Should I wear a skirt to please my boyfriend?

[Guest]

Jeans and trousers are NOT sexy no matter how well the magazines and adverts may try to convince us. They are worn for comfort and practical purposes only, guys know this, and a lot of women have no idea how much this pisses off the guys, who are too embarrassed to suggest that a lady might change her look and once in a while wear a dress or skirt, and subsequently incur the wrath of the feminists!
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Right on!! Totally agree with that..

Ever heard this old lame comment?.."..she looks good in jeans" well thats a contradiction in terms, as REAL women DON'T look good in jeans!

Ask a UK nurse. They would much prefer to wear those sexy dresses once more, but can't, due the constraints of the job.

Skirts are sometimes practical for work, but female doctors often wear trousers. Men only want women to wear dresses so they can have sex easier.

[Guest]

Should I wear a skirt to please my boyfriend?

I’d love to end up as a full-time housewife (marriage and kids).

Any advise please!!!

As you hope to get married you’ll have to wear a wedding dress won’t you? Seems about time you got used to skirts!

[another view]

Should I wear a skirt to please my boyfriend? Some of my friends say ‘wear a dress what’s the problem’ and the rest say ‘wear what you like what’s the problem’. I’ve never contacted this group before but I'm hoping that someone out there will understand the ******* problem!

My boyfriend wants me to wear a skirt because he says it’s more feminine than trousers. All I have are a couple of beach sarongs and a pair of culottes I hardly wear. Skirts are just too dressy and old-fashioned. They are just not me so what do I do?

I’ve never had much luck with boyfriends before. He is kind and funny and I love the way he treats me like a lady. He’s done lots of things to please me like shave off his beard and watching less football. But haven’t I got the right to wear trousers if that’s what I prefer? Isn’t a man being sexist if he tells a girl to wear a skirt?

I’m a bit of a tomboy and I’ve never taken much interest in my appearance but I don’t think I’m unfeminine. I’ve broken the habits of a lifetime and started doing my boyfriend’s laundry. I’d love to end up as a full-time housewife (marriage and kids).

He’s asked me to wear a skirt several times and teased me a bit about showing off my legs but I’ve treated it as a joke and ignored him even when he’s taken me to some glitzy places. We went to a gorgeous restaurant recently with 3 other couples. I put on more makeup than usual and a frilly blouse but the other girls were all in beautiful cocktail dresses and I did feel a bit embarrassed and, well, envious. He didn’t say anything but I’m sure he was disappointed. I just feel awkward about wearing dresses or skirts although he says I’d get used to it and probably start to enjoy it.

Any advise please!!!

Reading this reminds me of my situation about 5 years ago. I was always in jeans or combats and never in a skirt or dress. The last straw came when I went out my boyfriend (now husband) to his works do in jeans. Everyone else was in a skirts or dresses!

From that point on he said he wanted me in skirts and we went shopping that weekend and he brought me a whole new wardrobe. I was kinda of fuming but agreed to it.

Getting use to tights and stockings was really annoying but once you start wearing them you get use to them. He did loads for me and we are now married with 2 kids and me as full time house wife. I love it. Looking back it was a compromise which I was pleased to do. tights still annoy me though and he just happens to have some sort of fetish for me wearing them. Oh well.

My advice, just switch to skirts. He will be happy and you will be.

[barefootpaula]

I guess it's a similar thing to couples who have fetishes but on a lesser scale. If it doesn't freak you out try it you may like it. If it does freak you out explain and he'll understand.

[Mixed_up_Miss]

Should I wear a skirt to please my boyfriend?

I’d love to end up as a full-time housewife (marriage and kids).

Any advise please!!!

As you hope to get married you’ll have to wear a wedding dress won’t you? Seems about time you got used to skirts!

I’m desperate to be a Mrs and I’d even agree to be a trad bride – big white dress, even a veil – if that’s what it takes! It’s a shame a girl can’t get married in jeans though! That's not the same as wearing skirts for everyday though, is it?

[Guest]

Reading this reminds me of my situation about 5 years ago. I was always in jeans or combats and never in a skirt or dress. The last straw came when I went out my boyfriend (now husband) to his works do in jeans. Everyone else was in a skirts or dresses!

From that point on he said he wanted me in skirts and we went shopping that weekend and he brought me a whole new wardrobe. I was kinda of fuming but agreed to it.

