed time.M mum is very caring and understanding about my problem and doesnt treat me like a baby, but says i need tht surpport and protection to stop me from being embarassd whn i hav accidnts. I notice u r abit older thn me, but is your mum caring about your situation, as u live at home.[u][/u] My mum always tels me its better to hav a wet nappy thn wet knickers and skirts and bed.[u] Do u wear thm from choice, or does your mum say u hav to wear thm for your own security[u] and protection.[/u] My mum wants me out of thm justd as much as i do, but until it gets better, she says i hav to stay in thm. Iam like u, i dont really mind wearing thm,as ive never worn justd knickers on thre own. The only thing i hate about my problem, is whn we go anywhre people can sumtimes see tht iam wearing nappy, and whn ive had a accidnt, my nappy gets heavy and more bulky from the wetness. [u]How do u cope whn your out, do u try and hide tht your wearing a nappy..[u] u said your mum still changes you whn your at home, hw do u feel about this, or is your mum caring about the situation.[/u] My mum doesnt make a big issue out of it. whn i hav accidents thru day time, my mum will take me into the baby changeing/disabled toilet or sumwhre private and change me, its only takes a minute,as she can change me stood up. I get slighty embarrsd whn its time for my nite time nappy, as ive got to lay dwn.. but i no i nd the help and its not my fault, wish people cud undstnd iam not wierd or a freak. [u]hw do u cope. [/u]Rosi [/b]

[Princess Holly]

I am nearly 17 and have been in nappies at night all my life and on occassions daytime too.
I have never had night time bladder control, as a toddler I progressed from nappies to pullups but I had too many leaks with those as I tend to sleep on my side. Mum bought me several types of adult all in on incontinece pads (basically disposable nappies) most of these did their job, but due to me being worried about envioromental issues I now wear terry nappies and plastic pants. The only time I wear disposable nappies is when I go on holiday, and I do wear KOTEX night time sanitary towels in my knickers during the day for my little daytime leaks.
My mum has never treated me like a baby except from when I was one, I have been putting my own nappies on from the age of about 10, I did have to wear nappies during the day when I was ill with chest infections as when ever I coughed I would wet myself
A couple of times I came home from school to se my mum had put washing on the clothes line and 3 or 4 freshly laundered nappies would be flapping in the wind along with a few pairs of plastic pants Only my imediate family know so I didn't want all the neighbours knowing aswell

[rosi]

I am nearly 17 and have been in nappies at night all my life and on occassions daytime too.
I have never had night time bladder control, as a toddler I progressed from nappies to pullups but I had too many leaks with those as I tend to sleep on my side. Mum bought me several types of adult all in on incontinece pads (basically disposable nappies) most of these did their job, but due to me being worried about envioromental issues I now wear terry nappies and plastic pants. The only time I wear disposable nappies is when I go on holiday, and I do wear KOTEX night time sanitary towels in my knickers during the day for my little daytime leaks.
My mum has never treated me like a baby except from when I was one, I have been putting my own nappies on from the age of about 10, I did have to wear nappies during the day when I was ill with chest infections as when ever I coughed I would wet myself
A couple of times I came home from school to se my mum had put washing on the clothes line and 3 or 4 freshly laundered nappies would be flapping in the wind along with a few pairs of plastic pants Only my imediate family know so I didn't want all the neighbours knowing aswell

Hay holly
Its good know thres sumbody nearly my age going thru it, my mum knows iam talking to u guys, as she says it will help, and its good tht other mums can tell me hw they deal wiv it.,so i no nw, tht my mum does it to help.
wud be good to talk sumtime. bye.

