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fawcett 1 wrote:Hi,
I've been reading these posts and some interesting and valid points have been made.I applaud all the girls here who have committed to wearing skirts and some even <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>stockings</A> and a slip. My Husband wants me to dress like that all the time and some days I really can't be bothered. The other problem is most of my skirts are lined so how can you wear a slip under a lined skirt girls? I tell my husband that if the skirt is lined then I don't have to wear a slip but he thinks that wearing a lace trimmed slip is part of being feminine.I have experimented with <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>stockings</A> rather than <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>tights</A>/<A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>hose</A> and once you get used to them they are ok. My Husband certainly likes me in <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>stockings</A> and part of it is pleasing your man is'nt it.
I must admit that men in general treat me differently if I am wearing a skirt and high heels rather than trousers.You also walk and sit differently in a more "ladylike" way.
I'm sure that if more younger girls/teenagers tried wearing a skirt more often the "ladette" culture would change.
Deprived Guest wrote:I really have 2 b honest here...a bf who is pressuring u 2 wear a skirt?? Im a feminist, he dont like the pants?? then he can go F*** himself. Seriously. Ladies. The 20th century is over. Women CAN wear pants. and any1 who DOESNT like it can go pout in a little corner. But im gona admit the only time i ever wear a skirt is wen i c my bf. it is by far WAY easier access 4 him (plus no undies of course, depending how long the skirt). If ur bf wants u 2 so he can have easier access, ok. But if hes pressuring u 2 change who ur, to change wut u love, and 2 change ur personality, I say NEIGH! i mean...NAY!!!im lucky my bf doesnt give a crap wut i wear. i only wear the skirt 4 sexual purposes. If this is ur bfs intentions and if U R OK w/ IT, then just wear the damn skirt. But if he wants u 2 wear 1 just so he can stare@ur ass all day wen ur NOT doing sexual things...NAY!!!!!!!!!
Guest wrote:Read this with interest as I had a boyfriend very like the girl who started it. He baggered me endlessly to wear a skirt every time we went out and in the end bullied me to change from a typical “tomboy” not much interested in my appearance and really quite masculine into being wearing mostly skirts and conforming to his idea of ladylike behaviour.
I’m not with him anymore and when we split up I had wore nothing but jeans for a month ! But after a while I realised that I preferred my new self and looking and feeling more feminine and I particularly like the change in the way men treat me. So now I almost always wear a skirt / dress and the new man loves it ! Interested to know how “Mixed Up” and one or two others are getting on.
Mixed_up_Miss wrote:Guest wrote:Read this with interest as I had a boyfriend very like the girl who started it. He baggered me endlessly to wear a skirt every time we went out and in the end bullied me to change from a typical “tomboy” not much interested in my appearance and really quite masculine into being wearing mostly skirts and conforming to his idea of ladylike behaviour.
I’m not with him anymore and when we split up I had wore nothing but jeans for a month ! But after a while I realised that I preferred my new self and looking and feeling more feminine and I particularly like the change in the way men treat me. So now I almost always wear a skirt / dress and the new man loves it ! Interested to know how “Mixed Up” and one or two others are getting on.
Sorry I’ve not been in touch. My life has no settled down after a period of flux and I’m now reasonably confident about my long-term future.
There is no immediate prospect of marriage but my boyfriend now accepts me as a fixture in his house! He wants me to concentrate on housework so he told me not to look for another job, even part-time. I thought he’d give me an allowance but he prefers me to ask him whenever I need anything. He is ever so generous in buying me stuff but it does kind of emphasise my dependence.
He is the sort of man who puts a girl on a pedestal and I must say that he treats me like a princess! He took me to a heavenly 5 star resort in the Seychelles for a surprise Christmas holiday and gave me an awesome diamond bracelet on the day itself!! He is fiercely protective of me in public: he doesn’t like me going anywhere on my own any more and God help any man who fails to treat me with complete respect! I’m learning to be quite ladylike – knees together, ankles crossed and legs to the side, and no more drinking, smoking or swearing!
I get to do all the cleaning and washing and ironing of course which my mum says is a waste of an expensive university education, but I can’t complain – it leaves plenty of time for trips to the beautician, window shopping and gossipy daytime TV!