Getting use to tights and stockings was really annoying but once you start wearing them you get use to them. He did loads for me and we are now married with 2 kids and me as full time house wife. I love it. Looking back it was a compromise which I was pleased to do. tights still annoy me though and he just happens to have some sort of fetish for me wearing them. Oh well.

My advice, just switch to skirts. He will be happy and you will be.

Hi, thank you for sharing your story. Wow! I’m so happy that you’ve now got a house and a husband and a family! If I really believed it would make all the difference maybe I’d grit my teeth and wear a dress and stockings every day for the rest of my life!!! But I think real life is a bit more complicated…

Did you really used to hate skirts? How did you feel when you started wearing them and how long did it take you to get used to them? I‘m worried that it would really screw me up. I’m sorry you still dislike tights – they do get itchy and saggy don’t they? It’s a shame your husband makes you wear them but I guess that as he does a lot for you it’s a price worth paying!

[another view]

Reading this reminds me of my situation about 5 years ago. I was always in jeans or combats and never in a skirt or dress. The last straw came when I went out my boyfriend (now husband) to his works do in jeans. Everyone else was in a skirts or dresses!

From that point on he said he wanted me in skirts and we went shopping that weekend and he brought me a whole new wardrobe. I was kinda of fuming but agreed to it.

Getting use to tights and stockings was really annoying but once you start wearing them you get use to them. He did loads for me and we are now married with 2 kids and me as full time house wife. I love it. Looking back it was a compromise which I was pleased to do. tights still annoy me though and he just happens to have some sort of fetish for me wearing them. Oh well.

My advice, just switch to skirts. He will be happy and you will be.

Hi, thank you for sharing your story. Wow! I’m so happy that you’ve now got a house and a husband and a family! If I really believed it would make all the difference maybe I’d grit my teeth and wear a dress and stockings every day for the rest of my life!!! But I think real life is a bit more complicated…

Did you really used to hate skirts? How did you feel when you started wearing them and how long did it take you to get used to them? I‘m worried that it would really screw me up. I’m sorry you still dislike tights – they do get itchy and saggy don’t they? It’s a shame your husband makes you wear them but I guess that as he does a lot for you it’s a price worth paying!

Did I hate skirts, yes, big time. I think I went for months without wearing one. I was lucky to wear trousers to school and only ever wore a skirt or dress when I really had to, like attending a wedding.

I wouldn't wear skirts unless I loved my hubby. He provides for me and my family and does everything. (Well I do the washing, ironing and cleaning, but I don't have to work, lol).

Downside, well wearing skirts and hoisery. We go shopping together and he chooses skirts I like as I have no idea at all, weird that, I should do really but it saves time and money if I chose something that he didn't wear.

As for the tights thing, this sometimes annoys more than wearing skirts. He has always this sort of fetish for me wearing tights. God I got loads from patterned tights to fishnets's. He usually buys these on-line for me. They do annoy me but I kind do get use to them. After all they are only skirts and tights and it makes him happy so if I was you go for it and wear a nice skirt. If you want to avoid the arguments get him to choose, you can;t go wrong then. !!

[Phantastica]

Should I wear a skirt to please my boyfriend? Some of my friends say ‘wear a dress what’s the problem’ and the rest say ‘wear what you like what’s the problem’. I’ve never contacted this group before but I'm hoping that someone out there will understand the ******* problem!

My boyfriend wants me to wear a skirt because he says it’s more feminine than trousers. All I have are a couple of beach sarongs and a pair of culottes I hardly wear. Skirts are just too dressy and old-fashioned. They are just not me so what do I do?

I’ve never had much luck with boyfriends before. He is kind and funny and I love the way he treats me like a lady. He’s done lots of things to please me like shave off his beard and watching less football. But haven’t I got the right to wear trousers if that’s what I prefer? Isn’t a man being sexist if he tells a girl to wear a skirt?

I’m a bit of a tomboy and I’ve never taken much interest in my appearance but I don’t think I’m unfeminine. I’ve broken the habits of a lifetime and started doing my boyfriend’s laundry. I’d love to end up as a full-time housewife (marriage and kids).

He’s asked me to wear a skirt several times and teased me a bit about showing off my legs but I’ve treated it as a joke and ignored him even when he’s taken me to some glitzy places. We went to a gorgeous restaurant recently with 3 other couples. I put on more makeup than usual and a frilly blouse but the other girls were all in beautiful cocktail dresses and I did feel a bit embarrassed and, well, envious. He didn’t say anything but I’m sure he was disappointed. I just feel awkward about wearing dresses or skirts although he says I’d get used to it and probably start to enjoy it.