[Princess Holly]

I am nearly 17 and have been in nappies at night all my life and on occassions daytime too.
I have never had night time bladder control, as a toddler I progressed from nappies to pullups but I had too many leaks with those as I tend to sleep on my side. Mum bought me several types of adult all in on incontinece pads (basically disposable nappies) most of these did their job, but due to me being worried about envioromental issues I now wear terry nappies and plastic pants. The only time I wear disposable nappies is when I go on holiday, and I do wear KOTEX night time sanitary towels in my knickers during the day for my little daytime leaks.
My mum has never treated me like a baby except from when I was one, I have been putting my own nappies on from the age of about 10, I did have to wear nappies during the day when I was ill with chest infections as when ever I coughed I would wet myself
A couple of times I came home from school to se my mum had put washing on the clothes line and 3 or 4 freshly laundered nappies would be flapping in the wind along with a few pairs of plastic pants Only my imediate family know so I didn't want all the neighbours knowing aswell

Hay holly
Its good know thres sumbody nearly my age going thru it, my mum knows iam talking to u guys, as she says it will help, and its good tht other mums can tell me hw they deal wiv it.,so i no nw, tht my mum does it to help.
wud be good to talk sumtime. bye.

Hello Rosi
You say you are 13 and still constantly in nappies, don't you think you are getting a bit too old to be changed by your Mum. I have been sorting myself out since I was around 10 years old I'd hate my Mum to see my private parts now. Obviously she does see me in a nappy sometimes but thats all and she washes them for me and buys all my plastic pants for me.
When I first tried terry nappies I had a real struggle to get them on properly and in the end Mum demonstated how I should do it with a face flannel and a doll. Apart from the occassional prick from my nappy pins I am an expert at putting a nappy on now. Just for a matter of interest which part of the country do you live I live in the south west.

[Guest]

McMum

[Princess Holly]

McMum

Hello McMum I have not heard from you in a while, you still visit here then.

[Guest]

I am nearly 17 and have been in nappies at night all my life and on occassions daytime too.
I have never had night time bladder control, as a toddler I progressed from nappies to pullups but I had too many leaks with those as I tend to sleep on my side. Mum bought me several types of adult all in on incontinece pads (basically disposable nappies) most of these did their job, but due to me being worried about envioromental issues I now wear terry nappies and plastic pants. The only time I wear disposable nappies is when I go on holiday, and I do wear KOTEX night time sanitary towels in my knickers during the day for my little daytime leaks.
My mum has never treated me like a baby except from when I was one, I have been putting my own nappies on from the age of about 10, I did have to wear nappies during the day when I was ill with chest infections as when ever I coughed I would wet myself
A couple of times I came home from school to se my mum had put washing on the clothes line and 3 or 4 freshly laundered nappies would be flapping in the wind along with a few pairs of plastic pants Only my imediate family know so I didn't want all the neighbours knowing aswell

Hay holly
Its good know thres sumbody nearly my age going thru it, my mum knows iam talking to u guys, as she says it will help, and its good tht other mums can tell me hw they deal wiv it.,so i no nw, tht my mum does it to help.
wud be good to talk sumtime. bye.

Hello Rosi
You say you are 13 and still constantly in nappies, don't you think you are getting a bit too old to be changed by your Mum. I have been sorting myself out since I was around 10 years old I'd hate my Mum to see my private parts now. Obviously she does see me in a nappy sometimes but thats all and she washes them for me and buys all my plastic pants for me.
When I first tried terry nappies I had a real struggle to get them on properly and in the end Mum demonstated how I should do it with a face flannel and a doll. Apart from the occassional prick from my nappy pins I am an expert at putting a nappy on now. Just for a matter of interest which part of the country do you live I live in the south west.

I don't see anything wrong with that if she is happy with her mum changing her and her mum is also happy it isn't a problem.

[rosi]

I am nearly 17 and have been in nappies at night all my life and on occassions daytime too.
I have never had night time bladder control, as a toddler I progressed from nappies to pullups but I had too many leaks with those as I tend to sleep on my side. Mum bought me several types of adult all in on incontinece pads (basically disposable nappies) most of these did their job, but due to me being worried about envioromental issues I now wear terry nappies and plastic pants. The only time I wear disposable nappies is when I go on holiday, and I do wear KOTEX night time sanitary towels in my knickers during the day for my little daytime leaks.
My mum has never treated me like a baby except from when I was one, I have been putting my own nappies on from the age of about 10, I did have to wear nappies during the day when I was ill with chest infections as when ever I coughed I would wet myself
A couple of times I came home from school to se my mum had put washing on the clothes line and 3 or 4 freshly laundered nappies would be flapping in the wind along with a few pairs of plastic pants Only my imediate family know so I didn't want all the neighbours knowing aswell

Hay holly
Its good know thres sumbody nearly my age going thru it, my mum knows iam talking to u guys, as she says it will help, and its good tht other mums can tell me hw they deal wiv it.,so i no nw, tht my mum does it to help.
wud be good to talk sumtime. bye.