As one of the girls warned me he has become very, very controlling in the bedroom. He requires me to be submissive and essentially passive, compliant but not eager, and modest to the point of timidity. He expects me to put my nightie on before I remove my bra and <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/' target='_blank'>panties</A> and to keep it on during lovemaking. He likes me to show ladylike embarrassment if he asks to see me naked. He recently told me to stop using contraception l and although I’m nervous I understand his reasoning: a girl on the pill might be tempted to fool around, but a girl at risk of pregnancy has a big incentive to stay faithful to her man. He isn’t much interested in female sexuality and I can’t exactly say “no” but he is considerate about my comfort and it is fun most of the time!
Skirts are my only real bugbear. I really, really thought that by now, if I wore pretty dresses when he took me out, then he’d allow me to wear jeans and trousers during the day, in fact I was counting on it. To my discomfort he remains adamant in keeping me in skirts, dresses and <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>nylon</A> 24x7. He says that wearing skirts predisposes me to a traditional relationship and a traditional role, whereas trousers – even occasionally – might lead me astray into some kind of unisex, feminist “equal rights” lifestyle. I don’t know. I admit that dresses and skirts and slips and <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>stockings</A> are perfectly ordinary girls’ clothes and I’ve tried and tried to get used to them but I still feel a bit trapped to be honest. When I’m in a skirt I can simply never forget what I’m wearing – but although I don’t enjoy it, maybe my skirt is the continuous reminder of my femininity that a reformed tomboy needs.
Mixed_up_Miss wrote:Guest wrote:Read this with interest as I had a boyfriend very like the girl who started it. He baggered me endlessly to wear a skirt every time we went out and in the end bullied me to change from a typical “tomboy” not much interested in my appearance and really quite masculine into being wearing mostly skirts and conforming to his idea of ladylike behaviour.
I’m not with him anymore and when we split up I had wore nothing but jeans for a month ! But after a while I realised that I preferred my new self and looking and feeling more feminine and I particularly like the change in the way men treat me. So now I almost always wear a skirt / dress and the new man loves it ! Interested to know how “Mixed Up” and one or two others are getting on.
Sorry I’ve not been in touch. My life has no settled down after a period of flux and I’m now reasonably confident about my long-term future.
There is no immediate prospect of marriage but my boyfriend now accepts me as a fixture in his house! He wants me to concentrate on housework so he told me not to look for another job, even part-time. I thought he’d give me an allowance but he prefers me to ask him whenever I need anything. He is ever so generous in buying me stuff but it does kind of emphasise my dependence.
He is the sort of man who puts a girl on a pedestal and I must say that he treats me like a princess! He took me to a heavenly 5 star resort in the Seychelles for a surprise Christmas holiday and gave me an awesome diamond bracelet on the day itself!! He is fiercely protective of me in public: he doesn’t like me going anywhere on my own any more and God help any man who fails to treat me with complete respect! I’m learning to be quite ladylike – knees together, ankles crossed and legs to the side, and no more drinking, smoking or swearing!
I get to do all the cleaning and washing and ironing of course which my mum says is a waste of an expensive university education, but I can’t complain – it leaves plenty of time for trips to the beautician, window shopping and gossipy daytime TV!
As one of the girls warned me he has become very, very controlling in the bedroom. He requires me to be submissive and essentially passive, compliant but not eager, and modest to the point of timidity. He expects me to put my nightie on before I remove my bra and <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/' target='_blank'>panties</A> and to keep it on during lovemaking. He likes me to show ladylike embarrassment if he asks to see me naked. He recently told me to stop using contraception l and although I’m nervous I understand his reasoning: a girl on the pill might be tempted to fool around, but a girl at risk of pregnancy has a big incentive to stay faithful to her man. He isn’t much interested in female sexuality and I can’t exactly say “no” but he is considerate about my comfort and it is fun most of the time!
Skirts are my only real bugbear. I really, really thought that by now, if I wore pretty dresses when he took me out, then he’d allow me to wear jeans and trousers during the day, in fact I was counting on it. To my discomfort he remains adamant in keeping me in skirts, dresses and <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>nylon</A> 24x7. He says that wearing skirts predisposes me to a traditional relationship and a traditional role, whereas trousers – even occasionally – might lead me astray into some kind of unisex, feminist “equal rights” lifestyle. I don’t know. I admit that dresses and skirts and slips and <A HREF='http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/catalog/default.php/cPath/23_52' target='_blank'>stockings</A> are perfectly ordinary girls’ clothes and I’ve tried and tried to get used to them but I still feel a bit trapped to be honest. When I’m in a skirt I can simply never forget what I’m wearing – but although I don’t enjoy it, maybe my skirt is the continuous reminder of my femininity that a reformed tomboy needs.