Any advise please!!!

How we dress can have a huge impact on how we feel about ourselves, but if you are lucky enough to have a boyfriend who takes you to nice places then you should be making an effort to look your best. Don’t you want him to be proud of you? I imagine that a 100%-trousers girl who switches to skirts will feel self-conscious to start with and you’ll get a bit of teasing from friends and workmates, but you’ll get used to your skirts and then you’ll enjoy looking and feeling feminine. I do sympathise with your discomfort but I think you need to question your priorities. If you really love this man you’ll want to make him happy. It seems that he asking you nicely rather than ordering you about and he’s not expecting you to wear miniskirts or micro-dresses. You are obviously a feminine lady at heart so what valid excuse could you have for refusing to wear a skirt?

Maybe it would help if you looked at it another way: if he knows that you are wearing skirts and dresses to please him, won’t that make it really precious for both of you?

One other thing – you think that doing your boyfriend’s washing proves how feminine you are. Early in a relationship IMHO, men are more attracted by a bit of glamour than by domesticity. I love skirts and dresses but Hell will freeze over before I do a man’s laundry! But each to her own…

[Guest]

Ladies should always wear pretty dresses and skirts no matter what we are doing (even while doing tasks that might compromise our dignity). It is our job to please men by looking and acting feminine.

I always wear short dresses, high heels, stockings and no panties because that makes my husband happy and because it makes it easier for him to have his way with me whenever he wants. I would never disrespect him by wearing pants.

Ladies need to always be beautiful and vulnerable. That is why we are here

[Guest]

Mixed-up-mess, this is something the two of you really need to sort before you go much further, ie do you want to change for your BF or do you want to wait for someone who will appreciate you the way you are?

If he's prepared to take you shopping for skirts then it maybe good to let him, he can show you what he likes and you can make the decision. Try wearing skirts at home first if you're not comfortable.

My wife mainly lives in jeans and until recently became a trousers girl for work, it drove me nuts as she has great legs, it was one of the things that really attracted me to her when we met, as she got into her 30's she became more self-conscious about wearing skirts and in particular the length of them. I kept reassuring her about her looks and spent a fortune on new clothes for her on the condition that she had to buy some skirts of which a few should be shorter and after alot of persuasion she is now back in skirts again, some shorter than those she threw away a few years back!

Of course it's not all about how she looks, I've had to comprimise too but we're now happier than ever!

[Mixed_up_Miss]

Reading this reminds me of my situation about 5 years ago. I was always in jeans or combats and never in a skirt or dress. The last straw came when I went out my boyfriend (now husband) to his works do in jeans. Everyone else was in a skirts or dresses!

From that point on he said he wanted me in skirts and we went shopping that weekend and he brought me a whole new wardrobe. I was kinda of fuming but agreed to it.

Getting use to tights and stockings was really annoying but once you start wearing them you get use to them. He did loads for me and we are now married with 2 kids and me as full time house wife. I love it. Looking back it was a compromise which I was pleased to do. tights still annoy me though and he just happens to have some sort of fetish for me wearing them. Oh well.

My advice, just switch to skirts. He will be happy and you will be.

Hi, thank you for sharing your story. Wow! I’m so happy that you’ve now got a house and a husband and a family! If I really believed it would make all the difference maybe I’d grit my teeth and wear a dress and stockings every day for the rest of my life!!! But I think real life is a bit more complicated…

Did you really used to hate skirts? How did you feel when you started wearing them and how long did it take you to get used to them? I‘m worried that it would really screw me up. I’m sorry you still dislike tights – they do get itchy and saggy don’t they? It’s a shame your husband makes you wear them but I guess that as he does a lot for you it’s a price worth paying!

You have NO IDEA the effect your post had on me.

My first thought was, oh no, after 5 years you still dislike wearing a skirt. Poor you! I'm sure I'll be exactly the same!

I then got angry with your husband for making you do something you don't like and I was puzzled why you put up with it.

But I finally realised how much I'd love to swap places with you! I'd have a man of my very own who loved me and who gave me a home and a family. He'd go out to work each day to support us and look after us. I'd stay and home and look after my babies, do all the laundry and ironing and cleaning, fix the meals and do the dishes. Okay, I'd have to pull on a skirt and stockings every day - no fun maybe, an annoyance maybe, but nothing to lose sleep over.

You've helped me get things in perspective. You wear a skirt out of love for you husband and because he gives you so much more.

