Loadstar wrote:Mixed_up_Miss wrote:My boyfriend took me shopping on Saturday and picked out 3 dresses and 3 skirts for me in just one shop and in under an hour. Typical male attitude to shopping I suppose!
As soon as we got home he told me to change into girdle and stockings, my new blue dress and high-heals. He was very excited but it’s been a long time since I had a skirt swishing around my legs and I felt a bit weird. It did make me look VERY different.
When he took me out last night he told me to wear my black pleated dress. I was shy and vulnerable in public but he was ultra-protective and made me feel special. I was very, very aware the whole evening that I was wearing a dress. I guess that we did look kike a proper couple and I did look like a “proper girlfriend”. He seemed more relaxed and more accepting. My wearing the dress shows we are different but brings us closer together if that makes any sense.
I offered to pay my share for the clothes but he won’t accept any money. He told me to “pay” him with housework. I’m no domestic goddess but he has given me my chance to prove that I can make a good contribution in the home.
I didn’t anticipate how restrictive a narrow pencil skirt would be - it really limits my ease and freedom of movement, particularly when worn with high heals. My girdle is surprisingly comfortable – I feel very “held in” – although the straps and buckles do become galling after a few hours particularly with a tight skirt. The garters are fiddly and annoying but the stockings themselves are pleasanter to wear than tights.
We have come to an agreement on hosiery – I’ll wear my girdle and stockings at weekends and whenever he takes me out, I’ll be free to wear tights at all other times.
He has really taken charge – he is taking me shopping in a week or 2 for more dresses and skirts, including the skirt outfits I’ll wear to work.
Wow he really has got into this. Looks like he has spent a lot of money on you. Can I ask, is he saying from now on you will always wear skirts or dresses, or do you just wear a skirt or dress when you go out. Looking back you don't live together right, so when you are on your on do you go back to trousers?
Also what do you wear to work, has he changed your work clothes as well?
So what do you prefer stockings or tights? Or what does he prefer?
Final question - are you happy with the changes?
Wow he really has got into this. Looks like he has spent a lot of money on you.
He is the youngest partner in his law firm so he’s not short of money, but yes he is very generous. He takes me to lovely restaurants, hotels, shows etc and never lets me pay for a thing.
Can I ask, is he saying from now on you will always wear skirts or dresses, or do you just wear a skirt or dress when you go out?
Well, its early days. I’m now wearing skirts or dresses when I’m with him but not necessarily at other times. He’d like me to wear them all the time, and if he did ask me to move in (which is what I really, really want), I guess I’d be under a lot of pressure to wear skirts / dresses full-time.
Looking back you don't live together right, so when you are on your on do you go back to trousers?
When I’m on my own I’m still usually wearing trousers although I have put on a skirt a couple of times - he says that if I wear skirts all the time I’ll get used to them sooner.
Also what do you wear to work, has he changed your work clothes as well?
I’m still wearing trousers to work. He says he’ll buy me some skirt-suits to wear to the office in place of my usual black trousers.
So what do you prefer stockings or tights? Or what does he prefer?
He likes me to wear the girdle, garters and stockings. tights are OK and he doesn’t like me going bare-legged. To be honest, the girdle is less onerous than I expected it to be, so I’m open-minded.
Final question - are you happy with the changes?
I have to say that I still don’t like skirts but I’ll wear them if it brings us closer together.