Hello Rosi
You say you are 13 and still constantly in nappies, don't you think you are getting a bit too old to be changed by your Mum. I have been sorting myself out since I was around 10 years old I'd hate my Mum to see my private parts now. Obviously she does see me in a nappy sometimes but thats all and she washes them for me and buys all my plastic pants for me.
When I first tried terry nappies I had a real struggle to get them on properly and in the end Mum demonstated how I should do it with a face flannel and a doll. Apart from the occassional prick from my nappy pins I am an expert at putting a nappy on now. Just for a matter of interest which part of the country do you live I live in the south west.

I don't see anything wrong with that if she is happy with her mum changing her and her mum is also happy it isn't a problem.

hay holly yeah, iam 13. Everyday i wake up, i prey iam dry, but asuall my nappy is wet tru. I wud do anything for it to stop rite nw..iam still wearing nappies for day time,aswell as bedtime due to my problem. sumtimes i get really dwn and upset, as babies wear nappies day nd nite, nt a 13yr old.
do u ever feel dwn, as your still wearing nappies to bed at 17.

me and my mum hav never seen it, as iam to old to hav my nappies put on by her. my mum has always changd my nappies, its justd a routine, she never makes it a issue, whn ive hd a accidnt, i justd tell her, it only tkes a couple of minutes to change my nappy as i wear disposables.

My mum is very careing and understanding twards my problem, and never treats me as a baby., but says its better to hav a wet nappy, thn having wet knickers and clothes, whre people can see ive hd an accidnt

I justd wish people cud undstand, tht wearing nappies doesnt mke u a freak., i justd see wearing thm, as normal underwear with extra surpport. I live north west.
speak soon. bye

[LynneJ]

As I have said before under another thread, there is nothing wrong with wearing adult nappies either if you need to, like my partner, or they give you an extra feeling of security. The advertisements say that millions of people have bladder weaknesses of one sort or another so its not unusual. As for people wanting to wear nappies for pleasure, so what? You can't say that its doing anyone any harm. On the long list of things in the world of which I might disapprove, this would come right down near the bottom (as of course do nappies!)

[Nappy Girl]

As I have said before under another thread, there is nothing wrong with wearing adult nappies either if you need to, like my partner, or they give you an extra feeling of security. The advertisements say that millions of people have bladder weaknesses of one sort or another so its not unusual. As for people wanting to wear nappies for pleasure, so what? You can't say that its doing anyone any harm. On the long list of things in the world of which I might disapprove, this would come right down near the bottom (as of course do nappies!)

Lynne you are spot on. There's nothing wrong with an adult wearing a nappy either because they have to or because they enjoy it. I started wearing a nappy and plastic pants at night when I was 25 because of nocturnal wetting and later had to wear one during the day as well. My incontinence lasted three years but by that time I was so used to wearing nappies that I have continued to do so 24/7 ever since (I'm 36). They give me a wonderful sense of security and I love being able to wet when I am in public without anyone knowing. They have also come in very useful when I have had an upset tummy although a full nappy needs changing fairly quickly.

Martine

[kathywets]

Worried Mother

I would not worry about wearing nappies/pads/protection for your incontinence. As the posts reflect, you are far from alone.

I am incontinent myself and like Jenny and others, I find my protection to be comfortable, secure and personally even sensual.

Whether you should wear nappies or plastic pants is a matter of taste. However, be aware that plastic pants alone will not have a solution for soaking up any accidents.
Personally I wear disposable nappies. They have a great capacity and through their great protection make me feel secure and relaxed. I do not have to worry about embarrassing accidents when out and about, and they make it possible for me to lead a normal active life.

This said, I will also recommend that you talk with your doctor. Today there are various ways of handling incontinence, ranging from operations, exercises and medicine to using protection. Or a combination of one or more.

Warm thoughts,
Kathy