Mixed_up_Miss wrote:. wrote:another view wrote:
Reading this reminds me of my situation about 5 years ago. I was always in jeans or combats and never in a skirt or dress. The last straw came when I went out my boyfriend (now husband) to his works do in jeans. Everyone else was in a skirts or dresses!
From that point on he said he wanted me in skirts and we went shopping that weekend and he brought me a whole new wardrobe. I was kinda of fuming but agreed to it.
Getting use to tights and stockings was really annoying but once you start wearing them you get use to them. He did loads for me and we are now married with 2 kids and me as full time house wife. I love it. Looking back it was a compromise which I was pleased to do. tights still annoy me though and he just happens to have some sort of fetish for me wearing them. Oh well.
My advice, just switch to skirts. He will be happy and you will be.
Hi, thank you for sharing your story. Wow! I’m so happy that you’ve now got a house and a husband and a family! If I really believed it would make all the difference maybe I’d grit my teeth and wear a dress and stockings every day for the rest of my life!!! But I think real life is a bit more complicated…
Did you really used to hate skirts? How did you feel when you started wearing them and how long did it take you to get used to them? I‘m worried that it would really screw me up. I’m sorry you still dislike tights – they do get itchy and saggy don’t they? It’s a shame your husband makes you wear them but I guess that as he does a lot for you it’s a price worth paying!
You have NO IDEA the effect your post had on me.
My first thought was, oh no, after 5 years you still dislike wearing a skirt. Poor you! I'm sure I'll be exactly the same!
I then got angry with your husband for making you do something you don't like and I was puzzled why you put up with it.
But I finally realised how much I'd love to swap places with you! I'd have a man of my very own who loved me and who gave me a home and a family. He'd go out to work each day to support us and look after us. I'd stay and home and look after my babies, do all the laundry and ironing and cleaning, fix the meals and do the dishes. Okay, I'd have to pull on a skirt and stockings every day - no fun maybe, an annoyance maybe, but nothing to lose sleep over.
You've helped me get things in perspective. You wear a skirt out of love for you husband and because he gives you so much more.
Can I ask a couple of questions please?
Firstly, have you got used to skirts at all since you started wearing them? Please, please say yes!
Secondly, and I don't know if this makes sense, but has wearing a skirt changed the way you feel about yourself, or how you feel about you husband or how he treats you?
Hi There,
Glad your thinking about things.. As you say it is only a skirt. Reading your posts does remind me of you, I was so anti skirts or anything girly but things change. Having a lovely family, husband and children certainly changes things!
In answer to your questions, if I being honest skirts still annoy me... (sometimes). It's the accessories, like tights that can be a tad annoying. Hubby has got a fetish for tights. He is always buying me them, and now there more in fashion I have got loads. I wear hold-ups too and when we got out he likes me to wear stockings and garters which can be a bit fidly at times but they drive him wild.
Has wearing a skirt changed me? Yes. I do feel more submissive, kinda like wanting my husband to make all the decisions. Afterall he chooses my skirts. Another thing with skirts is he can have his wicked way when he wants, (well when the children are not around). He sometimes comes home at lunch and, well its a lot quicker to whip a skirt up!!
i'm rambling here, just go with it I would. You know if it feels right. Anyways you boyfriend might only want you to wear a skirt when you go out? Or does he want you to wear a skirt all the time. Hopefully he won't want you to wear tights! That can be pain.
Talk soon.
. He’s already bought me a girdle with horrible fiddly straps and buckles for the 
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! Some people say I should wear skirts all the time, others tell me to wear them on special occasions only (which obviously I’d prefer), but I get the message. I’m sure I’ll get used to it 
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