THAT_GUEST wrote:Zia, for me it is more of a "toughen up" kind of thing. I mean for all these guys weeping about the size of their penis.....it's annoying and embarrassing, being a man, to hear another man whine like that. To date, surgeries can only increase size slightly and the way it is done can cause loss of feeling and worse, erectile disfunction! Pumps are dangerous. No pill or potion is available. Plastic surgeons have options for women, if they don't mind paying dearly, but damn little is done about the penis issue. So I go into STFU mode, because of these facts of life. Suck it up guys, these threads ar pointless. Make do with what you have. If a woman puts you down because of that, then you need to seriously get rid of her and keep looking.
Then come the ladies with their
breast size issues, there dislike for uneven or asymmetrical labia, and beauty concerns.....it's crazy. One of the basic rules of life is no one is perfect. This quest for perfection is bordering on dangerous to health. Big, Small, round, flat, perky, or saggy...if you got the cash you can get what you want. Most don't so we go back to square one. It can only be said so many times, by so many people before it becomes a waste of bandwidth and space. I know I don't have to open these things, but damn, just when does too much become TOO MUCH? The simple answer is never...not if nobody speaks up.
AMEN BROTHER TG! And I mean that. For me... you're preaching to the choir. I'm completely with you. Again, that's why I was bitch-n.
There seems (to me) to be more post by men about penis size,
breast size and vaginal odors, etc. more than by women. I can't figure out why some of my friends are spending thousands of dollars on fake boobs. It's their right but in my eyes it's crazy. There is another post that I'm sick of seeing....shaven or natural, smooth or not, muff or no muff? How many times does that need to be ask? What it comes down to is porn stars has set the standard for woman via men. That's f**king crazy. Men have come to think this is how a woman is suppose to look. Now I'm not going to say what my preferrance is because it doesn't matter and yes I know the argument/pros-cons for hair removal...sensitivity, hygiene and blah blah. In my view it's still the same thing...COMPARISON to others. I hate it!!!
I like dancing to my own beat but it doesn't change the fact that I'm expected to look a certain way in the eyes of some. I say F**K them although I can still fall into the trap. I'm turned on by the guy that totally into me and uninhibited. He doesn't have to have the body parts of a porn star or look like a movie star. I find it sexy when a guy is unique and different...not like every other bloke.
Back to the penis threads...I have a theory about them. I think these men get off on calling attention to their penis, no matter what the size, and they want others to take a peek and talk about it. Yet still, I can choose to skip by these threads and let others post in them. It's a forum for everyone. Perhaps a link could to be provided for seriously inquiries.
What I would like to see stop is the rude crap that is intentionally written to insult or belittle someone over and over and over again.
xxxo