Guest wrote:I’m a fairly typical wife (and mum) but my husband is very opinionated on how he likes women to dress. He takes a big interest in what I wear and is very insistent that I always wear clothes which he regards as feminine and not too revealing. Partly to please him I started wearing skirts most of the time when we were going out and since we got married I wear one every day. It’s not a problem I’m used to it and generally like what I wear. Skirts are also perfectly practical and comfortable as long as you wear the right things for what you’re doing.
It’s always important for both partners to try and please each other and I think how you dress is a very easy and obvious way of pleasing a man.
Women have always looked different from men and worn different clothes and it seems to me that this has now been replaced especially for teenagers by competing for attention by just showing more flesh, which can’t be such a great idea. I hope I’m not a prude and obviously what you do in private is another thing but personally I’m pleased that my husband prefers a bit of old fashioned modesty in public. I think women would get a lot more respect from men if they didn’t always assume that “less is more”.
So yes “wear a skirt to please your boyfriend” if it makes you both happy !
kristie wrote:Guest wrote:I’m a fairly typical wife (and mum) but my husband is very opinionated on how he likes women to dress. He takes a big interest in what I wear and is very insistent that I always wear clothes which he regards as feminine and not too revealing. Partly to please him I started wearing skirts most of the time when we were going out and since we got married I wear one every day. It’s not a problem I’m used to it and generally like what I wear. Skirts are also perfectly practical and comfortable as long as you wear the right things for what you’re doing.
It’s always important for both partners to try and please each other and I think how you dress is a very easy and obvious way of pleasing a man.
Women have always looked different from men and worn different clothes and it seems to me that this has now been replaced especially for teenagers by competing for attention by just showing more flesh, which can’t be such a great idea. I hope I’m not a prude and obviously what you do in private is another thing but personally I’m pleased that my husband prefers a bit of old fashioned modesty in public. I think women would get a lot more respect from men if they didn’t always assume that “less is more”.
So yes “wear a skirt to please your boyfriend” if it makes you both happy !
Skirts for men will only catch on when men become as brave, strong, determined, and self confident as women are. Women are not afraid to speak and act on whatever is on their minds. One of the many side effects of that is women can wear whatever they choose. Men basically are cowards who lack self confidence, and only gain their confidence and strength by what other men and women tell them and dictate to them. One of the many side effects is that regardless of what a man truly wants to wear and would be comfortable wearing, he wears what he is told to wear because he is afraid of other people and what they might say or do. Men like to claim they are the stronger and braver sex, but in reality they are weaklings and followers who do exactly what is expected of them. While that may not have been the case in days of old, clearly today women are the stronger, braver, bolder, and more confident sex, and are enjoying the benefits.
There is nothing more comfortable than wearing a skirt or dress on a hot day or evening or to an event where the air gets hot and stuffy because of a lot of people for the space provided.
Men, be as brave, bold, and self confident as women; forget about what you think other people expect and demand; be your own person, and make yourself happy and comfortable; start wearing whatever you believe you will be comfortable in now, and stop waiting for some one else to start the trend so you can wear it without fear. Gain the power and freedom of women.
Of course skirt and dress wearing does not come by itself. Hairly legs look horrible in a skirt, dress, shorts, or any other style exposing one's legs. So men, if you are going to become man enough to start wearing skirts, don't forget to shave your legs. When is the last time you saw a woman in a skirt or dress with hairly legs? And guys, not all women like to shave our legs. Chose whatever style you are comfortable with, but whatever you choose, wear it with class and style (do not cheapen it).
Latest Movie wrote:My wife wears what she wants, however she likes to look feminine and so usually chooses skirts and dresses.
When I met her she dressed modestly and I encouraged her to wear lower tops to show a bit of cleavage. At one point she went a bit over 'the top' such that, when viewed from the right position her nipples were on show. As much as it turned me on to see other guys ogling, I asked her about it. Her reply was that she thought it was what I wanted.
Nowadays, she chooses to dress showing a modest amount of cleavage.
My point being that she was choosing to please me. Now I hope she cohooses to please us both.
Incidently, when we go out, I invariably ask: "When am I wearing tonight?"
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