Can I ask a couple of questions please?
Firstly, have you got used to skirts at all since you started wearing them? Please, please say yes!
Secondly, and I don't know if this makes sense, but has wearing a skirt changed the way you feel about yourself, or how you feel about you husband or how he treats you?

[Guest]

How we dress can have a huge impact on how we feel about ourselves, but if you are lucky enough to have a boyfriend who takes you to nice places then you should be making an effort to look your best. Don’t you want him to be proud of you? I imagine that a 100%-trousers girl who switches to skirts will feel self-conscious to start with and you’ll get a bit of teasing from friends and workmates, but you’ll get used to your skirts and then you’ll enjoy looking and feeling feminine. I do sympathise with your discomfort but I think you need to question your priorities. If you really love this man you’ll want to make him happy. It seems that he asking you nicely rather than ordering you about and he’s not expecting you to wear miniskirts or micro-dresses. You are obviously a feminine lady at heart so what valid excuse could you have for refusing to wear a skirt?

Maybe it would help if you looked at it another way: if he knows that you are wearing skirts and dresses to please him, won’t that make it really precious for both of you?

One other thing – you think that doing your boyfriend’s washing proves how feminine you are. Early in a relationship IMHO, men are more attracted by a bit of glamour than by domesticity. I love skirts and dresses but Hell will freeze over before I do a man’s laundry! But each to her own…

Thanks for your honest advice. I was just hoping so much that people would understand about skirts / trousers but maybe I do need to get my priorities straight.

On your point about laundry - look I know it’s not very “liberated” but I’m prepared to be a housewife if that is what the man wants. When he takes me back to his place I put on an apron and try to make myself useful. If he sees me doing his laundry and keeping the place clean, maybe he’ll want me around on a more regular basis. That’s the plan anyway!
I’ve managed to leave a couple of nighties in his house and some clean underwear so (fingers crossed!!!) I’m starting to establish myself.

[Mixed_up_Miss]

How we dress can have a huge impact on how we feel about ourselves, but if you are lucky enough to have a boyfriend who takes you to nice places then you should be making an effort to look your best. Don’t you want him to be proud of you? I imagine that a 100%-trousers girl who switches to skirts will feel self-conscious to start with and you’ll get a bit of teasing from friends and workmates, but you’ll get used to your skirts and then you’ll enjoy looking and feeling feminine. I do sympathise with your discomfort but I think you need to question your priorities. If you really love this man you’ll want to make him happy. It seems that he asking you nicely rather than ordering you about and he’s not expecting you to wear miniskirts or micro-dresses. You are obviously a feminine lady at heart so what valid excuse could you have for refusing to wear a skirt?

Maybe it would help if you looked at it another way: if he knows that you are wearing skirts and dresses to please him, won’t that make it really precious for both of you?

One other thing – you think that doing your boyfriend’s washing proves how feminine you are. Early in a relationship IMHO, men are more attracted by a bit of glamour than by domesticity. I love skirts and dresses but Hell will freeze over before I do a man’s laundry! But each to her own…

THIS WAS ME - SORRY, FORGOT TO 'SIGN'
Thanks for your honest advice. I was just hoping so much that people
would understand about skirts / trousers but maybe I do need to get my priorities straight.

On your point about laundry - look I know it’s not very “liberated” but I’m prepared to be a housewife if that is what the man wants. When he takes me back to his place I put on an apron and try to make myself useful. If he sees me doing his laundry and keeping the place clean, maybe he’ll want me around on a more regular basis. That’s the plan anyway!
I’ve managed to leave a couple of nighties in his house and some clean underwear so (fingers crossed!!!) I’m starting to establish myself.

[Guest]

Of course you shouldn't do anything that doesn't feel right for you, so the answer would be just dress the way you want.

On the other hand my wife and I have the exact same disucssion. She is not unfeminine, but she dresses unsexy. She always dresses in jeans/trousers, but it would please me a LOT of she would wear a skirt now and then. I lover her no matter how she dresses and I think she is pretty, but I would like it very much if she (now and then) would dress in a way she would show a bit more of that, both to please me and to show to others how sexy my wife really is. So I think you should dress in skirt know and then. It would make your bf very happy and that probably is what you would like your boyfriend to be.

[glidewest]

why do a lot of women in this thread feel that puttin gon a skirt is fullfilling some kind of submissive femanine sterotype?

in the reading the post above, surely if that women wears a skirt it's giving her the power to give pleasure to others? If I could do that simply by wearing something different, it would make me very happy!